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Member Since: August 27, 2009
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okay so everyone keeps telling me i av ocd and i was curious about this "disease" so i looked up information on it and was thinking it may be possibly,okay so when i was younger i used to count and spell every thing like going down the highway i would count the cones on the side and i would go by stores and had to spell it quick before i passed it and and i would always step over the cracks in the side walk, i find myself still doing these things but not as much im a very very clean person my rom has to be perfect and my stuff is very orderly and sometimes ill pour something and i have to like pour it before the fridge door shuts and i cant have my mirror facing me when im on my bed... should i maybe go get this checked out or am i being paranoidid? (link)
Ok, so i have OCD. and it used to be a lot worse than it is now. I've leanred to controll it.
Funilly enogh,before i had OCD, I used to do the same things as you do.
And it elad to it. It might not happen with you as we're all different.
You shouldn't worry unless you get anxieties if you dont to the things you find yourself doing.
E.G
if you try not to "count the cones on the side " and you get anxieties afterwards, then try your best never to do those things again.
If you dont get anxieties, it might be just a way of ur body trying to feel theraputic.
Hope this works. x


I think I have an obsession

I stare at her picture all the time (though recently I've been able to control this a bit)
I think about her all the time 24/7. Though when I do some activities I enjoy, they leave my mind for a while, but then come back again.
I have fantasies about her
I keep thinking she don't like me or think I'm weird, which pains me so much.
If I was still in school, I would probably go out of my way just to see them or get a glimpse of them.
I feel so envious of their boyfriend. I keep wishing I was them. And, as wrong as this sounds, I wish her boyfriend would die. If that sounds sick and wrong I agree. I'm ashamed.

Does anyone have any helpful tips in curing myself of this? If you actually think I WANT to feel this way, you are dead wrong. (link)
Ok so basically doing things you enjoy takes your mind off her.
Keep doing those.
Think to yourself, the more you obsess, the more she will feel afraid to meet you.
Even though that might not be the case.
If you havn't met her before read on:
Smile at her and make an effort to say hi but not too often. See how many times you can just say hi without going to far. If she says hi back, then increase it by slightly waving and if she does that, then smile more and wave more and then etc etc u get the idea.
If you have met her before read on:
Don't be the first to say hi, if she makes some sort of attempt to make communication - let her know she can do by doing it back
I hope this helps if not I'm sorry, lol.




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