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I'm an 19 year old guy. I'm kinda shy. I happen to be Agnostic, funny, caring, and empathetic to people. A few personal beliefs of mine include but are not limited to:
I believe every person on earth has a purpose. They are ALL of mass importance even if we don't realize it or don't want it. We are all on this quest called life. It's difficult for everyone, I believe it is my responsibility to try to understand problems faced not only by me but by my fellow humans. I desire a full understanding of everyone's feelings. I know what true unhappiness is. I also know what true joy is. To fully understand one you must fully understand the other as well. No human can ever change another's personality, only their heart. I believe no person should ever feel unworthy of anything, only sorry for what they have done, willing to make it right, and do better next time.
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Location: Idaho Falls
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I'm looking for anime that consists of romance and action! Eg. Eureka 7 and Blood+

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Elfin Lied! My personal fav! It is a perfect blend of Cute, Carnage, Emotional involvement, romance, and hate. It is most defiantly a 18+ show though.

Another one of my all time favorites is called "The Melancholy of Haruhi Suzumiya." It is funny as hell with romance and action mixed in. Was ranked #1 show in Japan for a while there too! It's like a 13+ or something. Good clean fun!


16/f

i am lifeguarding this summer and this guy jake who is 18 and my manager keeps teasing me. i always thought he kind of liked me because my first day of working he would do almost ANYTHING to get my attention. he started teasing me about little things (ewww gross what is that you are eating?) but now it's gotten a lot worse (i heard you gave tim a blow job!) he also orders me to do stuff and clean things and says i'm "whipped" aka his bitch. He also asks me if i'm a virgin (which i told him i am) and if i think he's hot and asks things like, "would you rather have sex with matt or me?" now other guys who i work with start teasing me, nothing as intense as that but still bad like, "i heard you had sex with josh!" or other things. this girl i work with says for me to not listen to him or other guys and that they just want to get reactions out of me. i'm not fat and i'm definitely not ugly so i don't see why they are doing this! jake doesn't act like this with any other girls (even girls he likes) so WHY is he doing this to me?

also on rare occasions he actually talks to me and tells me personal stuff (haha like how many kids he wants...what he is doing the next day...how it bothers him when he hangs out with some girls they don't put forth an effort to look good and don't wear makeup because they see him as a friend and only that) and is nice to me but what is up with the random mood swings??

another thing that has happened is i asked to take off of work and he demanded why and then i told him i was going on a date with this guy and he kept asking who and i finally told him. the date wasn't for a few days but he kept asking "how was your date?" everytime i walked in.

p.s. he left for college today and i was like "bye, jake have fun in college!" and gave him a hug and he didn't hug back he just left his arms open and was like "AHHHH!" (like in disgust) and then as i was walking up to the stand he said, "BYE KELLY!"

he came in later that day and saw me sitting on this guy's lap who was really into me and he was yelled at me "you whore!" (the whole time i was mouthing "help" because i really was not interested in the guy at all and wanted to get away from him) i explained this to him later and another guard was listening and said, "she's your girl why don't you do something about it?" this same guard earlier today told me "i bet in college he is going to find someone just like you to yell at and mess with!" i am sooo confused with what he thinks about me, and why he and other guys mess with me! advice please?

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This is a prime example of sexual harassment. It is not always meant to hurt other people, and some people don't even realize they're harassing. It should most defiantly be dealt with though. If you are working for this jerk then I would report to HIS supervisor. This kind of behavior is unacceptable. Don't let ANYONE mess with you or get you down. You need to stand firm in your values, don't let a jerk win you over because of "Talkin dirty." That isn't a good kind of guy. Trust me.


Hi Guys, I read an article on gastric bypass and have a really pressing qn i need to ask.

In gastric bypass surgeries, the stomach is cut into two portions and the smaller portion is usally re-connected to the small intestine, while the larger unused portion is stapled close.

What I don't understand is, wont the unused pouch be exposed to the hydrochloric acid and eventually corrode or have its lining destroyed?

I tried to google it but I can't find any answers.

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Good question! I actually have the lap-band which is close to the same thing! I have researched both and the classes for it were the same. What happens with the gastric bypass is that, Yes, they do cut it, but the smaller "pouch" is connected to the small intestine, while the large "stomach" portion is connected at a lower part of the small intestine. How this works is the food fills the small pouch making you full, then food travels to the intestine where the acids from the stomach portion meet with it and it gets digested. So basically, The big part is still used. It just routes the food in a way that will fill you up and still digest properly. If you end up getting the surgery, I wish you the best!




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