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Does he like me or he just want something e;se
I started talking to this guy (Josh) last august. We are talking to each other until now. He is very sweet to me, we even enjoy talking to each other until morning. I have a huge crush on him, and he knows it. We talk about school, our favorite movies, books, philosophy in life etc. We have "something" but we are not committed. It's like a pseudo-relationship. Recently, he have been talking to me about mature subjects. He's told me that he is fantasizing about me. He's insinuating on having sex, he is a discreet person. He is not a virgin, but i am. Does he really likes me? Or he just want to get in my pants?
I know for a fact that he is sweet to other girls too. But he is different to me. He talks about mature stuffs.. And i don't know how to respond to those things. I want to ask him about us. But i am scared that our friendship will be gone, once i bring the subject up.
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I have learned you HAVE to be careful with guys. No matter how sweet or genuine they seem they are almost always open to the idea of sex. It sounds like he is attracted to you in more than one way based on the amount of time you guys talk and the nature of what is discussed but the fact that he brings sex up in that particular way is a red flag. I believe hes in it for sex. You are a virgin. Very noble thing. Do not give yourself up to just anyone. Especially not him. You deserve the best and I guarantee you when you think you have found it you will find something better.
Wait wait wait! I admire you. Stay strong. If he is a true friend and someone you need in your life then you will not lose your friendship with him over sex. It hard to lose friends but remember that you are number one in your life and keeping people around that compromise that idea have to go in order for you to grow as a person. I wish you luck in that he really will be a friend to you. Don't settle for less than you're worth.
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hey well it seems to me like he's only interested in becoming sexual. i don't know how old you are, or if he's actually into you, but I'll tell you one thing. When a guy starts talking about sex and says things to you that are sexual he's more interested in knowing if he can he get in your pants. You can either a.) change the subject or b.) just stop talking to him. i hope i helped.
nikita the cheetah♥
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