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Mom wants me gone
I was the girl who wrote earlier asking for help on how to get along better with my mom.
This morning we got in a fight over a lunch box, a stupid lunch box. Now she told me she wishes I were never born her child.
Its so hard to stay in this house with someone that would say something like that to you.
I don't know what to do. My dad won't listen either.
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I can not believe you Mother told you that Moms these days are very mean, try just being nice to her try going up to her and just giving her a hug, it might not be you she is mad at maybe it is something else and she needs a hug, if that does not work talk to her and ask her the question do you really wish I was never born, have I not brought any joy into your life, also spend time with her go to lunch to bowling ect. Hope you mom realizes that life is to short and you need to enjoy every day with your kids.
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How old are you? Fighting can get out of hand...especially when people are under stress and say things that they don't really believe to be true, but say them to vent. This escalation of emotions needs to stop, so that you both can live in peace together and deal with disputes in a mutually respectful fashion. The easiest answer may also be the hardest to do. Quit arguing with your mom. Just let her have her say and walk away. Later when you are both calm, you can bring up the subject in a respectful tone and ask her when she may be more receptive to your side of things. This is going to be challenging for you, but it is the quickest way to stop the fighting. Take a few long deep breaths and hold your tongue. We all need to learn to do this more, not just you....in this case, to change your circumstance immediately, you will have to be the one to find the inner strength to do this. Hopefully your mom will learn from your behavior and follow suit eventually. Good luck and be strong.
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Aww! That's so sad. I would talk to your mom about your feelings and if that dosen't work, i would consider living with another relative like aunts, uncles, grandmas and grandpas. Hope this helps!
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i know how you feel. me and my mom always don't get along but we always talk about. you should talk to your mom and tell her what's bothering you. im pretty sure if you two to talk that'll help solve the problems you two have.. i hope i helped!!
nikita
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Have you tried talking to another family member? Like a grandmother, or an uncle, or something? I really don't know what else you can do besides ask for help.
Maybe if other family members won't help, go to a friend's parent or another adult you trust. Tell them that you cannot live with your mother any more, but nobody will help you.
Don't be afraid to ask for help from a parent's mom or somebody who is not a family member, either. If you need help, ask for it.
-Laura. (16-f)
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