I am just curious as to why guys just flat out stop talking to you? Why can't they at least have the decency to be like, "Hey this isn't working time to move on." ? Explain please.
AdviceMistress answered Wednesday March 10 2010, 10:59 am: A lot of them are just scared and can't handle feelings. It's easier for them to just forget about you...where as women we seem to be all about feelings and wanting to work things out. Guys are just programmed differently I guess. My boyfriend and I may have a bit of a fight and if I mention it again he'll say "I don't want to talk about it" or "Forget about it". That to me sounds as though he just doesn't want to talk about it because of the way he feels about it or he just doesn't want to bother. [ AdviceMistress's advice column | Ask AdviceMistress A Question ]
justbreathelove answered Tuesday March 9 2010, 6:20 pm: I think most men are afraid of the responsibility that they see coming when they start to really get into a relationship. It's a commitment thing. If he doesn't have the decency to tell you himself that it's not working and give you some kind of explanation, don't waste your time worrying about why he left. He wasn't worth it. [ justbreathelove's advice column | Ask justbreathelove A Question ]
annon answered Tuesday March 9 2010, 5:03 pm: Because we want a relationship to last but when it comes to doing somthing about ending it, some of us dont know how to do it propperly and so just ignore who ever it may be and hope they will go away. Which isnt the nicest nor best idea.
depending on the guy he's probably embarassed/afraid to tell you because he still respects and likes you as a person but doesnt want to see you hurt when the bad news has been let in.
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