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Either talk to him or get some one else talk to him for me ?
Heyy, So there this guy that I have seen since september and I always think he's soo cute and some of my friends are firends with him . But I'm not good friendss with them so I can't really just go up and start talking to him. So I have a couple options, tell my friend that i think he's cute and to talk to him for me? Or they are on the track team and so are my friends but there not friends with himbut they know that I think he's cute so they think I should go to track and try out so I can talk to them bout track and well be on the same team, but the thing is... I hate running and I am really bad so I would probly embarrass myself? And if you do say the first one .. What do I tell my friend to say to him to seem I interested but not creepy ?
Thanks
Kaaitlyn
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Well, although I usually advise someone not to change who they are for someone they want to date, I would say you should join the track team.
There are more events in track and field than just running. Shot put, discus, javelin, lots of jumps, and so on. Besides, only one person wins a race. Just because you arent the best does not mean you will embarrass yourself. Everyone comes in second, third, or even last once in a while. You may even be good at it, once you train a little, and running is one of those things thats sucks if you rarely do it, but feels good if you train in it.
You will not only give yourself the chance to get to know the guy better, and see if you really like him, but extra exercise is just plain good for you. You can always quit if you really hate it, but you never know, you might actually like it once you get over the initial suffering. ;)
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Hey well, in my opinion, i don't agree that you should let someone talk to him cause that usually might cause problems, like for example, if you never get a reply back cause he's not interested, and then you'd be really upset and you'd be embarassed cause he'd know you think he's cute and he might tell his friends and then you'd start trying to avoid him and stuff. I'm not trying to scare you here or anything, but these things usually happen, or that when you send a friend to talk to him, he falls for your friend instead of you, and i know you probably think this is so movie-like, but its not, it happens in real life, tell me about it.
And i also don't think that you should join the track, cause its something your not interested in, and its really hard and sweaty lol and yes embarassing,never do something for someone! so what you should do is, to go up and talk to him in school when you see him, seeing that you are friends with some of his friends, even if your not close to them, maybe you can get a bit closer to them, and hang out with them, and then when they're with him, you introduce yourself and get to know him, and then later on, he'd recognize you and greet you when he sees you which would develop to small talks and conversations, and you'd get to be friends, and this is the first step, don't jump to conclusions, its never about the appearance, not just cause he's cute, you'd go out with him,sometimes people are different when you know them than when you see them from a distance, so know him first, be friends with him, and then see if you still like him in the same way, and you never know, if it works out, maybe he'd tell you first that your cute and that he wants to go out with you. So take it slowly.
If you need any other help, please be free to contact me. Best of luck.
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I think you should talk to him yourself. i read somewhere that getting someone else to talk to a guy for you makes you look desperate. & just be yourself don't join the track team just be cause he's on it & you don't like running, you know? If he's in your classes maybe you can start a conversation with him, or get one of your friends to introduce you to him instead of talking to him for you. hope i helped!
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It would be much better for you to talk to him yourself. It shows confidence. As for joining track just to be able to have something to talk to him about, don't do that, either. Plus, in a way, that would be you pretending to be someone you're not. Be yourself and be confident. I'm sure there are other things you could talk to him about. Ask him what kind of music he likes, what he likes to do in his spare time, what his hobbies are, things like that. Good luck.
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