about

hey
youll never meet anyone like me. never, ever
i smile alot and im usually happy
i hate bitches and backstabbers and liars
if you havent danced in the rain then you havent lived
i dont think im better then anyone else
im not conceited
music is my obsession
i like any kind of music exept country
rap is my favorite though
my favorite band is panic at the disco
i laugh all the time dont ask me why cuz i dont know either
you can love me or you can hate me you chose
either way i dont care
you can talk shyt about me all you want but atleast tell it to my face. i hate when girls stand 3 feet away from you and start whispering about you when you are right next to them how gay is that?
i love boys who couldnt
my friends are the best people and if yhu break there heart i break yhur face
i will die for my friends i love them so much ill do anything
i dont trust people easily and i have my reasons theres about 3 people in the whole world that i actually trust
i cant hold grudges at all. i can only stay mad for 2 hours then i act like nothing happened
thats just how i am
i go to western hills. drama is what some people call fun there
drama suxx so dont bring it to my page or anywhere near me
when i first meet people im kinda shy but if i like you ill talk alot more
im not shy around my friends at all im so loud and they know that
if your gunna judge me before you even meet me then fuck off because i dont want nuthin to do with you
im not here to steal your boyfriend, the Retarted store just called, they want there drama back.
boys, dont try to give me pathetic lies and say you love me when you dont
if i tell you i love you i mean it
yes kissing in the rain is so romantic
i would say im a prep. i mostly wear only abercrombie and fitch and hollister and stores like that
i dont care what you think of me becas of that
i love coach louis vuitton and d&b and all that stuff
sometimes im reely nice one minute and bitchy the next
but ill always be nice to you unless theres a reason not to be
i cant live without my cell phone. fact
i love soccer ive played forever
i fall in love easily thats not always a good thing
i like to meet new people
so if you wanna get to know me then please do so
if you want to know more about me then message me .
i dont want people getting the wrong idea of who i am
you probably didnt learn anything about me from reading this
if you havent met me,you could read this over and over again for the rest of your life and you still wouldnt know anything about me
so dont message me saying you know me when you dont and dont tell me that we are alike because we are most likely very different
reading this was probably a waste of your time
can you motha truckas please get over your selfs?
kaythanksbye =]

advice

19/f
I lost my virginity to my boyfriend a few days ago in the shower. I happened to notice some blood trickling down the drain. It wasn't a lot, but it was enough to concern me. Is that normal? Please tell me!

Hi..

This is completely normal! It just means that you broke your hymen. Usually when you have sex, your hymen breaks (unless you broke it by doing sports or tampons) and for some girls a little blood comes out, and for some more blood comes out. So yeah, nothing to worry about.

naturally_sadie

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If you're IMing someone you don't really know...like you've never met them..but you know they're who they say they are..is that bad?

Theres nothing wrong with it. But just don't give out your name or anything personal like that. They might seem like good people online, but they could also be a stalker. Have fun chatting!

naturally_sadie

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14/female
okay me and my boyfriend have been ggoing out for a month and 7 days. we live right up the street from each other and we make out all the time and he has doe other stuff to me than kiss me( if u know what i mean) and we r still virgins though bt anyways he wants me do do more i think i might know what he wants me to do but im just to scared to make the move what do i do????

Hi.

I know your not going to like my answer but I'm just going to tell you the truth and if you don't like the truth you can rate me low because you don't want to face that I possibly could be right.

14 is WAY too young to be having sex. Your still not completely mature enough for sex and you shouldn't be having sex to atleast 17, 18 or 19 years old. You could always break up with him from now until you guys get married, and you will most likely regret it if you lose your virginity to him and then break up a week later. Loosing your virginity is a really big thing although people throw it around like its nothing. Don't you want it to be special? It may seem like the best idea now, but in 5 years your probably going to wish you hadn't done it. Are you ready for all of the responsibilites that sex will bring? You can easily get pregnant and if you have a baby, what are you going to do with it? Have an abortion? Give it away for adoption? Keep it and nurse it? How are you going to tell your PARENTS that you're pregnant? Will they approve? Are you ready to handle those questions? Even if you guys have condoms and you go on birth control, theres still a slight chance you will get pregnant and yes it happens. The condom could break and you won't know and if the condom breaks your having unprotected sex and even a MORE likely chance you'll get pregnant. You see plenty of things could happen and go wrong after you have sex. You could get pregnant, or you'll most likely regret it later on. Also, do you think your ready to have sex? When you're ready you shouldn't be scared. You said "im just to scared." Well if your frightened even the least bit then you, my friend are NOT ready to have sex. If you were ready you wouldnt have had to ask a question on advicenators about this. You would have had NO doubts. This is a red flag warning that you are NOT READY.

I'm sorry if you think I'm talking total BS but I'm just telling you the truth. Rate me low if you want to be ignorant, but I really hope you make the right choice.

naturally_sadie

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I had my period on 10 of this month and on 21st i had sex without taking precaution. Nowi am tense that i might get pregnant coz i think he cum inside a bit. could you please advice me what should i do now for me not to get pregnant and is it a safe period. i am 33 yrs old

Hi....

Well, make sure you go on birth control. Birth control is only 97% efficient, so theres still a chance your can get pregnant, but only 3%. You can get the pills from Planned Parenthood. You should wait a little bit and then take a pregnency test and if it comes out negative, you probably arn't pregnant. Also, see your doctor and ask him about anything else you can do.

Hope I helped,
naturally_sadie

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ok so i just got my tetenus shot today and i know your arm is supposed to be soar, and mine is. its really tight feeling and stuff, and i was wondering if there was any way i can relieve some of the tightness or if i just have to wait it out

Hi...

I got my tetnus shot last year, and sadly I was in the same position you were. My doctor told me that I'm going to have to deal with the pain and wait it out. Luckily, the soreness only lasted a day for me, so hopefully you'll be as fortunate as me and tommarow your arm should feel good as new! Sorry that I couldn't help. But theres no miracle workers that can just zap away the pain of your arm. It would be cool if there were any though. =]

naturally_sadie

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Well, last summer I met this guy at camp and he seemed really sweet, so we started hanging out. After a while we started dating and after about a month we had sex. After, we broke up and this guy at my school asked me out. He's really sweet and I like him a lot, but I still have feelings for the guy I met at camp. Then about a week after I started dating the other guy, the guy I met at camp wanted to get back together. Do you think I should get back together with him or is he just using me for sex? I really like the other guy and he's never mentioned sex once and he told me he loved me, what do I do?

Hi....

I say don't give the guy you had sex with another chance. It's obvious he just wants more sex. I would go out with the guy from school because there arn't many guys that are like him, so don't let him slip away and get him while hes still available! Your so lucky because me and so many other girls would KILL to have a guy as sweet as him.

naturally_sadie

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ok like i have big bags or circles i dont know what there called under my eyes. and people say to get rid of them you have to get some more sleep. but all i do is sleep. like i go to bed around 10 pm or 11 pm then i wake up the next day at like 11 am. i get like 12 hours asleep per nite or even more. so i was just wonderin how do i get them to go away? i eman there not bg but there dark. it makes me look like bad or like im on drugs or whatever so it like changes my appearance. sorry if this is in the rong category. so... does anyone know like what to do?? thanks

Maybe you're getting too much sleep? Maybe try to cut it down to 8-9 hours of sleep for a couple of days and see if they go away. If they don't I would just cover it with make up or freeze a spoon and when its frozen put it on your eyes. Thats all I could think of.

Hope I was helful!
naturally_sadie

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i invited my friend to come down to the beach with me. everytime i invite her down, she always asks if this other girl is going to. why would she ask that if i never mentioned that other girl gong? that makes me think that she doesn't want to go down with just ME, and sometimes i can't invite 2 people. anyone know why she might be saying this?

I have a friend like that too. She always has to bring another friend with her if I invite her to go somewhere with me. It's really annoying, but I guess some people are really insecure like that and they can't do anything unless there bestfriend is by there side. I would sit her down and say, I really want to hang out with you alone. I like your other friend, but I can't always take 2 people so sometimes you just have to make a sacrifice so we can just hang out alone. I never see you with just you anymore, your always with your other friend. Sometimes it makes me feel like you don't like me. Yeah, thats all you have to say. It's not that she doesn't like you of course, it's just that shes insecure. She doesn't think she can breathe without her other friend. Some people are just like that, so if it really bothers you, then talk to her about it.

Hope I was helpful..
naturally_sadie

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Im getting my belly naval pierced tomorrow and i was wondering on a scale 1 - 10. 10 being the worst.. how bad did it hurt? Im kind of nervous but I just want a heads up thing. Thanks in advanced

My friend got hers pierced about a month ago or so, and she said it was only about a 2 maximum 2.5. So I wouldn't worry about it because she said it barely hurt at all! Just don't forget to clean it.

naturally_sadie

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I've been told in the past that I have a whiny voice by many (even my ex boyfriend guRR). I've also been compared to Karen on Will&Grace. Now I know my voice is my voice but still, is there anything I can do about it?

Hi..

You can't really change how your voice sounds. It's impossible. Just talk normal instead of whining so you won't be refferred to as "Karen." If you don't get what you want, before you open your mouth and start whining like you usually would in a situation like that, just slowly put whining aside and make your best effort to talk in your normal voice. If you think before you act, it will be much easier not to whine. Thats really all you can do.

naturally_sadie

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im 13/f
--im really self contious and i keep on askin my friends wat they think and stuff like that
--then when i do it alot they think im annoyin and dont like me anymore but they dont tell me
--and sumtimes i feel that my friends look like they're so put together and im the one thats stressing over wat i look like
--can sum1 help me! tell me how i can stop annoyin my friends and stop bein jealous all the time and how do i get my friends to like me again

Hi,

Tell your friends that you don't mean to annoy them and that you are really sorry for bugging them about how you look. They probably do the same to other people, so I don't see why they would get mad. Every single person whos ever wal;ked on this earth is somewhat self contious about the way they look, so its totally something every one can relate to. Your friends will understand that you care about your appearence and you don't mean to get them annoyed. =]

naturally_sadie

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Im not fat i dont need to lose weight .. but I have a really bad double chin. Any way to get rid of it?

Hi....

If you want to lose your double chin, then eat really healthy and excersize 5 times a week and do alot of cardio like running dancing walking and swimming and that will help you burn off fat all over your body, including your chin/face.

naturally_sadie

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well I have this big problem that I flirt whenever, because I was just talking with this person that I don't "like-like" he's just okay, well anyway I realized after that I was sorta flirting and I realized I do it a ton, with out trying, and I am sending those people the wrong message, can someone help me with my problem, is it normal, I am way confused, thanks

That's totally normal and I have a big problem with that too, haha! Theres not really a way to stop it because some people like you and me are just big flirters and theres nothing wrong with us. If they get the wrong message, and ask you out just say sorry but my heart is already taken or something like that. You don't need to worry about it, so just keep on flirting. =]

naturally_sadie

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When you are getting fingured do you just laying there and do nothing else? like make out

It depends on what you and the guy like to do. You can just lay there if you want, or you could kiss a little bit while he fingers you, but it might be harder that way. It's all about what you like.

naturally_sadie

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out of opinion, would you say that 5'4'' was tall or short for a 15 year old girl?

Yeah, thats average height for your age.

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Hi, everyone. I'm trying to diet, and I know water is key. I can usually only drink 2 bottles a day, and I really have to force myself to get it down. (I hate the taste of water..none) Haha, so I was wondering, are there any other drinks I could have that maybe include lots of water but have some taste to them? I've heard unsweeted Iced Tea & Lemonade, Gatorade. I also have these little Koolaid packets I pour into water bottles, and that makes me drink them so fast, & they are only 30 cals! Any other suggestions?

Hi.

I'm so exited to answer this question because I have the perfect answer!! Try Vitamin Water! It is sooo good for you and there's like A MILLION different flavors of it, lemonade, straw berry, kiwi, anything you can think of. My doctor reccomended it and it doesnt have alot of added sugar. Trust me, it doesnt taste like water at all, and its 20 times healthier then Kool-aid. You can find it at a local supermarket in the water section.

Hope I helped.
naturally_sadie

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- I was the one with astral projecting question. I'm sorry, this might be a long question.
I tried it last night and did exactly what you have to do .. rest your body but not your head, concentrate & focus. I got to the point where I was vibrating like crazy and I seriously I felt like I was going to die. But from that point on I had no idea how to lift myself. I broke myself from it and woke up because I was afraid, but I calmed myself down and tryed again. This time, I didn't virbrate nearly as much as I did before but I felt like I was lifting my legs out of my pyhisical body. I wasn't strong enough so I coudn't bring anything else up. I have no idea if I'm doing it wrong or if I'm even doing it at all. Once you do seperate, are you supposed to be able to see? I know you close your eyes to concentrate .. but how are you supposed to open your eyes once you actually do seperate? I just got really interested and felt spontanious so I gave it a try without really being educated on what to do. thanks (:

Hi.

I've tried doing it before, because my auntie was showing me how to do it like 5 years ago, and I don't remember much at all, but I'm sure I opened my eyes once I seperated. Open your eyes slowly, so you don't get out of it. You should try to astral project again and try it my way, because it definitely worked for me. I forgot exactly how I did it because it was a while back, but I did remember that part.

I hope I helped.
naturally_sadie

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I saw someone on this site asking about an astral projection problem and I became curious. I looked up a site on what you need to do/what happens and I tried last night to do it. What happened was extremly scary & I need someone who has done it to help me with some issues I'm having. thanks

Well, I really would like to help you, but I need to know, what happened last night? Then I can help you.

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im 13,and i want to make some money any ideas???

Hi.

- Baby sitting.
- Walking dogs.
- Bake sale.
- Lawn mowing.
- Car wash.
- Lemonade stand.
- Yard sale.
- Sell stuff on ebay.
- Watch pets while people go on vacation.
- Help out around the house (doing dishes etc.)
- Make jewelry with beads and stuff.
- Deliver newspaper.

Yeah, theres tons of ways to make money. You just need to use your imagination and find things your interested in. Baby sitting is the most popular thing for teenagers, so if you want to make loads of money and you like kids, then thats the job for you.

Hope I helped.
naturally_sadie

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Im am kendra and im 13 years old and i am on my period today. everytime im on my period i cramp and i don't tell my mom because she overreacts like when i was 10 and i first came on it she got so mad because i messed up my underwear!! im still cramping and as i type i cramp and cramp should i tell her or not

You should definitely tell your mom, because she's been through it too and she should know how you feel. She shouldn't over react because it's normal to cramp when you get your period, and its not your fault that your a girl. You cant help that you're in pain. She knows what its like to be a teenager and maybe she can give you some tips on how to prevent the pain from hurting so much.

naturally_sadie

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