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stuff other than kissing
14/female
okay me and my boyfriend have been ggoing out for a month and 7 days. we live right up the street from each other and we make out all the time and he has doe other stuff to me than kiss me( if u know what i mean) and we r still virgins though bt anyways he wants me do do more i think i might know what he wants me to do but im just to scared to make the move what do i do????
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When he asks you to do something, make sure you both talk about it. Just don't say yes, and have you regret it later. That's not always good. But, when you talk about it, make sure that you don't think that you're both too young. And also if you think about another thing, like parent's, siblings, and relatives, then how are you going to get it done if you have them around (that's if you both agree to it). So i think that you two should talk over it and make sure that you're both comfortable with it.
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ashBObashx3zach
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You shouldnt try to make any move. You are 14 years old! If you do decide to have SEX, you need to make sure you are ready in case you get pregnant. And, at the age of 14, I dont think you are. If your too scared to make a move, your deffinitly too scared to have sex. You've been together a month and 7 days, and your relationship is going really fast. My best friend and her boyfriend, who are 16 and 15, started MAKING OUT when they were 3 months together. So, maybe this guy is rushing things a bit. And, You probably didnt like my advice at all, and I'm sorry. I'm just trying to help you understand about the precautions and stuff. If you didnt like my advice, dont rate me. Happy Summer.
-Brina
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Hi.
I know your not going to like my answer but I'm just going to tell you the truth and if you don't like the truth you can rate me low because you don't want to face that I possibly could be right.
14 is WAY too young to be having sex. Your still not completely mature enough for sex and you shouldn't be having sex to atleast 17, 18 or 19 years old. You could always break up with him from now until you guys get married, and you will most likely regret it if you lose your virginity to him and then break up a week later. Loosing your virginity is a really big thing although people throw it around like its nothing. Don't you want it to be special? It may seem like the best idea now, but in 5 years your probably going to wish you hadn't done it. Are you ready for all of the responsibilites that sex will bring? You can easily get pregnant and if you have a baby, what are you going to do with it? Have an abortion? Give it away for adoption? Keep it and nurse it? How are you going to tell your PARENTS that you're pregnant? Will they approve? Are you ready to handle those questions? Even if you guys have condoms and you go on birth control, theres still a slight chance you will get pregnant and yes it happens. The condom could break and you won't know and if the condom breaks your having unprotected sex and even a MORE likely chance you'll get pregnant. You see plenty of things could happen and go wrong after you have sex. You could get pregnant, or you'll most likely regret it later on. Also, do you think your ready to have sex? When you're ready you shouldn't be scared. You said "im just to scared." Well if your frightened even the least bit then you, my friend are NOT ready to have sex. If you were ready you wouldnt have had to ask a question on advicenators about this. You would have had NO doubts. This is a red flag warning that you are NOT READY.
I'm sorry if you think I'm talking total BS but I'm just telling you the truth. Rate me low if you want to be ignorant, but I really hope you make the right choice.
naturally_sadie
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qwll just let it play out, well kissing let your hand wander and see where it goes but i must remind you.
Dont do anything YOU don'y want to do, you guy will wait for you if you ask him, it's importeant not to rush.
when i first hinted to my girl i wanted to more she said ok, but up untill that momment when it happened i made sure she was doing it not just because of me,
Don't do somthing you don't want to do for a guy you've been goin with for only about a month, regrets suck so try to do what you want, not what he wants.
GoodLuck, be safe
Jon a.K.a GateKeeper
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