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CAN'T STOP FLIRTING!
well I have this big problem that I flirt whenever, because I was just talking with this person that I don't "like-like" he's just okay, well anyway I realized after that I was sorta flirting and I realized I do it a ton, with out trying, and I am sending those people the wrong message, can someone help me with my problem, is it normal, I am way confused, thanks
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As far as I know, there isnt really anyway to stop. Just be yourself and take life as you want to. Signals dont matter too much, its all about communication. If you make it clear you dont like someone like that than you dont really have anything to worry about. Just keep doing what your doing.
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Well I like you am a flirter. It is fun to me. But you have to do it in a way that the person receiving the flirts knows it is all done in fun. If not you could get hurt someone or get yourself hurt because someone doesnt have it all or takes your innocent flirting for more than it is.
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Hi, yes it is normal to flirt. Whatever messages your giving, just don't give them. Just be friendly and be yourself. Daniel.
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That's normal because that's just who you are. I wouldn't consider it a huge problem, just as long as you don't convince the world you like them. :)
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who the hell cares have fun have sex with a few guys no big deal just tell them you were drunk always works for me say you didn't know what you were doing
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That's totally normal and I have a big problem with that too, haha! Theres not really a way to stop it because some people like you and me are just big flirters and theres nothing wrong with us. If they get the wrong message, and ask you out just say sorry but my heart is already taken or something like that. You don't need to worry about it, so just keep on flirting. =]
naturally_sadie
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look for real for real, it doesnt matter how much you flirt or "seem" to be flirting with anyone, its all in fun... there is no "message"... and if some idiot guy thinks there is a "message" you tell him theres not and he just better respect that
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hey!
haha i have the same exact problem!
what I do when im in this situation is i try to ask, "so how's your love life" and they will say something, then ask you the same question back, in which case you say "im kind of talking to someone" so they get a hint that you arent exactly available, even if you arent talking to anybody. it works everytime! good luck =]
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dont worry hun yes it is normal. quite alot of people do it. there is no harm in flirting and if people get the wrnog stick it is best to tell them staight that your sorry and you didnt mean anything from it. dont try change the way you are. just be careful cus there are people who can get fucked up bout things like that.
have fun.
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Theres not really a way. Unless you realluy focus and try to stop yourself when you catch yourself doing it. But, i think its pretty natural for girls to do it.
Good luck
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Really there isnt a way too stop it unless you stay away from guys which i couldnt do!!**tosh123***&hearts
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