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friends and beach
i invited my friend to come down to the beach with me. everytime i invite her down, she always asks if this other girl is going to. why would she ask that if i never mentioned that other girl gong? that makes me think that she doesn't want to go down with just ME, and sometimes i can't invite 2 people. anyone know why she might be saying this?
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I have a friend like that too. She always has to bring another friend with her if I invite her to go somewhere with me. It's really annoying, but I guess some people are really insecure like that and they can't do anything unless there bestfriend is by there side. I would sit her down and say, I really want to hang out with you alone. I like your other friend, but I can't always take 2 people so sometimes you just have to make a sacrifice so we can just hang out alone. I never see you with just you anymore, your always with your other friend. Sometimes it makes me feel like you don't like me. Yeah, thats all you have to say. It's not that she doesn't like you of course, it's just that shes insecure. She doesn't think she can breathe without her other friend. Some people are just like that, so if it really bothers you, then talk to her about it.
Hope I was helpful..
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Hey there.. About your question well.. There are possible problems. 1. She may feel uncomfortable with being alone with you. Sometimes it takes girls awhile before they feel completly comfortable around a guy before they can feel confident to hang out with you alone. She might even feel uncomfortable for some other reason besides you, like maybe he being in a bathing suit around people, just for being the only girl there or maybe she doesnt like the attention. So dont be offended. Another reason could just be the other girl. She may or may not get along with her or maybe the other girl infulences her maybe by wich swimsuit to where or just the topics you guys may talk about. The other girl may like you or your friend may like you more than you think, and maybe she realizes it or something. Im sorry us girls have to be complicated. I think the best way to actually find out the right reason is only by asking. But be careful about how you ask. But i hope i helped.
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well I have a similar problem .One of my friends is the same way. you cant invite her any were witout her friend april tagging along!!!!!!!!! sory but i dont know wat to do eather so if u get some advice tell me!!!PLEASE
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Well maybe she wants to know if that girl is going because she doesn't like that one girl or they don't get along that much. The only way you will find out for sure though is to just ask her. Good luck- ems
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Dont jump to conclusions. She might not like the other person. Maybe they dont get along or something. The best thing to do is just talk to her about it. Tell her how you feel and things will fall into place. Hope I have helped :]
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