ok so i really like my mums friend hes like her bestfriend im 18 and hes in his 30s or something and i really like him, when he looked in my eyes before all i wanted to do was kiss him i know it sounds sick but i really like him and want to see him again. He said to my mum i he was younger he would go for me anyday!! My mum got annoyed and they had a argument and are friends again but i never see him i want to and you know the worst bit when i masterbate i think of him.Someone help please. Oh yeh and i just want to kiss him badly.
However, it honestly sounds to me that what you have here is a crush. Consider the real-life consequences if the two of you actually did get together, not the least of which is the rift that would form between you and your mother. Also consider that he may not see you as potential girlfriend material; he said that "if he were younger" he would go for you. Assume that he's telling the truth, and that means that the if-I-were-younger part also needs to be taken into consideration.
jumadel answered Friday July 21 2006, 9:34 pm: Hi, I know you like him but he will probaly want to mix with girls his own age. I suggest you do the same thing. Daniel. [ jumadel's advice column | Ask jumadel A Question ]
orphans answered Friday July 21 2006, 8:56 pm: all i gotta say is you're 18 and he's 30. that right there should throw you off of it. and if not well there's not much i can say other than your mom would be pissed off at you, and you know he's your mom's friend and you'd be ruining their friendship for your own gain. i say find someone else. i know that the ratio of girls to guys in england is 4-1 and based on your use of the word mum you're english. so good luck. [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
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