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Hey Everyone. My name is Barbie. I am 22. Working full time and in college. I'm here to give advice to serious questions, not to share my whole life story. I've not been active until recently. All of the questions I've answered on here, as you see are very old and out dated. I will no longer answer silly questions, but only more serious ones. If you want my opinon, ask me a question. I'm 100% honest to the best of my knowledge, blunt, and to the point. If that's what you're looking for, then you've come to the right place. If not, then my apologies, but you can go to some one else who will sugar coat things for you and make you hear what you want to hear.



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i want to go for the preppy look this coming school year
like how should i dress to look preppy and what stores could i shop at that are not expensive
and could you please give me the website to the stores
thanks

**Hollister
**American Eagle
**Aeropastale
Old Navy
Kohls
Burlington
*Rave
*Deb
*Rainbow
*Wet Seal


You can get preppy clothes just about anywhere. Those are some prep stores though. Have fun!
** = prolly best place to go prep
* = dressier type preppy stuff

hope it helps.

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Since it's summer and school is gonna start soon I wanna get a killer tan by tuesday! I'm really white. Like as white as it gets, by /i can tan sum what easily. I wanan get really dark, as dark as I possibly can get. What should I do? Should I go out in the sun evening today, all day sunday, monday, and tuesday and then put on an artificial tan? If so, what tan should what tanning product should I use? And what type of product works best.. spray or a lotion? Thank-you very much!

x0

Well you can go out in the sun all day until you start school. then maybe in the evenings go to a tanning salon and get artificial tanning to get darker. and then you can keep your tan if you keep going to a tanning salon. but when your out in the day, it works best if you don't think about how tan your getting. forget about getting the tan, go out and get busy doing some yard work, go swimming, ride a bike, go for a walk or a jog. and youll get the sun. but the more you think the more impatient you get and the more you realize that worrying about it doesnt help get you any tanner. thinkin about it truthfully doesnt help tan you, it only makes it worse cause you think youve been out there long enough and BAM! your tan... so just do something to keep your mind off things. hope it helps.

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Ok this is weird...well to me it is, About 2 weeks i had the most scariest dream of my life, it was during the morning and it was like 100' degrees outside... When i woke up my hands were beyond freezing, i didnt understand it because well since it was so hot out i was sweating and i was only in a room with one fan.... OK so heres what i want to know, all i know is that i had a wicked scary dream nothing else but then when i think about the dream i always see this one part in my head of a girl (not me, no idea who she is) screaming at the top of her lungs... and some guy (i only see him just standing there)but he has like a look of hatred on his face like hes a scary dude (hah) i only remember these 2 glimses... its a night and it just really bothers me because ill think of the dream at random times and then thats what i see.... ANY IDEAs on what this could mean??

No. I personally have no clue what it could mean. But dreams have many many different meanings.
I do know one thing, that if you keep having this dream over and over again... You can tell someone about the dream and you wont dream it anymore. It sounds crazy, yes I know. I didn't believe it when i heard it, but I tried it once after having the same dream 3 different times in a matter of a week and a half. After I told that dream out, I havnet had it since. And that has been months ago.
But yeah, after rambling on... I don't know what it could mean. But maybe if you try to remember the whole dream and tell it out to someone, it would help. Who knows...
Dreams are visions that tell a story about something you want to happen, about something that has already happened, or something that may happen sometime or somewhere to someone.
The only real person who could figure out what it is about, would be you. You got to try and think about it and re think the whole dream. Maybe put some bits and pieces together and youll figure it out.

Sorry for the rambling and i dunno what else to tell ya. Hope that this was somewhat informational and helps a bit. Good Luck with the dream.

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right this may sound very VERY stupid but what is xanga?!?!?!?!? people talk about it all the time and i have no idea whatsoever what it is... could someone please give me any idea of what it is/or does. thnx lucee xxx

Xanga is an online journal. People write in them and you can subscribe to them and comment them on it. When you subscribe to them its would be like your choosing to add them to your as a favorite xanga. If your interested in it go check some out at xanga.com that should give you an idea what it is and if you want to make one, knock yourself out.

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do layers grow faster than hair? i think my hair grows a little over a half an inch a month..well..im desprately waiting for my short layers to grow out (the short layers are above my ear,the medium layers are about a half inch lower than my ear,and then there's the regular length of hair) (which is thin becuase of the layers)If my hair grows a little over a half an inch a month,how long would it take for the medium lengthed hair to get to my sholders? and one more question which is very important-- when my medium layers grow to the when of my sholders,and my short layers grow to somewhere in the middle of my ear,and my regualr hair down to the middle of my back or something...will my hair look different? or will it look exactly the same but longer? please help!!

haha oh my... hun your hair will grow when it grows. of course it will look different cause its getting longer. it might not look at cute or as good as it was when it was shorter or it might even look better. who knows. but yes because its getting longer it will look a wee bit different. and who knows how long it takes for your hair to get to your shoulders, no one can answer that. when it gets there it gets there. 8-|

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I just had sex for first time, and both my inner labias have swelled up about 5x their normal size. Will the swelling go down, or should I be worried?

Totally normal for this to happen after losing your virginity. The swelling will go down. You have no worries hunni.

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okay well I start high school in about a week and I’m turning 16 pretty soon I don’t have my permit and I don’t have a job and I don’t have a cell phone which is the problem I really want one but my mom says I don’t need one I haven’t talked to my mom in 2 whole days I hate her for it I don’t want a job but if that’s what it takes for me to get a cell phone I’m getting one so does any one know any places that would hire a 15 year old girl because I really want a cell and that’s the only way I can get one but I don’t mean like babysitting I mean a real job please help and also do u think I’m being stupid about this like is having a cell phone that big of a deal? so please list thanks alot!!

*K

Well first off... You are wayyy over reacting. For one, if you get a job, you still can't get the phone if your mom doesn't want you too. If she doesn't want you to have the phone at all, paying or not paying, that's how it's gonna be. Cause you're only 15 soon to be 16. You have to be 18 to have a phone under your name. So your mom is the one who has to get it for you. Clearly she finds reasons that you don't need it. And I can see why. I mean damn, saying you hate your mom and won't talk to her because you can't get a cell... That's immature. And I don't blame her for not letting you. Maybe you need to take some responsibility and start actin your age. Then maybe, just maybe, your mom will notice it and let you get the phone. But until then, Stop being a conceited bitch about it. She has her reasons. Instead of saying you hate her and ignore her and not talk to her, maybe you need to talk to her about it. DAMN GIRL, Grow up! Seriously. Stop actin sooooo childish.

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Is it normal for a girl my age to like another girl? I mean, i don't think i'm a lesbian or bisexual, but i heard it could be normal for someone my age (which is 15 btw) to be... "curious"? am i just weird?

it's defo normal hun. you have nothing to wirry about. it doesnt make you weird. everyone gets like this at some point in their youthful lives. just some dont admit to it like you have.

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hi,ive looked at your column and you give such good advice...well i have a column of my own, but i really would like your advice.Well, im 15/female and im dealing through alot.ive never really been the popular one one so i got started to get got up on drugs and alcohal, and now everyone likes since ive gotten up to highscool, i guess now i am lil miss popular since ive started to take care of myself and got my braces off,im beautiful(not to be conceded)but now i love the way i look. but now im dealing with quitting pot and it is so hard,the alcohal thing isnt a big deall to me but the pot is, i havent smoked it for 3 weeks but b4 that i smoked it everyday...and now it is getiing to me and im really craving it but it has already fucked up my life so much and my friends arent making it any better, they doubt me and tease me and shit and they are all potheads, ive tried smoking ciggarettes and i like the feeling in my lungs but i jus dont get a high feeling i get a buzzed feeling where im dizzy an dthat is nothing, i guess i like the high cuz i forget my problems but after the high i get more problems...and i have no clue what to do and your advice would be very appreciated.thanx much and love always...

i ahve tried to answer this question 5 times already. literally. and my computer messes up everytime i hit submit. so if u re send it to me ill answer it again. just want to make sure it will let me answer here. so yeah sorry about that.

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Ok I am a girl and i have a Boyfriend and I really Love him and the sex we have is fun and enjoyable........but......like a week ago my best friend whho is a girl came over and we were watching t.v. and suddenly we started kissing and then we had lesbian sex but I really love my boy friend but i might feel something for my best friend to so am i a lesbian or am i stright should i go for the guy or girl?

since you like the guy and you like the girl your bi. but not necessarily. could of just been bi curious. you should do what you think is right and which you like more.

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what is STD? i have seen people write about it on here and i don't know what it is is it short for aids? or something?

STD= Sexually Transmitted Disease. stds include herpes, aids, hiv, genital warts, etc. theres many different kinds. you can get them through any type of sexual contact.

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I want to paint my room! will pink and green look cute togther? or will pink and blue be better

i think the pink and green would look way cute. but do which ever one you like more.

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how do i get a new back ground for my advice column like what are good web sites for it and once i get the thing i copy and paste for it were do i put it

http://www.advicenators.com/backgrounds.php

gives you lots and lots of choices. and if you dont like anything here, then it gives you a link to find something you will like.

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I've been bleeding on and off for about 2 months...like I'll bleed for 2 weeks stop for a week bleed for another week stop for 3 days bleed again!...It's soo weird..I asked my mom and she said it might be stress cause my familys going though a hard time...but can it be something else like my cherry popping or something?? Oh and I've had my period for like 3 years so my periods been pretty regular well up until now that is.

13/f

it is very possible to bleed from having your cherry popped. but in this case, thats deff. not the problem. you would hav only bled a little bit. nothing like this. your mom could be right about the stress thing. that could be part of the problem. but you need to check up with your doctor, bleeding too much like this can cause alot of problems hun. so just get your mom to make an appointment and you can talk to them and let them know whats going on and they will be able to tell you what to do. they may put you on some medications for it for a while or they may put you on BC to see if that helps regulate it again. but who knows... just follow up with a physician of some sort.

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me and my boyfrind have been together for almost 10 months now. we never really argue, except when i talk to other males on the telephone. i tell him, they are only friends, but he feels uncomfortable with me talking to them. should i give in, and not talk to my friends or should i continue being friends with my male friends? besides i dont understand why he's uncomfortable anyways.

NO... you dont stop talking to your friends. never ever do that. your boyfriend is most lieky wanting your attention. dont give into it. tell him that they are friends and that you are going to keep talkin to them. he shouldnt tell you that you cant talk to them. and he shouldnt make you choose between him and them either.

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So if I'm 17 and i'm dating a 18 year old boy and my parents agree to this relationship.can you still get in trouble?

if it would come up that you would get in trouble, then no because your parents consented to the relationship. if they consent to sexual activities then you he cant get in trouble with anything.

edit:
the law is really weird about this. the age to consent to sex is 16. but the law says that you have to be 18 for it. its twisted in some way. but thats why i said as long as your parents can agree that you consented to it, then nothing they can do about it.

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I am realy bored.Please can someonne think of something for me to do.Thank you

talk online to some friends, go outside, listen to music, play games on the internet, llok up quotes or saying on here if you into the kinda junk, talk on the phone, take a walk, clean, watch tv or movies, go swimming, exercise, go to sleep, go out with friends, go to the mall, the movies, out to eat womewhere with some people, cut the grass or do other yard work, walk the dog, jog, run, lay out and get some sun, draw, color, cards, and so on and so on. there is lots of stuff to do just think of something that interests you and get to it.

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ok, condoms...
good or bad?

good.
some people dont like them and prefer not to use them but they are deff. good.

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me again the moderator hater anyway if you don't care why do you write such long answers?do you think you're so inteligint that people care enough to read all of that?

got your question the first time. so why ask it the second time?
can't you find anything else better to do with your life? really, im impressed you care so much about me, but gdi, you need to find something better to do becuase whatever your trying to do here, (like bring me down or make me quit answering questions here) isn't gonna work.
nice try, but better luck next time.

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me again the moderator hater anyway if you don't care why do you write such long answers?do you think you're so inteligint that people care enough to read all of that?

i write long answers on some of my questions becuase i actually take that person seriously (mostly anyways). and if its a dumb questioon and my answer is long its becuase i couldnt help but laugh and make comments about everything.
glad to see your still stuck on me and my column.

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