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Am I a lesbian or am I Straight?


Question Posted Wednesday July 13 2005, 4:47 am

Ok I am a girl and i have a Boyfriend and I really Love him and the sex we have is fun and enjoyable........but......like a week ago my best friend whho is a girl came over and we were watching t.v. and suddenly we started kissing and then we had lesbian sex but I really love my boy friend but i might feel something for my best friend to so am i a lesbian or am i stright should i go for the guy or girl?

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cheerchick099 answered Thursday July 14 2005, 11:10 am:
you are bi there is nothin wrong wid that

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poetqueen answered Thursday July 14 2005, 1:01 am:
u dont have to pick one you can be bi alot of guys think thats hott just do what you feel is right but if you love ur bf and you have feelings for a friend im certain you are so good luck with that!

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DoNuTluvsU91 answered Wednesday July 13 2005, 7:29 pm:
hey!!! sorry to be the one to give you the bad newz but........... your a Lesbion!!!! itz not a bad thing, itz just i think you should go for whoever lovez you the most and who will be there for you!!! (hope i helped)
~carter~

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southsideboy answered Wednesday July 13 2005, 2:43 pm:
You should go for the the girl since now your lesbian you said that the sex you had for your best friend made you feel something then that's makingyou feel love forher and not your boyfriend anymore so be the lesbian you are and be with her.

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im_falling_4_u answered Wednesday July 13 2005, 2:22 pm:
Ok you are bi it's not bad or anything but if i were you i would go for the guy or hey just have a 3som



<3

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ThugGirl041790 answered Wednesday July 13 2005, 2:04 pm:
your a bisexual.. your boyfriend most likely will like this and OH MY GOSH you guys can have THREE SOMES NOW!!! WOO WOO.. &hearts; Dez

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mykittykills914 answered Wednesday July 13 2005, 1:31 pm:
You Bi Sexual and in my opinion you should go for both of them. He wouldn't mind if he is like any of the guys I know. Maybe you love both of them. I would just go have three somes. Hope this helps you out.

!~Kitty~!

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Teza answered Wednesday July 13 2005, 1:30 pm:
You dont seem to be lesbian but I think that you might be bi. Its just where you like guys and girls. But go with which ever one you want. Its your decision. [[ &hearts; &hearts; ]]

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denajah5 answered Wednesday July 13 2005, 1:05 pm:
i no its long but real advice is....i read all those people telling you to tell your boyfriend everything that happened.i think you should wait on that.since none of us no your boyfriend we dont no if he is the type to be so jealous that he tells everybody you no.if he's like that then i dont think you should tell him unless you dont care if people no.over all....i think your bisexual...you like both gurls and boys if your feeling both of them. i say if you dont want the whole world to no your having sex with a gurl then stay with your boyfriend.and mess with her on the side.or just stop messing with her at all.
hope i helped

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PinkPrincess42 answered Wednesday July 13 2005, 12:27 pm:
Well, the first thing you should do... is be honest with your boyfriend and tell him about what happened and your whole confusion situation. Chances are you probably arent 100% gay if your attracted to both boys and girls. Your just confused or something. That may have just been a spur of the moment thing because it was fun or seemed like a good idea at the time, but in the long run.. it might not be what you really want. You should definaltey tell your boyfriend about it and take a little time to think about the situation and figure out what it is that you really want! Thanks for the question!
&hearts;Emily

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crazyoutyamind answered Wednesday July 13 2005, 11:41 am:
it sounds like to me that your bi well hope i helped and if you have ne more quistions just dropem in my inbox
-kelly

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HEARTXBREAKER answered Wednesday July 13 2005, 10:35 am:
stay with the guy. because you don't KNOW that you are bi yet, ya know? i mean, you could be, but not necissarily. you could've just been curious, or experimenting. but if you later on find that you like more than just her, then you could be bi. good luck!

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mysticpixie05 answered Wednesday July 13 2005, 10:34 am:
since you like the guy and you like the girl your bi. but not necessarily. could of just been bi curious. you should do what you think is right and which you like more.

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jbdreamer answered Wednesday July 13 2005, 10:17 am:
No one can tell you if you are gay or straight. It should be whatever your natural instinct is.

I think you should break it off with your boyfriend no matter your sexual preference. You obviously don't love him if you are capable of cheating on him. People in love don't do that. Let him go, he deserves better.

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Susan answered Wednesday July 13 2005, 8:45 am:
Just because you enjoyed sexual relations with the same sex doesn't make you a lesbian. Please remember that being guy isn't defined only in terms of whom you have sex with. Human being are a bundle of nerves and when touch accordingly you will get stimulated regardless of whom is touching you. Being sexually aroused shows that you are normal, this doesn't signify what you are? If you find yourself being attracted to females and watching them and noticing them like you do boys then perhaps you just may be a lesbian, but this can not be determined with one experience.

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