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I would like to know from you guys; what is a fast sure fire way of making some quick cash. And please no-one say get a job because i am trying i just need money now and fast.. All help appreciated and rewarded.
Thanks
anthony
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Babysit, mow lawns, sell stuff that people want, rob a convenience store. Oh, wait... scratch that last one. If borrowing is an option, do that. If you know things about mean rich people that they don't want known- no, wait, blackmale is bad, too. Yeh, local small jobs around the neighborhood, selling stuff, or borrowing is about it that I can think of.
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is it just me, or have some of the questions lately been seeming fake, made-up, and unrealistic? i have no desire to answer some lately because they seem like they`re put up on advicenators to get laughs. (link)
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I surmise that it is done more to the end of self-satisfaction by being able to manipulate people into wasting their time than "just for laughs."
That's when I like to give them a verbal kick-in-the-arse, screw feedback.
Other times, it's just that people are either ignorant, naiive, lazy, or lacking in self-confidence and seeking to receive some sort of slap on the back or go-ahead from others.
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wut does it mean to "eat a girl out" ? (link)
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It means to perform oral sex on a woman. It involves licking, sucking, nibbling, and otherwise stimmulating using the mouth the vagina and clitoris. This can mean that you lick the outside, use your lips to seal an area (usually the clitoris) and suck, insert your toungue inside her vagina, and/or nibble with varying degrees of intensity on the different areas.
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last night i had sex for the third time. he didnt use a condom and im not sure if he came in me. i was due for my period anyways and now i have it. my friend said that i could be pregnant. and im really scared. i cant talk to my mom about that kinda of stuff either. how can i tell or what should i do? please help me. (link)
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One of my ex's had her period the entire time she was pregnant (wasn't mine), so yes, it's possible.
Bottom line is that you need to get a pregnancy test and find out.
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I am 13 and i will call the two boys that i fancy 1 and 2. 1 is a real stunner, blond spikey hair, blue eyes a, six pack, and he's my age, but he doesn't like me as more than a friend i don't think although it seems like he's flirting with my sometimes. 2 is 18, dark brown, spikey hair, blue eyes and he's REALLY sweet, but everyone keeps saying he's too old for me, and he doesn't fancy me anyway. What should i do because i really like both of these lads and i don't know which one of them to fancy and whether i should ask one of them out or not so please deal with this question as soon as possible. I will rate you high. Thanks (link)
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2 is too old for you, methinks. I don't say so because of the legal implications (they onoly apply if you get sexually physical, I think), but because there is a definite life experience difference between a 13yo and an 18yo. And he doesn't fancy you, so don't worry about it.
The one that's your age may be hot, but if he only likes you as a friend, be a friend to him. If something more is going to happen, it will happen because of you two's relationship, not because you pushed and prodded for more - that would only lower your chances.
Besides, the fact that you spent most of your time describing how they look tells me you aren't ready for a committed relationship anyway.
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Heyy! I rate high! I was jus wondering if any one will give me any tips to giving good advice!Please and thanks! (link)
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Ignore people who make it sound like you have to earn a rating or who will rate you low for giving advice they will disagree with. Not because of the rating, but because it's a waste of time.
And don't worry about the ratings - if you only give advice for the rating, your advice is worthless. Be honest, be compassionate, and accept that some people won't like what you say no matter what.
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I'm going to the movies with my boyfriend (of only a few days) tomorrow & he suggested with play the twizzler game. I've heard about it but I don't know exactly what to do ... can anyone help me out?
xO; marie (link)
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Get him to teach you - that could potentially be more fun than actually playing the game. And be willing to have fun with it. That's about it.
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ok so i really want to know if this guy likes me.i swim and he is on my swim team, and like when we go underwater he always smiles at me and waves, and when we do drylands he always pats me on the back or playfully hits my arm, and when we kick and stuff like that we always talk the whole way. i mean he is great, he is nice to me and everyone else, he is actualy my height and everyone likes him. whenever we go to swim meets he tells me to cheer for him because he wont do well unless i do. and he asks me to hold stuff and he just goofs around w/ me and he talks to my friends a lot. does he like me?
thnx! 5's for everyone! (link)
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It's quite likely. I don't know how old either of you are, nor have I met you, so I'll give you some possibilities.
First is that he likes you. If this is the case, don't rush things, build a friendship first - he sounds like a great guy, and building a relationship on a friendship means the relationship is more likely to last, and even if it doesn't, you're a LOT less likely to lose him as a friend.
Second is that he's just a real sweet guy and just wants to be friends. If this is the case, allow the friendship to develope, and it may or may not turn into something more later on.
Third is that he's gay. Don't think I'm saying that he is, just that it's possible. Most straight guys aren't comfortable enough around girls to act like that since their attraction to females makes them nervous.
There are other possibilities, and variations of the ones above, but I think those are the most likely.
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Hello all!
I started a relationship with a man that I'm mentally fascinated with. He is well educated and very articulate, which is what attracted me to him. We were together for about a month when I busted him cheating. Now, two months later, I have told him I forgive him and still want a relationship with him but he is lukewarm. He "says" that he doesn't know what to do/say to make things better between us, but I've told him countless times that I'm not worried about him cheating on me again. His response, "Nothing is certain but death and taxes." My brain tells me that if he could say that to me, he doesn't care about making things right. My heart tells me that he's a good man and he won't do it again. Am I dilusional??? The Bible teaches us to forgive 70 times 70, but that doesn't mean I have to be with him still right? I'm in love with this man but I don't know if I can ever trust him again. Please help! (link)
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There are two possible reasons he would say something like that. The first is guilt - "I screwed up so bad, is this the kind of person I am?" The second is being unwilling to commit to not doing it again.
If it's the first, he needs to be single for a while and work some things out. If it's the second, he's messing with your head.
Forgiveness does not mean acting like it never happened. And it's good to forgive, but if you don't trust him, you shouldn't be with him. That trust may come back one day, but it may not.
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Hey guys. Well.. tonight I went to a club for the first time, and met this really great guy. He asked to dance with me, and we did for a while, and attempted to talk a bit (but the music was so loud, so we went and sat down) He introduced me to some of his friends too. Anyway, I had to leave early.. and out of nowhere I asked for his number. This is TOTALLY out of character for me. I'm usually shy around guys, but hey. He gave it to me and then I gave him mine, and then he walked me to the door. I may be being paranoid, but was this coming across a little too eager or forward? I had a feeling he wanted to ask, but I could be wrong. Also, should I contact him first or let him contact me? I'm just totally new to this kinda thing and lost.
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If you want to contact him, do so.
I'm a guy, and I don't think there's anything wrong whatsoever with a gal contacting a guy. Or asking him out, for that matter. Maybe that's just me.
The other thing is that I have a very hard time keeping in touch with people I don't see every day, and, with me, there would be a 50% chance (if I wanted to contact the woman) that I would never get around to it.
So, maybe you should wait a day or two, but no more than that.
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I am the person who loves to be creative and unique. I like doing my own thing..as long as its different from everyone else. But A LOT of people tend to copy me. From buying the same outfits as me..to..copying my profiles, quotes, ideas, etc. I know it's supposed to be a compliment. But like i said, i just like being original and dont want anyone copying me or ripping off my stuff. Any suggestions on how I should deal with this? (link)
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Do things, use quotes, and wear clothes that people won't want to copy. And even then some people will still do so, just not as many.
Reality is, if anybody sees you doing something new, it will, in some way, be copied.
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im 14F and i just wantto know how to masterbate.. im kinda afriad, does it hurt? (link)
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Try rubbing the outside of the opening with your hand, inserting a finger (two if you're open enough, but if not, that's ok), and rubbing/touching/whatever your clitoris. If it's too dry, you'll want to go buy some lube, but most women don't have that problem.
If/when you have a finger inserted, move it around and try to find spots that are more pleasurable.
And, no, it shouldn't hurt. At least, not in a bad way.
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Hey, whenever I get new feedback and I get 5's, my feedback average always gets lower instead of higher. For example, my feedback was 4.53, then I got a 5 and it went to 4.43. What's up? What should I do? (link)
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1 - Contact site support and let them know.
2 - Don't worry about it. It's feedback from people who will typically rate you with a 1 just because they disagree.
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alright i have 2 best friends ( girls )and i love them with all of my heart. now i am currently goin out with a guy but he isnt what i want i mean he is nice and all but i just dont feel the connection but anyway there is another guy i am crazy about but i have two problems with being with him #1. 7 months ago one of my bestfriends went out with him for 3 months and they broke up for a stupid reason she is still in love with him and a month ago she went " crazy " she cut her self and they were bad she went to a place to get help and she has been doin great but she is still deeply in love with him.. now problem #2. my other bestfriend is currently goin out with this guy and other bestfriend is okay about it but then she tells me constantly she hates it and she gets sooo upset over it now we have all been hanging out a lot together and the other day my one bestfriend that is goin out with this guy wasnt there it was just my other best friend my boyfriend this wonderful guy and another one of my friends.. we were at one of my friends house and me and the guy i am crazy about were upstairs alone and we were just hanging out and listening to music and all of a suddenn he kissed me i was like wow and my mind went blank now this was just a peck on the lips but it was the greatest thing in the whole entire world ahh im so confused i just wanna either be with him or just let it go like nothing happened but that would be hard because he is on my mind like all the time so please help me im stressing over this like crazy *sigh*
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Don't even touch it with a 10 foot pole. Going out with him, I mean.
If it's meant to happen, it will happen, but your best friend has a thing for him, and if you go after him, it will be like betraying her.
It also sounds like the situation is far more complicated than it needs to be, so the farther you stay away from it, the less confused and stressed you will be.
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Is it bad not to masturbate.... cuz i'm 14.f and i've never masturbated... i think its kind of gross...
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There's absolutely nothing wrong with it. In fact, I think it's the better choice - once you've been there, it's hard to go back as it's rather addicting.
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No matter what I do there always seems to be ants in my room and My room is always clean I never bring food inside my room either. what should I do there driving me crazy!Please Help
Signed, I don't want to be their manager!
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Get some ant bait and put it in key locations in your room. If you've ever spilt soda or anything on your carpet, it might be that it's formed sugar crystals or syrup that they are after.
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Yesterday, one of my guy friends kept bugging me to know who I liked. I finally told him the one person and after a while told him he was the other person. He said he knew that I liked him or something like that. Now I don't know what to do because I like won't act the same around him. What can I do? (link)
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You can ask him if he feels the same about you. And tell him it's ok if he doesn't and that you'd rather he was honest. If he does, then move forward from there. If not, then tell him you feel weird now that he knows.
Or, you could try... "I feel weird now that you know. Do you... you know... feel the same about me?" Or something.
Either way, communication is the key.
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I have really short arms, so they look fatter than other people's arms. I really hate it -I work out alot and I'm in shape, muscular everywhere, including my upepr amrs. They are just so short that no matter what - they look fat! How can I make it so my short arms look normal - not fat? I eat well and I am a perfect weight, I don't eat junk food and I have a extremely healthy diet, so dieting won't really make a difference. Is there anthing I can do?! (link)
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*reads the additional info* *face palm*
sorry, my mind is mildly perverted... and apparently so is my co-worker's. lol.
Anyway, there's not much you can do to make them look less fat. Working out and building muscle will make them larger, also.
In all honesty, try not to worry about it. If you worry about it, you'll be self-conscious about them, and people will inevitably notice them more becaue of that. If you aren't self-conscious about them, people will notice them less.
Besides, do other people say the same thing, or is this only your own oppinion?
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I recently broke up with my bf of 2 months because we hadn't been seeing each other as much and I felt a distance grow between us... and started to dislike things about him! At the time when we finished it it seemed right to go back to friendship because we get on well in that way, but now I'm really feeling like I shouldn't have split with him and I regret it! What should I do, will this pass or should I tell him how I feel? Even though I broke up with him? Would it be considered messing with his head? :( im not physically attracted to him either this is purely emotional relation...
im 16! (link)
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It should pass. Give it about a month, and if it doesn't pass, and seems the same, or worse, then tell him. Otherwise, this is just a normal thing that happens to most everyone.
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I'd like advice with a matter ive often thought about but never done anything about.
Im just turned 50 now. but during my school years I was often bullied, maybe because i was a quiet shy sort of girl at the time. The sort bullying kids make a bee-line for.
But i went through a thoroughly miserable traumatic time throughout my last 2 years of secondary school between 1968 and 1970. Thats age 13 to 15. I was consistently bullied by gangs of other girls, mostly within the same school year, every day of every week. All the time, all year. It was ceaseless and i never had a moments peace from it. It was sometimes the threat of something awful possibly happening that kept me frightened and nervous, but often it became violent, maybe being pushed down stairs at school or literally punched in the face for absolutely no reason at all. All everyone else did was laugh. I was on my own and couldnt do anything about it. I was all the time afraid and introverted.
My parents didnt understand or believe me, neither did anyone else. The teachers did nothing to help.
I ended being sent to court and sent away into a childrens home twice, Once at 14 and then just before i was actually 15 in may of 1970. Each time it was for a period of 3 or 4 weeks. but it was horrendous, i was scared to death. staff tried to give me internal examinations and once i had to stand naked while the homes doctor looked me over, for what reason i dont know, that was so embarassing and humiliating.
And all this simply because i was too frightened to go to school or left during the day before anything else happened to me. Once i was seen outside by the housemaster, Mr Cleary of Plant Hill High School of Blackley in Manchester. He dragged and pushed me around to get me outside the head masters office, I would have willingly gone there if he had just asked me. But as soon as the headmaster came out,instead of asking me whats wrong, he strapped me on my hands. I was so shocked, i suddenly wet my clothing. I then couldnt go into the class room.so i went crying into the wash room and then went home.
Since then i have been affected by no confidence, I cannot mix well with people. I am insecure, nervous. and still after al these years, think of it all the time. It was such a terrible growing up time. I have no self confidence or self esteem at all. People can easily dominate and patronise me and they often do, and i dont know how to deal with it. If i had felt happy and confident during my growing up this would not be happening. I would have the positive life and be able to cope like the rest of my family.
Is there any way i can be paid compensation for what i suffered then, and have suffered since, due to my experiences?I personally believe i should be paid at least four thousand pounds for what i went through. Maybe a couple of thousand for each year i spent each day filled with fear and taken from my home,being punished for being a victim. I suffered through no fault of my own, and i should be helped to have some happiness and contentment now that i am getting older and should be be having some peace now. I would so much appreciate your guidance on this matter. (link)
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Why money? And if money, why so little?
Here's my suggestion - talk to a lawyer and see, first, if you can provide enough evidence. Then find a therapist you believe you can trust, talk to, and who can help you.
Then, don't sue for money. Sue for paiment for 4 years of quality therapy and legal fees. 4k pounds is... what? Maybe as much as US $20k? Like that's going to do anything but make people try to manipulate the money from you. Including the lawyer, mind you, so make sure you trust the lawyer as well, and take a friend with you to select one - a friend who has some legal background and self-confidence enough to tell a lawyer that's going to try to wring you for money to stop wasting your time.
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