Yesterday, one of my guy friends kept bugging me to know who I liked. I finally told him the one person and after a while told him he was the other person. He said he knew that I liked him or something like that. Now I don't know what to do because I like won't act the same around him. What can I do?
Additional info, added Friday July 1 2005, 1:48 pm: I'm 13/f. He's 14/m.. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? VanityScore answered Friday July 1 2005, 5:58 pm: I've gone through that before. Many times. With my best guy friend. So my advice is to just act like it never happened that is, if the other person doesn't like you back.. it'll keep you both from being embarassed. If you act like everything's okay, he'll do the same, and that will make everything okay.
You've got the added bonus that he already pretty much knew, and that didn't change your friendship. Just because you confirmed his suspicion shouldn't change it either. [ VanityScore's advice column | Ask VanityScore A Question ]
SoInToYoUx0x answered Friday July 1 2005, 3:39 pm: well why wont you talk to him about it and tell him how you feel.a nd ask him how he feels about you.Maybe you guys could go out. talk to him about it. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~* [ SoInToYoUx0x's advice column | Ask SoInToYoUx0x A Question ]
KELSiixGRACE answered Friday July 1 2005, 3:03 pm: just tell him that you dont want to feel wierd around him. talking can help with just about everything. if he likes you too.. why not date? most good relationships come from best friends as is. so give it a try ..... hope i helped you out! Keep me posted ...... XO0X -- Kelsey [ KELSiixGRACE's advice column | Ask KELSiixGRACE A Question ]
mushoku answered Friday July 1 2005, 2:24 pm: You can ask him if he feels the same about you. And tell him it's ok if he doesn't and that you'd rather he was honest. If he does, then move forward from there. If not, then tell him you feel weird now that he knows.
Or, you could try... "I feel weird now that you know. Do you... you know... feel the same about me?" Or something.
MummuM answered Friday July 1 2005, 2:23 pm: That's way cute that you told your crush you liked him to his face. Does he like you as more then a friend? If so, maybe you can ask him to go the movies or something and see where this relationship may go. If he doesn't like you in that way, just tell him that you want to be friends with him and you don't want your friendship to screw up. Just try to be yourself and try to forget about liking him and start up a new crush on someone else. That way, you won't act differently around him.
♥ Krissy [ MummuM's advice column | Ask MummuM A Question ]
Mackenzie answered Friday July 1 2005, 2:11 pm: So.. why can't you two go out?? You both have feelings foR each otheR.. what's missing?? RemembeR, best fRiends make the best loveRs. And when you think about it.. that's all a loveR Really is.. A *BEST* FRIEND!! PeRsonally, I've always felt that if two people weRe REALLY THAT good of fRiends.. theiR feelings foR each otheR can suRpass anything, so why not give it a shot??? :D [ Mackenzie's advice column | Ask Mackenzie A Question ]
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