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hi,
i hav 3 friends that were my best lets say friend 1,2 and,3. i overheard them talkin about some one i assume is me. friend 1 said my name n then started whispering, friend 2 then said- i know with a dirty look and friend 3 kept on looking at me and then said- i don't like her either. i got upset and really really really really angry! i even start crying. my other friends were comforting me but im stressing over it, if i made a mistake because i stopped sitting next to them and talking to them.
about 2 days later(today) i was sitting next to friend 1(the closest) because i wasn't allowed to move and i passed her a note asking her wahat it was they didn't like about me and that i heard them talking about me. she just pushed it away . now i always hear them talking about me. it really hurts because i do care for friend 1 alot(not bothered too much about the 2 though).
they've started ignoring me completely.
i want to talk to them again but i don't want to
seem like a suck-up...help me please.
i kind of miss them...
yours stressingly
sad sad girl

THEY ARE NOT YUR FREAKING FRIENDS, friends don't treat friends like that and not feel at all guilty or a apologize a million times!!! What you do is when you hear them talking about you LAUGH YUR ASS OFF!! Why would u care what a bunch of jerks think of you, their going to think that either way, and this way at least yur showing their not getting to you. I'm really really sorry they hurt you, but act like you don't care!! It works! Don't let them know they hurt u! Good Luck and SORRY!

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ok so there is this guy that i like and he likes me, but i dont think his parents like me, they dont really seem like the kind of parents that like his friends and ive been to his house before and there not like overly friendly. Hes not like one of those losers either whos parents dont like him dateing, he gets in trouble for having partys and stuff like that. He allways says that he hates his mom but like idk. I want to go out with him but im scared that if his parents dont like me it wont work. I was wondering if anyone has gone out with someone there parents didn't like or the person they went out with parents didn't like them. please help:(

haha!! I know what you mean, my parents could NOT stand my ex. If he truly likes you he'll go out with you, it's not up to his parents. I told mine, it's my choice and if something bad happens it's my mistake, not yours. Don't be worry, most teenagers don't care what their parents think about who their dating. If it's meant to be it's meant to be!Good Luck!!!

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do girls like it when you look them in the eye when you talk to them

oh yeah it's kinda sexy too!!! lol! especially if you look at them like u want them really bad!! that's really good to do!!!

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I like this guy a lot. And only my best friends know I like him. And I think I love him. We talk from time to time. But we arn't friends: he is popular and I have lik 20 close friends, but we're not popular, just really friendly. So we talk about hockey (Because we both play) and that is basically it. I was planning on telling him how i feel about him next time I see him.

But today, I was talking with my really good friend who I just told the other day (making her the 4th person who knows) and she said that he smoked pot. Now, this person isn't one to gossip--- she never does, doesn't say anything unless its true, but today, she said she was almost positive that ricky smoked pot.

My dad is very ANTI drug ANTI sex ANTI anything illegal. But he really likes this kid; they met via my hockey. He says we would make a great couple.

I would date him if he smokes, because I care for this guy so much, I think i might be able to change that *it sounds mean,-- i dont want it to* but my dad wouldn't stand for it.

I really don't know what to do. I'm sure if I tell this guy that I like him, he'll like he too, because everyone knows he has a thing for me. Please help me!
Thanks

He might of tried pot but no offence almost everyone in highschool has, unless yur a really good kid. Just ask him about it. Tell him you like him, but if he smokes pot you can't go out w/ him. If he really likes you he'll give up pot for you. Sorry, I don't know what else to say. Good Luck!!!I hope the rumors a lie!!!

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i got my cartilage peirced on saturday and it was fun that day and sunday but monday it started swelling up and its been five days and its red and swollen is that normal? when i clean my piercing it doesnt hurt and when i rotate the stud it doesnt hurt at all but the redness and the swelligness makes me feel weird. can you tellme what i can do?

When I got mine done, it was a little differnt. It hurt laying on it and stuff. Best thing to do is clean it with peroxide twice a day and DO NOT TOUCH IT, if u do make sure your hands are washed. If the swelling doesn't go down in a week of doing that, tell your mom and go to the doctor. Also, if you take out your stud the whole will close up very very fast!!!Good Luck!

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Okay, so my older half sister and brother have planned this trip to Florida, 5 days in Disney World!!! I was really excited...until I found out two things...

1. My sister and brother might be bringing their side of the fmaily that I've never even met. Which includes parents and kids. (I do NOT like kids) I'll just feel like a blacksheep.
2. PANIC! AT THE DISCO is playing the SAME DAY I'll be GONE!! (San Diego, August 1st)

My mom has allowed me to choose whether or not to go. Should I stay and experience an awesome Panic! concert or spend 5 days in Disney World with people I don't really know????

I don't want any regrets...

I would go to Disney World. I mean you might end up liking these people a lot!! You can see the concert the next time they come to your town. I just think Disney World would be really really fun. The concert is one night but u'll be in Disney World for 5 days, and you might let down your sister/brother if you don't go. It's your choice, just have fun!!

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hi im 15 years old and i've been with m boyfriend for 6 month.

I made a mistake I tap kiss with my ex so I decided to tell my boyfriend he forgive me but hes been talking to me in a ruid way that really makes me feel bad and cry. im so depressed. When i ask him why hes treating me like this he said is because he can stop thinking of what I did with my ex he says he treats me like that because of what hes always thinking.. What should I do should i just leave him since he wants to treat me in a ruid way.. can you please give me some advice on what I can do on my situation?

thank you

I think this boy really loved you, and you hurt him but he doesn't want to let you go. I would break up w/ him it'd be better for both of you. Good Luck!

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ok i have this relly good friend who always calls herself fat, just because shes not as skinny as the anorexic girls on tv, and it relly bugs me i keep telling her that shes not fat and that i dont like it when she talks like that but she still dose. how can i talk to her and make her see shes not fat at all

It's called having self esteam issues. She's not asking you for a compliment! Maybe she's just so unhappy about how she feels about herself and she needs someone's help. She might have family issues that you don't know about that she can't seam to deal with so she takes it out on herself by not eating or puking. The problem may not always be what it appears. She might just have herself fully convinced it's her appearance that's wrong and not her life. There's also the case she really does think she's fat and she thinks because your her friend your lying to her so you won't hurt her. Just keep encouraging her, ask her how she is. Call her just to see how she's doing. Let her know you care and think she's skinny. Good Luck!!

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What is 'grinding' in comparison to sex?

Grinding is when a guy and girl pretty much are humping, or the girl is rubbing her ass in his crotch. It's not having sex, it's pretty much to get horny or when your horny and don't wanna have sex yet. You do this at mixers or dances. Hope that helped!!!

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My girlfreind want me to do oral on her after we have sex without a condom she is on the needle depro .. but when i do it i know im eating my own sperm out of her would people think thats gay

Well I think it'd be a little weird, but if you want to it's no one elses business. No one will know. You could just ask her if u can do it before, or with a condom because it makes you feel uncomfortable and gay {I'm not saying its gay}. Ask for her opinion. Good Luck

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my best friend is scared of the dark. i can't get to sleep when i spend the night at her house because she keeps all the lights on in her room and i just cant fall asleep. so when she hits the hay... i quietly go to the light switch and turn the lights off. as soon as i do that she wakes up and starts crying! what to do???
thanks in advance
Frenchy♥

Just tell her it bothers you. Bring over a nightlight when you spend the night. If she still is scared, then ask to sleep in a differnt room. If you do sleep with her w/ a nightlight and she starts to freak out, tell her your there and nothings in the dark. Bc I absolutely HATE the dark, but I don't really care if someone else is w/ me. It's worth a shot. Good Luck!!

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What do the 3 bases stand for? (minus home run because we all know what that is)

Well everyones is differnt, but these are mine.
1st=frenching
2=felt up/fingered/hand jobs
3=oral
4=home run lol

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my magazine subscriptions includes Times, Blender, Popular Science, Ellegirl, Bitch and Jane. is Bust or Ms. good and what other magazines do you think are cool? Newsweek is sort of like Times and I don't know if it's worth it to subscribe to that as well.

Well, I don't know if your into ones about celebritys and beauty secrets and stuff, but US weekly is pretty good.

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i have short hair i spike at the back should i grow it?

I'm not sure if yur a guy or girl lol. But shaggy hair is hott, like skater hair. But too long makes you look like a hippy lol.

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okay me and my ex resenly broke up..
he said i was taking the relationship soo seriosuly or whatever
and i find out 6 days later hes asking out this anna chick they went out once and hes asked her out 2 times she said no.

and with his last last last girlfriend
he asked her out 5 times she said until the 5th time they lasted 9 months

does he seem like the time to go after girls he know he cant probably get.

like when we went out with me
he knew i would say yes
and he didnt even put any real effort in to oue relationship except hanging out alot.
but yea..

if he starts liking me again
should i act like i dont care
or when i hangout with him
should i act like i dont like him

so he can want me more and more and more and when i finally do say yes....

he will treat me like i should be treated.

can this be affective?

help me OUTTT!!!

I'm sorry, but he seriously doesn't seam worth the time or effort to be even friends with. He sounds like he cares more about the quantity of girls he goes out w/ than them personally. Just leave him. Litterally, yeah if you ignore him and show no interest in him he'll start to want you, bc that his track record for girls. It's not worth your time though. Once he realizes you'll go out with him, he'll get bored and try to go out with someone he can't get. It's your choice. Good Luck!

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* i'm sorry if this is long :/ i just really need advice *
soo schools over finally. i should be happy right? well i'm not. i'm like, depressed. i like this kid really bad that was on my team a group of like 100 kids that have the same 4 teachers and people in your 4 majors. theres 4 classe on each team)well he was in my class and we talked a lot this year in our classes and i really thought he liked me. and even yesterday, on field day, me and my friends were watching all the guys play flag football(some of the hot ones were wearing wife beaters lol) i kept seeing him look at me, like to see if i saw him, so i didnt look away if he saw me, to maybe drop a hint. and when he walked by he looked at me.(even when i saw him just out of the corner of my eye) he did this throughout the year, and the past few months i was flirting without making it too obvious, like whenever we talked i smiled and looked him in the eye and stuff like that. but i miss him so much, because i feel like i'm not going to be "close" with him again because im scared he wont be on my team in 8th grade(the grade im going into in the fall)the reason is because hes friends with a lot of the popular people, who some of them i used to be friends with, but now they're really big bitches and they're fake. the guys are ok though. hes been around this girl miranda lately, but i dont know if he likes her, but i think she likes him. shes really small and prettier than me and i'm just scared he'll like her. i think i'm ok, but just not one of the pretty girls at school. i dont even know if he has a sn, so idk how i can keep in touch with him over the summer. even if i ask someone, it would feel weird to randomly im him if he didnt even like me and i would feel so stupid. i have noo idea what to do. can someone please help? thank you

If you guys talked a lot that means he liked spending time w/ you right? Well, get his number from someone or his sn, and ask him to hang out. Just keep dropping hints, and if he responds and you feel he likes you back, then, admit you really do like him, and want to go out. Maybe start off with hanging out w/ him w/ a group of friends, and gradually you two alone. Sorry! don't know what else to do!! Good Luck!!!!!

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i used to go out with this boy. lets call him jeff. he was everything i wanted and more. he was funny sweet loving . and he ened up dumping me for this hoe bc his friends told him that I didnt like him anymore. so even tho i still had feelings for him i ended up going out with this guy...joe. well he was also sweet and kind and i started to really like him till one day my ex imed me and told me he had dumped the girl bc hestill loved me and that for me to come bac bc he made a huge mistake. and yeah i would of but im with joe and yeah i like joe.. but i like jeeff. i dont kno wat to do or say
someone HELP MEE!!

Well I wouldn't go out w/ jeff. He just heard what his friends said and dumped you, it showed that he didn't trust you or had enough respect to ask you. I mean put yourself in Joe's position, wouldn't it hurt if he left you for his ex? He didn't do anything wrong to you, it's gonna make him feel like you used him bc you couldn't have jeff. Also, if you go out with this jeff guy again and he hears another rumor, he's gonna dump you again? I'd stick with Joe. It's your decision though. Good Luck!

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ok basically i'm 14 years old and i've never had a boyfriend. never had a guy asked me out. never been kissed at all. and it's really pathetic... its not that im ugly or fat or have no friends or i'm mean, or anything. guys just never seem to like me. a lot of my more unattractive friends seem to get boyfriends, and my personality is just as good, i'm just as outgoing, i'm just as ANYTHING. and i feel like the world's biggest loser. is 14 really old for someone whos never been kissed/had a boyfriend????? tell the truth!

NO, I know someone who didn't have their first kiss/boyfriend til 16, and it wasnt because she was ugly or fat it just didnt happen when she was younger. Just wait. Don't worry bout it too much, it's not meant to be rushed!!

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my hamster jimmy just died on father day and today i got a new teddy bear hamster and iv never had one befor and i wanna know how to take care of it i also wanna know how old it is and if it help i have a pic of it on my myspace and myspace.com/alleyx69xlol and no im not trying to show off my myspace i just thought it would help if u no what it looked like i would alot like some websites on teddy bear hamster it would also be nice if you could tell me how to groom them and some websites with lists of foods they can and cant eat

OMG!!!yur so lucky!!I used to have one, THEIR SO CUTE!, I'm sorry bout jimmy though. Good Luck!!

http://www.petco.com/caresheets/small%20animals/HamsterTeddyBear.pdf-this one had a lot of information!

http://www.hamsterific.com/Nutrition.html-its food and everything

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Syrian_hamster-this is info about the hamster itself

http://www.hamstertips.net/-more info

Good Luck!! I think the first link will give you pretty much all you need!!!

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What is a good and healthy/safe way to loose fat in your inner thighs?

I'm 15 years old and a girl. I don't have access to a gym so please don't suggest working out at a gym


thanks a head of time.

http://www.lhj.com/home/Thigh-Exercises.html
httpstephenholtfitness.com/articles/inner_thigh_lie://s.htm

^those are a few websites that have exercises to do! Good Luck!!

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