about

hey. yeah. i keep it real, and i'll try to help out annyway with annythin i can. im Em, and im a pretty smart chick. im a preddy good person, you know the type you would let babysit ur kids. dont take me for granted. i k how to rock it and keep it kool. w/o all the drugs and tequila. go ahead, ask me. ill anser. cuz u k im good lik that ;)

advice

Ok ive been going out with my boyfriend for about a month and 1/2 and i love him so much. I know it seems to soon for love but i have been his best friend for many years previous. Everything is going down hill and i dont know what to do. I care so much and i dont know where he stands. We never talk anymore and if we do it goes nowhere. Everyone tells me i should break it off but i cant i dont feel its right. Hes into my friends, and really pays no attention to me. its almost like he has gotten to comfortable.
What sould i do?

1. its never to early for love
2. it is kinda weird that you love someone you dont talk to
3. if he pays no attention to you, why did you start going out in the first place
4. if i were you i would ask him if he even still liked me
5. i also would talk to him about being just friends for a while then going back to gf/bf status
6. when ou are in love, yoU are blind, basicly, even people in the most unhealthy relationships dont really think is right to break up.

you should tell him that you are starting to feel ignored and that should be the wake up call he needs. hope i helped!

[view]


There's a guy friend of mine that I like ... alot. Some people say he likes me but I know we're just friends. He has a girlfriend who's really nice but sometimes she rubs it in my face that they're dating even though she doesn't know I like him. Is there any way I could ever end up with him? How could I without getting her mad at me? Basically, what should I do?

i wouldnt do annything intill they break up. i wonder why she feels she should rub it in your face? maby he does like you and she sensed the chemistry. if he does like you something will lead to them breaking up. in the mean time, i would look and try to find other single guys to start liking. that way, you can get your mind off him and he will realise that you cant just wait around. hope i helped!

[view]


Im writeing a paper on second hand smoke and weather or not people should be aloud to smoke in public places ( resterunts, bars, amusment parks, ect. )and i need peoples opinioins..
if you think that they should banned public smoking or if you think that it should be aloud nd why (if you want).. i rate !! so help me if you have the time thank yaa!!

i think it should be banned because if you are going to harm yourself you shouldnt harm others in the prosses. hope i helped good luck on your paper!

[view]


On a typical day I eat one meal. I obsess over food. I weigh myself at least once a day. I lost 35 lbs. in the past 4 months and I have this addiction to losing more and more weight. I don't even like to drink water. I do have OCD and Anxiety. Do you think I could be Anorexic?

if i were you i would find a way to find the healthy area of weight for someone your height. but i know one thing, that cant be good for you, what you r doing. im about 5'5 and weigh about 120 and thaTS healthy 4 me but i know 1 thing 4 shure, you r skinny enuf. you dont need to loose more weight. eat freely. shure you can rejoice when you loose a pound every once in a while, but i think you r taking it a little too extream. hope i helped!

[view]


ok i have liked this guy since maybe second grade. i still like him a lot. the thing is there's a dance and i asked him to it. and i was so happy when he said he would go with me if he goes to the dance! yeah for me right? wrong. my friends were like forcing him to him to actually say yes. well i felt really bad so i was planning to talk to him alone about it but i don't have the guts to go ask him to go talk with me for a minute or 2 because he's always around his best friend who i absoulutly hate. then i got the feeling he really doesnt want to go with me to the dance and wants go with someone else and not me. i am fine with that but i don't know how to tell him that. then just yesterday my friends from a different class went to his house and made him feel horrible. the thing is i dont know who it was and he wouldn't tell me who it was so i am totally lost right now. so i guess my questions are: how do i ask him if he doesnt want to go with me or not? dont say aim cause he only signs on past 9 oclock and thats when i have to shut my computer down. next is: should i ask him if he is really mad at my friends for making him say yes? also: how do i talk to him in person without his best friend? finally: how do i actually talk to him daily and normally? help me please!

do you have his phone #? it would deffidentily help. if you dont i would write him a note saying that you are verry sorry about how your friends are acting and that you would like to make shure he really wants to go to the dance with you or if he just said yes because of your friends. and i would give a little talk to your friends about how you know they are trying to help but its really just making things harder for you. they should understand. hope i helped!

[view]


im 19 m and my gf is 18 and 7 months pregnant..shes emotional as hell and cries all the time..even when im with her..im away alot cus i play baseball and thats what i do for a living and she understands..waht can i do to makes her happy? please help me..thanks

if i were the girlfriend i would enjoy flowers... or maby you should take her out to dinner somewhere nice... but u need to remember she needs love and support so you should try to spend as much time with her as possible and when you r around her be as nice as you can be... whatever you do dont blow up at her. hope i helped

[view]


I really like this boy that i've known for a long time now and ever since ive met him ive liked him A LOT. so we went out then we broke up..then went out again and broke up again. I still like him SO much and ive tried to talk to other guys but i still cant get him out of my head and id do ANYTHING to not like him anymore because he has a girlfriend. I want him to realize how much still like him but he goes and tells his girlfriend that I'm friends with. I really need help fast! I usually get over a guy really quick but this boys somehow a different story! Ill rate 5's for GOOD answers! THX!

this sounds like what i call "far away love". getting over a normal love is almost ther same thing. go and find some hobbies, maby other guys that you like a little, or if there are none, look! your mind will be off him in no time. hope i helped

[view]


My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 days. I completely adore him and it's so weird. He makes me feel ways I've never felt before. And when he describes his feelings about me, they're exactly the same. I keep thinking it's love but I want to be ration. Can someone please yell at me and tell me good rational reasons that it cannot be love so that I do not get sprung and/or get my heart broken?

sry, but to me it sounds like love. i would just have a talk with him about breaking eachother's hearts, i mean, it is not egsactly fun. i have not felt that way about annyone in a long time, and to tell you the truth, people like me envy you. so love love while it lasts! hope i helped

[view]


I have a waxing kit I wanna use, but whenever I try, NOTHiNG comes off ! It's really annoying. Is there a right way to do it? Thnaks!

it might just be because the hair is not long enuf or you could just have oily hair or something. i would look at the box thingy just to make shure you r doing it right, too. hope i helped

[view]


hey well i got my period in the middle of march (it was my first one) and i still haven't got another one! is there anythin wrong with me? i know it usually takes a while, but does it take this long? plz help

when you first get it it can be really odd. like when i first got mine, one time it would be 20 days inbetween and the next time it would be 60 days inbetween. i wouldnt worry if i were you you sound perfectly normal. hope i helped

[view]


Okay,so me and this guy have been together for about 10 months, and he is completely faithful to me, like he doesn't even talk to other girls hardly ever, and he never hangs out with any other girls but me. But the other night he went to a party last minute and was completely wasted, and girls showed up and one locked him into a bedroom with her and started coming onto him, they ended up having sex. I found out about this a few days later, and he completely regrets it and he siad he had really no clue what was really going on that it went fast. we broke up, but we sitll talks and he says he wants nothing more than to be with me.. and like hes not even that kind of guy.he's not forceful, aggressive, or anything in that naturee if u know what i mean? and i mean we really had something speciall and i dont know what to do.. just let him go or try and makes thigns work? what do u think

i'll rate high

i would try and make things work. it was not delibrate, and u gotta have some simpithy 4 the guy... you r probbly hurt preddy bad too... i would try and make it work but if annything like that happens again i would b/u with him. hope i helped

[view]


17/f ..all the time i cry..about little things and i get upset very easily sometimes i jsut sit in the bathroom and cry...i think about my life and whats going on and i just break down..does anybody know what i can do.or have an idea whats wrong? please help i rate high

i bet you annything its hormones. that happens to me sometimes too. ok, a lot. but when ever u feel so stressed u dont know how to handle it, take a nice hot bath and think about something you love more than annything. it always works. hope i helped

[view]


Ok heres the deal, Yesterday I got really drunk and I didn't know what I was doing and I got on a bus and I saw some people I knew, Well there was this one boy that my friend knew and she told me about..and I sorta told him that I thought he was cute..and He was like who are you and I was like uh *my name* and I was like yeah well i know ur name and he was like how the hell do you know my name and now he prolly thinks im a big stalker! What if he says something on monday about it! ill be so embarrassed I just don't wanna go to school its gonna be horrible! so my question is how can I avoid the terrifying situation? or how can I face him ugghh

signed
HELP

i would have my friend talk to him and tell him the story, cause i mean, that would be so imbarrising for annyone. in the mean time i would just do my best to avoid him. hope i helped

[view]


My boy friend's best friend is my ex...and he is always over there and I get so mad because duering school he was always at hme on weekends and stuff so that we could spend time together...I mean just us...and now he is always over there nd when I won't to do somenthing with him or when he asked me to do soemntihg his little friend (my ex) has to come along!Uggghh! It makes me so mad! What do i do about it?

if i were you i would talk to my boyfriend and tell him that being around my ex is kind of unconfortable. he should understand. if he doesnt and he keeps it up i would talk to him 1 more time and after that i would b/u. hope i helped

[view]


Okay, I am really confused!! A lot of guys at my school always talk to each other about how they are SO in love with me. But not one of them has asked me out at all during the whole year. And in class, all they do is gawk at me. I don't get it!

thats the same thing 4 me. i was wondering about it myself and i realised there is alot of possibilties. like, if their friend liked you too, then they might not want to betray them. or they could think you r so hot that just thinking about you turning them down gives them nightmeres? who knows? hope i helped!

[view]


i really like this guy, and all my friends say he likes me because he flirts with me. WE wrote notes in class, and we talk on the phone pretty much every night, and we hung out one time alone with each other. Everyone is telling me he likes me because he flirts with me, but i have a hard time belieing that he actually does. If somebody flirts with you does that mean they like you, and does this guy seem like he would like me? Thanks!!

dude, he likes u. im not saying if someone flirts with u they like u, but all that other crap has me convinced. hope i helped

[view]


13/f


Lucky me, I just happened to get my period a few days before I leave for the beach with my friend. It's Thursday and we leave on Sunday, and my period usually lasts for about 6-8 days. I've never used a tampon before. I asked my mom, but she was no help. She just said hopefully it'll be done by the time I leave. Any suggestions on what I should do?

u know, there are directions on the box that r really specific. sry about the short reply, but that is really all i can say. hope i helped

[view]


I'm not really one to ask this kind of question..But there's this guy. He goes to another school, I just recently started talking to him over the phone and stuff. We have a lot of chemistry. We always have something to talk about. So I just called him, I haven't talked to him since last night, and he didnt answer his phone. Do you think I should call him again or just wait for him to call?

did u leave him a message? if so, id wait 4 him to call u. but if u didnt i would call him again after 24 hours. hope i helped

[view]


as stupid as it sounds, i don't care! i just need help! im 13 and have been going through puberty SLOWLY. its so annoying, but my cousin is a bit older than me and is telling me when your breasts grow while your going through puberty-they hurt! and now im noticing it! my right breast is starting to hurt and grow a little more. but my left breast isn't doing anything! im getting worried that ill look like a freak because my right breast will grow faster and not gradually with the right one! i don't feel comfortable talking to my mom about it... is this normal???

-issues

most people have uneven breasts. i do. my guy friends girl friend does. my mom did. alot of people do, and its hard to notice. they should even out by the time u r around 20. hope i helped

[view]


When does the "cycle" usually become regular?!?! Mine keeps coming at random times and now, it's not coming at all! The last time I got it was February 24???

sry but 4 some people it doesnt become regular till they r around 25 or even 30. u can also miss from stress or hormone imballance. hope i helped

[view]



<<< Previous Advice Column
Next Advice Column >>>
humorist-workshop

eXTReMe Tracker