My boy friend's best friend is my ex...and he is always over there and I get so mad because duering school he was always at hme on weekends and stuff so that we could spend time together...I mean just us...and now he is always over there nd when I won't to do somenthing with him or when he asked me to do soemntihg his little friend (my ex) has to come along!Uggghh! It makes me so mad! What do i do about it?
shortyskatrtoo answered Wednesday June 8 2005, 6:46 pm: Maybe ur ex still has feelings for you. you might want to talk to your boyfriend about planing a secret date. if you dont want to tell him y you dont have to but it might be better if you do. i hope i've helped
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Morganqb6 answered Tuesday June 7 2005, 11:44 am: Well yeah I can see where you're problem is. lol...Have you talked to your boyfriend about it? I mean he might think that you're ok with it. Ask your bf if he's fine with "ben" tagging along everywhere...If he is...then tell him that you're not too comfortable with it. If he's not ok, than ask him to talk to "ben" and see if just the two of them can have some good ol male bonding time away from when you're trying to hang out with your bf. That's going to be the easiest way. I don't think that I would talk to your ex about it, just because the fact that he IS your ex, if you see what I'm saying....But if you have any more questions don't hesitate to ask....Good luck
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milliethu answered Monday June 6 2005, 7:46 pm: if i were you i would talk to my boyfriend and tell him that being around my ex is kind of unconfortable. he should understand. if he doesnt and he keeps it up i would talk to him 1 more time and after that i would b/u. hope i helped [ milliethu's advice column | Ask milliethu A Question ]
XSugarPieX77 answered Monday June 6 2005, 6:45 am: Well, your boyfriend has his friends and you have yours. Dont your friends join along sometimes? Even though he's your ex he's still your boyfriends friend. Usually guys dont really try to get back at there girlfriends because they seem to me to be very laid back. So, i think he just goes with you guys to hang. You could just talk to your boyfriend and tell him how you feel. Good Luck.
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GrAcIeBeLlE answered Monday June 6 2005, 2:13 am: Tell your b/f the truth, hw will understand...hopefully!
poa answered Monday June 6 2005, 1:55 am: You obviously ended the relationship on bad terms. Try selecting some activities that the person won't be involved with, or just subtly bring it up to your boyfriend. Don't go straight out and say that you never want this guy to be around, because if you try to become controlling then you probably will end this relationship on bad terms too. Love isn't always about sacrafice but sometimes it is, if you feel you love your boyfriend enough then either try and talk to him about it, or just deal with it. If you are getting so flustered that you are considering cutting off relations with this man because of his friend. Well, then you probably shouldn't be in the relationship at all in the first place. [ poa's advice column | Ask poa A Question ]
rockstarxlove answered Monday June 6 2005, 1:11 am: let him know && tell him you dont always want it to be a group thing. if hes a good bf he'll understand. =)
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