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I meet this kid last summer he was having a terrible night as he walked home. and i ws walking my dog and i said something about my dog to him and made him laugh. ever since that day i thought about this kid. well last monday i was up a community center and i meet him there ago not reconizen him and he brought up what happen i was like that was you well we hang out every day i found out he is a senior and im a freshman i no i "dont know what love is yet" but i really like him alot we have so much in common help me!! i rate high

keep haning out with him. make him like you. smile and wink at him. dont over do it though. no slutty clothes, too much make up, ect. just be you and use all the charm you got on him. good luck and have fun with it.

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ok so im 13 im around 5 foot and weigh 125 am i over weight? i feel as if i am and if so how could i loose some weight? thanks

oo p.s i dont stick to diets well :\

maybe a little overweight. excercise. go jogging. watch what you eat. not exactly diet just dont eat a whole bag of chips then eat a whole pint of ice cream. ya know? eat breakfat,lnch and dinner. nothing in between.

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Im starting a diet today. Your traditional no soda, all water, fruits &&veggies kinda thing. Im planning on becoming a vegetarian also..I alrady know the excersizes im gonna do, so dont think that im not stupid enough to juss search this, but what are some good MEALS, like for dinner i could eat? My mom is always making something with MEAT in it. She says shell make me something else if i give her an idea..so any ideas?
*will rate*

substitute all meat with RAW nuts. let me emphisize raw. roasted and fried nuts are really bad for you. theyre full of bad fat. raw nuts are good for you, they have good fat that will make you lose weight. go on a raw fruit nuts, and veggies diet. all raw. i read in a magazine that demi moore is on that diet. good luck!

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Okay sorry this might get long

I went through pubirty really young and well I was almost obese as a child but when I got my period I really slimmed down but Im not fat I just have a little bit of chubbiness on my stomach and on my thighs (I have really muscular arms and calfs) but like is there something I could do to target both of those areas (thighs and abs) Btw I have no natural waist and have a wide frame

do 20 sit ups and work your way up to 200 each day. little by little. jog and run. youll lose that fat in no time!

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Are weed and pot the same thing?

yes

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What does "straight edge" mean?

something straight. like a book, ruler, paper, ect.

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Is it wrong that I'm happy over the fact my ex-girlfriend just got cheated on by her most recent boyfriend?

good for you! you should feel happy. she cheated on you and she got a taste of her own medicine. what goes around comes around

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i have trouble with french kissing. Ive tried but i think i think about it too much. my bf hasnt done it b4 either and hes tried to get to that point but i wouldnt let him. how would i do my lipsand what do i do?
thnx

open and close your mouth just a little bit on his tongue. then stick your tongue in his mouth and wiggle it aroud a bit. good luck

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How do you burn calories?

basically anything but you burn a lot of calories by jogging and walking. good luck

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over a few years, i have gained pounds and my friends have told me that it is because metabolism has slowed down. is there any way to speed it up again?

excercise. take a jog around the block, do sit ups. youll jump start your metabolism. have fun with it. good luck

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First of all, let me clear the air. Im a sexually active 20 year old, Ive never been married, and I personally see nothing wrong with premarital sex, or sex in general.

But.

I have many friends who are Christian or Catholic, and they are (in my opinion) anywhere from sexually repressed at best, to afraid of and disgusted by sex at worst.

I cant really talk to most of them about it, simply because its a very uncomfortable subject.So I pose the question to the masses. For those of you who are religious, what are your views on sex, and why?

Thought provoking answers might get my screen name for further discussion, if you like. Any answers that sound something like

"ur crazy! Sex is uber cool! I LOVE SEX AND THERS NOTHIN WRONG WITH IT!! hope I helped plz rate"

or outright flames will get a 1.

if you believe there is nothing wrong with it then no one can tell you what to believe but i believe that it is wrong.

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ok is there a website where i can learn how to type fatser i will dowload it and sign up but i just need a website quick i rate 5s

practice on micosoft word. type
qawsedrftgyhujikolpzaxscdvfbgnhmj and just make up things to type to make it easy. good luck

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where can i get a dooney and bourke purse? thanks xoxo

strawbridges or bloomingdales

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okay so I need to lose weight. well I dont mind getting on the tredmill its just that if i look at the same thing everynight while i'm on there (which is the road because my treadmill is facing the front door) i get bored and its no fun anymore...I already listen to music but thats to focus my mind on something else. I tried asking my parents to move the treadmill in the livingroom so I can watch TV while i'm working out but they still wont go for that! I asked this before, and someone told me to "watch my neighbors" well my neighbors are never out! I just watch cars pass by every 1 hour and i hate it! Any suggestions on how to make it more fun?

aerobics are fun and yuo could do 100 situps, push-ups, waist twists and wall sits. start out with a small number like 20 and work your way up to 200. its not easy or fun at first but it will get easier. and youll get addicted to it. youll feel like "omg i didnt do my workout!!!! grrr....." then youll be in a bad mood. you can watch TV or listen to music while doing it. have fun!

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14/f

Ok, I'm having a birthday party in late october. It's going to be a boy/girl party.. my mom was thinking I should do like a halloween theme i dunno yet. What are some activities I can do for like 13-15 year olds that are fun, or where should the party be at or stuff we should do? (ex- bowling, house, games, ect.)

house party. make both your parents stay out of where the paty will take place. invite as many people as possible. equally boys and girls. play spin the bottle and 7 minutes in heaven. turn off the lights and have a dim, colored light somewhere in the room. make good party mixes. or get someone else to. good luck!

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What can I do to make me think about food less?

nothing but diet pills. just hide food from yourself or ask someone to. good luck

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okay well lately ive really had the urge to have a baby. im 16 and ive been watching kids and playing with my niece ( 2 1/2) and it really makes me want to have one. i dont want one for the sex or anything i just want it for the whole thing pregancy, birth baby everything and going around kids makes me want one more and more. what should i do? i dont live it a kind of neighbor hood where that is really acepted and my parents would kill me if i had a child but i want one so bad like you have no idea what do i do? its not like i can even control these urges they are there



its not like i want to i do but its like this urge that wont go away its all i cant think about. and watching my niece doesnt help it makes me want 1 of my own more.


i know i am emotional stable and if i did get pregnant my family would help me support this child but i know its not how i was raised and there arent alot of teen pregnancies in my more upscale neighborhood but i feel like i cant live without having a child

i also do babysit and work with children

well....keep working with kids and wait till your in college to have a baby. youll be away from your parents and neighborhood. find someone you really love. good luck

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WHat is "friends with benifits?"

when your friends with someone but you both know that if you really want to go out you just tell them and it will happen. its basically a boyfriend and girlfried already planned out just in case

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ok.. i kno having sex is a big thing anme virginity is something i could neva get back my boyfriends and i have been goin out 4 2 yrs and the subject about us haveing sex came up about 2 months ago and hes not a virgin and im not either but i told him i was(long storyand weve been goin stedy and i love him ... uis 13 to young to have sex and is there any way he could find out im not a virgin......

13 is waaaaaaaaaaay too young. dont have sex

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Ok 4 about 2 weeks I have been loosing alot of weight! I mean like I have lost 7 or 8lbs in that time period. What I have been doing is not eating ANYTHING from 7:00am to 3:30pm and I have pratacly been starving my self. When I think of Food I get so hungray. But I don't feel like eating. I weighted 220lbs and now I weigh about 212. Is this healthy. I eat when I get home. No Smartasses please. Thanxs

your overweigt im guessing. keep doing this then when your how much you wanna weigh then start eating again.

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