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Hey there, my name is Amanda.I am the type of person whom will tell you things straight up. Go ahead, ask me any question. If I can't answer it, I'll try my best to help you find it. I'm online a lot so questions will be answered asap.

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Anyways about me,
Loverocks has just been a nickname for me for about 6 years now. I am 26 years old, happily married to my hubby of 10 years. I am a stay at home mom of 4 great kids. Proud cub scout and girl scout mom. Also proud to be mom of a gifted child. Me and my hubby are starting our own auto repair biz. So...I'm a part time mechanic. Right now one of my main goals is to raise my kids the best I know how. I love to pull minor jokes on my friends and family. Dance with my kids and listen to my rock and country cd's.

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ok so at the present time i have exremly bad allergys and a throat infection, and the common cold. I cannot breath right not at all becuse my noes is sooo lugged up and whenever i blow my noes it jsut gets worst. my senior prom is saturdy and i cannot get over this. but i would just like to sleep tonght and i cnat if i can breath. Any suggestions?? thank you much!

I would suggest taking a decongestant to help you breath better. Clairiton or Sudafed are some good ones.

Lots of liquids and rest too.

Hope this helps.

~Loverocks~

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thanks and sorry but how do you know if it has and infection? do you know?

Check for:

* redness
* hurts to touch
* swelling of any kind
* or any unusual symptoms

If you have any of these symptoms you should tell your parents asap.

~Loverocks~

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Ok
so I'm a sophmore in high school and my boyfriend iss a junior,
we started talking for atleast 3weeks and decided to go out after and i really like him i've never felt like this before but i also feel like something is missing. I've only been going out with him for about 1.5 weeks and maybe we rushed it a little because we talk on the phone comfortably but sometimes in person it gets a little awkward. Also is it messed up to flirt with a friend of yours and hug him (it doesn't mean anything) but he is the jealous type.

Might I suggest spending more time face to face than on the phone. Just getting to know eachother better. The more you comunicate that way the less you will feel so awkward.

I wouldnt be flirting with another guy if I had a b/f. Think about it how would you like if your b/f flirted and hugged another girl? You probably wouldnt like it.

Wish you luck
~Loverocks~

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well its ink from a ball point pen. and so far its staying on...its been on since last friday.

I would be really carefull with it. I have no experience with pen ink. The homemade tattoos are usually made with indian ink. I have no idea how you would get it though.

If its stayed on this long you should have it for a while at least. Just keep an eye on it in case it becomes infected.

Good Luck!

Feel free to ask me any more questions.
~Loverocks~

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hi, my names kathleen and I'm a little paranoid. I'm about to turn eighteen in a couple days and my boobs still seem to be very uneven. I kno its not breast cancer, but is there somthing I should do I mean ones about an a cup n the others a b cup. Should i wait it out or should i b concerned??? Thanx 4 all the help

Most women have uneven breast sizes. If you are really worried about it I would ask your doctor what they think about it.

~Loverocks~

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so all through elemtry school into middle school i had this crush on a kid, lets call him mike. and i could never ever tell him i liked him, because my best friend, lets call this one jay, adored him. and was upsessed with him. so i never told anyone i liked him. 7th grade he got sent to rehab, and i kinda forgot about him. now, 3 years later, he is back. and i hung out with him, and my new best friend, lets call her shelly. well i started liking him. and then he tells me that he thinks shelly is hot. and then he also told our friend ron and ron told shelly. and shelly started liking him. though she knows i like him. and yesterday they ran away from me and our other friends and dissappeared for 3 hours... and today i walked in on them hooking up. they have known each other for 3 days... and she knows i like him. like is it bad that im mad? like should i be this upset? cause im like furious and disstroyed. im so lost. help?

Good friends dont jump like she did first of all. Second, just wait and see what happens. I understand your mad. But, I wouldnt interfere with what they have going on.

Hope this helps. Ask me questions anytime.

~Loverocks~

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alright well i got a home made tatoo by my friend...what she did is she drew the design, made a cut of it..then put ink in it. i readded ink for three days then washed the extra off. it stayed..it has been for 5 days now. but i am affraid it will come off or something..i cant tell my mother!!! and i cant go and see a proffesional. is there any tips on what i should do or how i could keep it on.... any tatoo artists any one who is experienced would help it they could give me advice....or some one who just knows. thnx!!!!!!!!oooh and i dont have ink poisoning.

May I ask what kind of ink you used? Did you use regular pen ink? The reason I ask is only a certain kind of ink really works. Let me know so I can answer your question better.

~Loverocks~

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okay so i have a boyfriend that i like alottt and he claims to like me too, he even tells me he loves me alot and says really sweet things. Well every night we talk alot, and then at school we see eachother for like 4 minutes between sum classes and we hardly talk? he hugs me and stuff and kisses me but its hardly any conversation at all. he talks to his friends and i kinda just stand there so i have my friend wait with me and i talk to her because i dont wanna look stupid just standing there. I mean we do talk but its just like whatever nothing special. Well today she informed me that she seen him with his arms around some girl walking her to class, should i be worried about that? i mean i dont think he'd be cheating if he was hugging me and kissing me and stuff out in the open. i'm not really sure what do you guys think about all of this?

First thing, DON'T confront him yet. Because he will only tell you what you want to hear. Whether its the truth or not.

To me its a little weird that he isnt around you and his friends at the same time. I would keep an eye on him when I could and go from there. That way you see things for yourself.

Good Luck! Ask me questions anytime.

~Loverocks~

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so for the past two years or so, i have been reaaally depressed. sometimes i'd pop out of it and be happy, but only for about 4 hours or less at a time. then i'd get upset again. its not that anything is bad at home, because everything is just fine. right now, its my friend's depression and her eating disorder and her alcoholic parent that she takes care of...and i cant help her. and i feel i should because shes so busy taking care of her mom she cant take care of herself! but i only see her once a week so its really hard...

and also im having boyfriend issues and stuff.

but i was just wondering is it still called depression if you're not ALWAYS UNHAPPY?? like i said, im mostly upset. but every now and again...like maybe 2-4 times a week, i'd get happy for a very short time. then i'd get sad again. is it depression or is it something else??

and again, like i said this has been going on for two years. im now 15/f.

What i would suggest is have your parents to take you to your family doctor. They would be better at diagnosing something like that. Also, if you do have depression they might can give you something to take for it.

Hope this helps :)

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I think i really like my best friend. The only thing is is that i cant tell whether the feelings are mutual because most people would say if he flirts with you then the answers yes but thats what our relationship is. We spend like every day with each other and usually kisses me goodbye. It feels as if we are dating each other just without the sxual bit involved. So what are the signs of him liking me? and should i just tell him that i do like him or think i like him? i'm kind of scared tho because i don't want to ruin the relationship but i can't go on feeling wierd with butterflys when i see him nd tht. thanks x

Sounds like somethings going on if he kisses you goodbye. You should just sit down and tell him how you feel. Thats the only way you are going to be able to get through the butterflies and all.

Hope this helps :)

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I just want suggestions on cute baby names for boys and girls. Thanks. Leave as many as possible.

Here is a few good ones

Bethany Ann
Tyler Anthony
Amy Marie
Cameron Michael
Heather Renee


Might I suggest going to www.babynames.com and checking out there collection. They even have the meanings of the names.

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is there a website or anything where i can put my face on a celeb to see if i want that hair style?

thanks--

This one is from the Ladies Home Journal.


http://www.lhj.com/lhj/story.jhtml?storyid=/templatedata/lhj/story/data/tryahairstyle_landingpage_06292004.xml

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Ok so I went out with my exboyfriend for a little over a year and we did it. It always burned and it burned to pee afterwards, but I thought there was no way I could have an STD because he had never done anything passed kissing a girl and the same with me with a guy. It never was enjoyable. I thought maybe I was allergic to the latex. We did it without one and it didn't really burn. Maybe a little so I'm worried now. I don't think its normal for it to hurt that much considering we did it like 100 times and the majority of the times it hurt and I never really got any pleasure. Please tell me your thoughts. I hope I'm just over reacting, but I think I might want to get tested incase. Please help me. =(

I would go to the doctor get tested. Sometimes infections do that too.

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ok well my ex boyfriend and i have been best friends for a while then dated and just broke up like a week ago because he doesnt have time for a girlfriend. also because im moving in a month and a half. well the thing that practically kills me how can a person not have time to just call their 'best friend'?? like can't they just make some time?? it is so frusterating because we never talk anymore and im LEAVING FOR GOOD SOON so HOW can he not want to talk to me and realize its important? i know he might be trying to deal with me moving but anyone with a brain should know to spend time with someone whos leaving-at least TALK to them!!! please dont tell me hes hurting or something because what the hell im the one leaving my whole life!! should i just stop even wanting to talk and being good friends with him because it really upsets me that he never has tme for me because everyone in the whole frickin world has time to call one person every couple days. i dont care how frickin hard high school is hes only a freshman and there is no way he has too much hw to even call me every other day or something. i know he just isnt making time because im sure he could call when hes watching tv when he gets home from school. thanks

Have you tried calling him instead? Just a thought.Sometimes we have to make an attempt to do something first sometimes.



I'll be straight up with you.If he dont want to talk then. I would just leave him alone. I wouldn't force him to do anything. Have you thought about how he might feel about you? There might be some reason as to why he aint talking to you.

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is it all that bad? i have MANY MANY friends who are teenage parents and they just say oh i love my baby and i dont regret having it. and blah blah blah. they make it seem like its the best thing. i want to know what its really like. but i dont dare ask them because i know they wont tell me the bad things. so what did you go through or going through? do you honestly regret keeping it and all that? I DONT MEAN DO YOU REGRET YOUR BABY! because i know that its your child and you love it so you wouldnt regret that but if you could go back in time would you change things?

I had my first baby at age 16. I had no idea what I was getting into. I had to get up every morning at 5 am because of morning sickness. My boyfriend now husband was there for me the whole time. But, lots of girls are not that lucky. Guys dont always take resposability. So, the girls winds up being single moms. I had to grow up so fast. After all I couldnt be the kid anymore. I had to learn to get up at all hours of the night just to feed my baby or rock her back to sleep. You have to make sure they have plenty to eat, have clean clothes, make sure they are safe, they get all the shots they need, take them to checkups. I realized I couldnt hang out with my friends like I used to cause I had to stay home and take care of my baby.

I am now 26 with four great kids whom I love very much. But, being a teenage mom isnt as fun as you may think. Trust me.

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