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Hey! My name is Kenzie, and I am your average 14 year old girl! I have lots of friends and enjoy helping people. I like listening to music and playing my guitar and volunteering at my Local Humaine Society to get animals new homes. Hope you e-mail me and if you have any problems. Don't be shy.

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My mother was crying about something with my family and I gave her a hug and she got green eyeliner and black mascara all over my new velour sweatshirt. How can I get it out it's my favorite sweatshirt? I will rate 5's.

Put it in the wash and put stain remover on where it rubbed in your sweater

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i have always been the girl to get her period REALLY heavy, like changing a super tampon every 2 hours and ive always been on schedual to the day! but this time i was 2 WEEKS late AND i cant even fill the littlest tampon. is this normal? please dont reply by saying its disgusting b/c i really need help! i rate good advice!

Its all normal! Every cycle can be different.

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ok, i am in love with a beautiful girl. but i love her for her personality and the way she asks and shes just perfect! i would like do anything she asked and would take a shot for her. but then comes the problem. i moved to africa about 6 weeks ago. i wake up at like 3 am every morning to talk to her but this move is still breakin my heart. i never actually go the chance to ask her out be for i moved cause i new it would make it all more painful for her. so my questions are, what should i do about this move because i'm goin to give her up and second, i wanna ask her how she feels about me but i dont wanna ask cause idk how she'ld react. i'll rate if u show me you gave this sum thought...

If you choose to give her up, let her go slowly but you can always say that you just want to be friends because that can make it easier on you both.

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What do you guys think of a 18-year-old(f) dating a 24-year-old(m). And don't give any of that "age doesn't matter crap" bcasue it does. What do yall think of the maturity levels?

The biggest problem I see... The 18-year-old is still a freshman in college and the 24-year-old graduated 2 years ago.

I think its ok as long as he dont harass you. Maturity doesn't really matter to me. It doesn't matter! Whatever feels right for you and him.

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I've gotten a couple ridiculous questions in my inbox lately- disgusting questions and some that, i just don't have any idea what to say to them. but i feel bad just not answering these people. does anyone else have this problem?

People will encounter the problem sooner or later. My advice is that you tell the person that you can't find the words to put for an answer. They should understand

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Am I the only one that believes people should type correctly when asking a question? Is there some way to create something that would change words that were "Chatspeak" to English?
For example:

there is dis boi, i relli relli like him! wat do i do?

Would become:

There is this boy, I really, really, like him! What do I do?

I know that is a dumb question to start with, but it's an example. I don't know how to create a program that would change the "fake" words into "real" words.. if you know, and would share, you rock!

It may bug you but some people are in a rush and don't always have the time to spell right.

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Me and my friends (guys and girls) always play truth or dare ! Its so much fun. But dares always get boring kind of. Does anyone know any good questions to ask for TRUTH? =)

Ask them how far they been with someone, their deepest secrets, the craziest thing they ever done or want to do, what they would do if they had the chance to be with the people they like, how they are going to be

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theres this guy that i like and last year he wrote "i

Tell him to quit flirting if he has a girlfriend but be joky about it.

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My dog barks at the slightest movement or sound. He chases my four cats around and when hes on a walk he chases cars. He is a Border Collie, so it is natural for him to try to herd things. He is so out of control sometimes that he will see the neighbor dogs from the inside window and will throw himself at the window, barking like a maniac. What do you suggest I do?

I suggest that you keep your dog occupied but not isolated. If he barks at anything he sees, thats ok because its a natural thing to do for all animals. (even cats)

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I have this aquaintence that I see on campus from time to time. We went to the same high school. 21/f. We had this class together and some girls were talking about her and being really catty because she has lots of money and she is sorta fake but not offensive. She has never been anything but nice to me. I didn't appreciate that those chicks that didn't even know her were judging her. I still see her every week and I think about that often. Should I say anything or is it just water under the bridge?

Its nothing important. Ignore them immature people and move on with having a good friend!

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I think I have a problem. You see I am terribly clumsy so I bump into stuff,fall, and trip alot. As a result I get really bumped and scratched up. My problem comes in with the healing. While my wounds are healing I enjoy the sensation of the pain. I enjoy it so much that when they scab over I tear them off so I can feel the pain all over again. I don't bump into stuff on purpose. But I do enjoy the reprecussions alot. 21/f. Is something wrong with me? Could this lead to a cutting fettish?

Hey, this stuff happens to me too. So you aren't alone. Nothing is wrong with you. Most people find the object of pain amusing but that doesn't mean you aren't normal like everyone else. I don't think it could lead to a cutting fetish, but if it does, be sure to get help ASAP!

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my boyfriend always fingers me and eats me out but the problem is i never have an orgasm. i was wondering why that is or if theres anything i can do to have one?
14/f

Tell him what things you like

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this is kinda imbarrasing to ask... but i gotta know. i shave down there, ya know? and well sometimes it gets gross. i usually wait like 2 days before doin it again, but i dont know its wierd. and sometimes it even bleeds! OH! and i get these little red bumps. is this normal? is there somethin i can do to make this stop?
thanks in advance!

That is totally normal and don't worry if u bleed. It happens. :)

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well, theres this thing at school that i was really looking forward to and my clingy little sister wouldn't let me go, and i'm also part of the school thing.. so now i'm late and i'm all pissed off and i dunwanna walk in when i'm late and i'm really really mad rite now and i wanna start beating ppl up like literally breaking things and crap and i hafta blow off sum steam so how can i do that without like. hurting nebody?

Put your feelings in writing or put the agression into something else. You can go for a walk, exercise or listen to music.

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HeY! i'm 16... (17 in 2 months) and i just started going out with a guy whos 20 years old... the thing is.. he thinks i'm turning 18... and i'm scared to tell him... because i dont want to loose him! what should i do?

Tell him because sooner or later he is going to find out and things could get awkward when you are together.

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ok i wrote a question about the whole shop liftin situation but in case you didnt read it its just about i was caught shopliftin for my friend and blah blah blah thats basically it but i was wonderin if the punishment my parents gaave me was fair,they told me i had no tv no phone the whole 9 yards and im only writin this bc no one is home but the worst punishment is the fact that my bday is tommorow and they said i have no birthday this year....even after my punishment r they bein to harsh?

They are being way too harsh. But maybe on their terms they aren't because thats not who they raised you to be. It's still gonna be your birthday no matter what. No one can change that. Even when they say its cancelled.

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f/19
My bf and I have been dating for about a month now and he recently told me that he thinks hes in love with me. I'm kind of turned off by that because its so soon. He keeps asking me how I feel and I told him I'm not sure, I'm not in love with him, what should I do.

If your not in love with him, he needs to accept that. Tell him he is moving too fast and that he needs to slow down in order to make it work better.

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Ok... how do you feel when a girl asks you out, or how do you think you would react to it?
And how do you feel when a girl you like talkes to you?
I really wanna know. I'm also thinking of asking my guy friend out maybe later this week. Do you have any good advice?
rate high*

I know how guys feel. They feel like they don't have to do anything so they accept right off.When girls talk to them, they be themselves and don't pretend. Ask him out and tell him how you feel/

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Hey does anyone know of any good websites where I can create my own free website.I want to beable to make it really cool like this one or www.pogo.com so I will get more visitors,and anyone who gives me an answer then I will rate you!!!

Go to AskJeeves.com and ask him where you can create your own website. That should give you some way of getting started.

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well this guy I have been good freinds with for a long time. And I like him, and a while back he liked me too. But that;s been put on hold because he's going out with this other girl... anyway, lately he has been walking away when I talk to him and it seems like he's pretending I'm not there, or he justdoesn't want me there. it hurts because I really like him and I miss the friends thing. What should I do?

Talk to him and ask him what is going on. Tell him that you feel like he is avoiding you and that it hurts

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