i am 22, i love helping people. I have been through alot even though i am still young. I know alot about friend problems, dating, meeting people online, seriouse realtionships, sex, computers, and even parenting. i dont know anything about music that would be one thing i am not good at. I am more than happy to help any one who needs it.
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Location: UK
Occupation: at home mom kind of
Age: 22
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Ok so my grades have never been that great, like bs and cs. Last quarter I got all As and 2 Bs. I get a "good job" and then my younger brother who got all Ds. And gets a freaking new xbox game and other stuff! I got nothing! And all my
mom says is "well I know you are capable of that" like what. No. I've never done that good, so I just don't think it's fair! And my brother tried hard at his baseball practice so
my mom got him ice cream and I got none. And then my
mom says "I always spoil you." I haven't gotten anything in a really long time. "/ it's not fair. I know I'm just jealous, but when she does this it makes me feel bad and I get a why bother attitude. It's not about getting stuff, I'm not that
materialistic it's just the fact he gets it and I don't. When I try so much harder and I'm such a nicer person"/ (link)
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talk to her about it, maybe she doesnt notice tell her if it doesnt work i am sorry there is nothing you can do.
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i am a 18 year old male and i need some good advice with my girlfriend? :/ recently we have been experimenting with four play, but everytime i try to stimulate her clit, or finger her it feels good at first but then i have to stop cause it always hurts her. i tried using my tongue, but even that eventually started hurting, i always stop when she says it hurts. i just want to figure out how to pleasure her, without hurting her?... please help? (link)
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maybe let her show you how. she may not be comftoralbe doing that. i used to say stop it hurts if i was uncomftorable or it was taking to long and i was nervouse that something was wrong with me. but if it really hurts she may need go to gyno.
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i like guys but I think about gurls a lot.. does that make me gay? (link)
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it could but everyone is curiose maybe its just a phase. dont worry about it either way is fine.
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lately whenever i'm around guys, no matter how old, i'll try to look better; letting my cleavage show a lot more, more sway in my step, smiling, flirting, etc. today we had a substitute and i did the same with him. i have a boyfriend and i'm very happy with him, but why am i trying to get basically ever male i come in contact with to lust over me? i'm really not that self-absorbed. (link)
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maybe your bf isnt giving you enough attintion. nothing is wrong with wanting some guys to like you or want you just dont get any of them in trouble and dont cheat
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I NEED HELP... i HAVE REPEATEDLY ATTEMPTED TO END MY LIFE....I NEED ADVICE,,, I HATE MYLIFE... I FEEL AS IFF U GUYS HAVE TO BE IN MY SHOES TO KNOW EXACTLY WEA IM COMING FROM... ITS NOT EASY LIVING THE LIFE THAT I AM LIVING...... ETC, (link)
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things may suck now but there is always something in everyone future. so dont its not worth it just be strong now and let life run its course maybe you should go talk to some one. i was misserable and i figured out that i was bipolar and depressed gave me meds now i am happy. good luck please just wait for the future it will be wonderful
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17/f
I have a major crisis.. i just got my period today and in a month i'm supposed to go to florida for volleyball nationals and i'm supposed to get my next period during that tournament :( the reason why this sucks is because
- i can't wear tampons. like i've tried at least 20 times and it just doesn't work for me. and there's no way i can get the experience now and be able to succeed wearing them in a month.
- the place we are staying at (rental home) has our own private pool and i can 90% guarantee that we will be swimming a lot.
- nobody on my team knows that i can't wear tampons, so it would be really embarrassing if i told them that i can't go swimming because i have my period.
so any advice??
btw- my mom won't let me go on the pill. i was thinking about asking my bff to get birth control pills and let me use them for a month until the tournament starts. do you think that will work? like if i started taking the pill asap, will i be able to skip my next period in a month?
also, is there any way i could make it come a week sooner? my period normally comes every 26 days, is there any way??? helppp i'm desperate. and please don't say "grow up and wear tampons" because i honestly can't use them and i won't have enough experience to use them in a month. thank you! (link)
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ok maybe try using the light tampons they are smaller and dont bug you as much. the pill you may be ok but it could mess up if you have a reaction to it. or if are that desperate just wear a light pad and wear shorts when u swim like soccer shorts
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do girls care or think its gross or w/e if a guy mastrobates? (link)
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its something everyone does its natural its not like its gross we know a guy does it but if we dont like go indepth thinking about it. its just a fact we know but dont think about alot its not gross its natural
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my best friend really likes this guy, and she never told me that she liked him, so i had no idea! And now she like hates me because, i started liking him. She thinks that i started liking him just to piss her off, and that's not true! How am i supposed to convince her that i had no idea she liked him? (link)
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well there are a few choices here. one dump your friend and go for the guy which is the least fun one. two talk to her and tell her that you liked him for awhile. three if you really want to keep her as a friend tell her you wont like him or go after him if she likes him. its a complicated one here
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me: 20.f.asian, him: 21.m.white. in short: i'm falling for my bf, but lately i've been feeling things like: wanting to date someone w/ my race/him having a daughter is starting to bother me. half of me thinks i want to be w/ him for a long time, the other half says i want to be single/date around. advice? (link)
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if you think about it then you probley arent ready to settle down. i was 20 when i met the guy i am with now he is the love of my life and not once have i thought about dating around. so you will know when the right one comes around
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I'm a virgin, 15 yrs old & totally in love with my boyfriend. We're both ready to have sex & the only issue I have on it is do you guys like hair 'down there'? I know some guys dont mind or & some guys really do. What do guys my age like? I dont want him to be disgusted when were about to have sex cause of my hair! He's not a virgin. (link)
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most guys younger dont it freaks them out
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((I'm 15/f))I think i am ready for sex but im not all that sure cause sometimes i think about it and think that i might regret it in the future. I REALLY like this guy tho. Also, I'm kinda scared that it will hurt really bad and i'm scared that i might not know what to do. What do u think? (link)
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take it from me if you really like a guy and you not dating dont do it. unless you are in love not like its not the best idea for your first time. your young becareful , are you on the pill if not then you need to wait till you are.
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okay, i have been with my boyfriend for like two years.
for a year now we have been having sex...quite frequently too
he has cum in me like every single time, but not once have i gotten pregnant.
why cant i get pregnant. does him smoking a large amount of weed have anything to do with it?
whats wrong with me :/
(18 y.o btw) (link)
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it could have something to do with it. maybe it just not ment to be right now if you are both ready keep trying but if your not maybe its the big guy upstairs helping you save your future everything happens for a reason. good luck
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a couple weeks ago i kinda nicked myself shaving on my bikini line, and it hasnt healed yet. i put neosporine on it and havent shaved over it since, but its kinda turned into a lil red bump .. and yesterday there was a lil tiny bit of puss coming out of it, like if you squeezed a zit. but less. has this ever happened to anyone else & what can i do to make it heal? thnx & i'll rate if you give a good answer =) (link)
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it just takes time maybe give it another week if it doesnt heal go to the doctor
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So iv'e been on the pill for over a year and my boyfriend wanted to finish inside me without protection and last night i finally let him. It was on the last day of my period and i take my pill religiously. Im very nervous about getting pregnant.. am i at alot or risk? (link)
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depends it always says if you miss one pill you should use a condom for aweek and i think that would go for your period to. not a big risk but i wouldnt let him do it unless you took a real pill that day not the sugar ones :)
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18f.
so my birthday is next week .. yay! :) there is this guy who i've always had a crush on but we're just good friends right now. well he can never remember my exact birthday for the hell of it. he remembers the month and around the day but never the exact date hah .. boys! well my cousin always reminds him like did you remember to text sam for her birthday? this year I don't want to just be like .. thanks when he texts me. i kind of want to say something like .. "thanks for remembering .. or did nate remind you (my cousin)" something so i could maybe talk to him for a little bit and be a little flirty at the same time. any suggestions? thanks! (link)
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say awe thanks i knew i was growing on you becuase you rembererd lol
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well a few weeks ago a friend was going to commit suicide. so me and my bff decided to take her moms car while she was asleep to go to the girls house n make sure she was ok. and this was all at 3am. well my friend crashed the car n we got charged with grand theft auto and were both in hospital for a week n a half. now my mom wont let me see my best friend anymore and its killing me. this girl is like my sister and she didnt mean to crash the car. whether my mom lets me or not, im still gonna see my best friend whenever i can but id rather not be getting in trouble for it. i think its stupid to have to lie but i dont know hhow to convinve my mom to let me see her again. please help, its killing me (link)
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maybe your mom is right you could of been killed. it doesnt sound like she is very responsible friend. just be safe
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I tried masturbating with a banana because I read that it felt really good, but then I bled after a couple minutes. Should I be worried? (link)
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wow thats really scary i hope you didnt put it back after wards any ways dont do that. maybe try nothing and just fingers or a toy from online
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see every day im home alone for about 10-11 hours and i get really bored have any ideas on how to make the time really fly i rate good!!! (link)
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i know the feeling i have to sit here all day everyday babysit it gets pretty boring. so we watch netflix, draw, go for walks, and some times play dress up. also on here alot answering questions or just search random sites. Fmylife.com is a good one facebook myspace peopleofwalmart.com too.
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I like my best guy friend alot.. but the thing is i set him up w/his g/f and shes a friend of mine.. and i have a b/f who i also like.. what do I do? (link)
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dont try to break any one up it will just blow up in your face, stay with your guy if you like him if not move on but dont try to go for your othere guy friend unless he is single.
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Im 18/female and im always geting mad when i see my man talking to other females he has never given me a reason for him to cheat and he keeps telling me he want every time i ask i dont know what to do i know he loves me but i just have a bad jelous problems and i dont know how to change it What do i do to stop being jelous! (link)
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i am the same way. just think that he is my man they cant have him and your the one he loves and cares about. and this is mean and rude but think you are better then them cause he chooses you. it doesnt hurt to think things just never say them as long as they make you feel better hehe.
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