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want to kill my mom
well a few weeks ago a friend was going to commit suicide. so me and my bff decided to take her moms car while she was asleep to go to the girls house n make sure she was ok. and this was all at 3am. well my friend crashed the car n we got charged with grand theft auto and were both in hospital for a week n a half. now my mom wont let me see my best friend anymore and its killing me. this girl is like my sister and she didnt mean to crash the car. whether my mom lets me or not, im still gonna see my best friend whenever i can but id rather not be getting in trouble for it. i think its stupid to have to lie but i dont know hhow to convinve my mom to let me see her again. please help, its killing me
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maybe your mom is right you could of been killed. it doesnt sound like she is very responsible friend. just be safe
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the reason your mother is hesitant to let you saee your best friend is that she seems to be leading you in trouble. she seems to have taken your indepence somehow. which could infact be true. it is advisable to talk with your mother and acknowledge your failure of 'stealing' the car and not asking for it. ask yourself also about your relationship with your friend, why is it that you want to be with her no matter what? may be you depend on her of some benefits which may infact not be material. so it is important to know what these benefits are and that will help you understand yourself as to why you really need her. taling to your mother about it and her view of your friendship may help you understand why she is refusing you to see her. i hope you will get the courage to do that.
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You need to sit your mother down & tell her that
what you did what was a mistake it happened unexpectly it was a bad judgement call on both your
part & your friend's but at the time you were concerned about your friend & weren't thinking about
what could happen while you were in the car or afterwards your only human you make mistakes..you could try saying something like that & talking your way out of it but you've got to realize when someone does something wrong they've got to suffer the consequences & by your mother not allowing you
to see your best friend your suffering the conseqences if you can't talk your way out of it then learn from your mistake & deal with the fact
that you can't see your best friend
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If it's any decent friendship it will survive the shitstorm you've called down on yourselves.
Seriously though, the two of you together are apparently extra stupid. Why in Gods name would you steal a car instead of just informing an adult if you thought she seriously might hurt herself. Your parents or an ambulance could have actually gotten there without additional hospital bills.
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