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pain when i try to pleasure my girlfriend i am a 18 year old male and i need some good advice with my girlfriend? :/ recently we have been experimenting with four play, but everytime i try to stimulate her clit, or finger her it feels good at first but then i have to stop cause it always hurts her. i tried using my tongue, but even that eventually started hurting, i always stop when she says it hurts. i just want to figure out how to pleasure her, without hurting her?... please help?
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maybe let her show you how. she may not be comftoralbe doing that. i used to say stop it hurts if i was uncomftorable or it was taking to long and i was nervouse that something was wrong with me. but if it really hurts she may need go to gyno. ]
It could be the more aroused you get, the rougher you get. Not intentionally of course. When she says it hurts try easing up until she isn't having pain.
If that doesn't (or hasn't) work, then she needs to see her doctor to find out why. It shouldn't be hurting her.
Here is a search with lots of tip sites. Perhaps you will find something that could help.
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