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Theres this girl i've liked for about 2 years now. i'm 13 and she's turning 15 in march. i really like her and i think she likes me but i don't know what to do. i keep asking her if she would ever like me but she keeps saying i don't know. what should i do? thanks. (link)
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Theres not that much you can do since she doesnt really seem like she interested. If she is shell tell you so just let it go for now its in her court. She knows you like her but if you kepp asking her she might get annoyed and i dont know may be a nice way of say no but you never know but its in her hands now so just leave it at that until she says other wise. Your both young.
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when a guy says that he regrets breaking up with you and that he's sorry....& that he wishes he would have tried to work things out.....well what does it mean. does it usually mean that he wants to be just friends or could it mean that he might want to get back together with you?
i rate...
13/f
Thanks in advanced (link)
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I would think that hes was trying to give you an open door to see what you would say back. There might also be a chance that he would want to get back with you becasue the guys i know dont normally say that kind of thing if theyre trying to shake a girl off of their sent. You should ask him what he meant by that,to find out for sure though.
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i have chubby cheeks, but im not a chubby person, i wigh 87 pounds and i have a round face.
i know im am still growing and going through puberty and my body is gunna grow faster in some places (my cheeks in this instance) and i know my body will catch up i guess, but heres the thing
i am a VERY ungie person that ALWAYS is going through change thats just me im exotic, im hippie, im punk, i just live my life fullest and i dont care what otherss think
currently my next change is i want to shave my head not TOTALY shaved bald but i want no hair, im worried about how it would look with my roundish face with chubby cheeks =]
any sugestions about how i can mabie losse some fat in my face?
hair style i want: http://www.sxc.hu/pic/m/b/bo/bohemienne/281044_bald_girl.jpg
me (this isnt the best pic. but my cheeks are bigger then they appear): http://i52.photobucket.com/albums/g2/peta2piggy/DSCF1106.jpg
thanx in advance --ashley (link)
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Its not really that you have chubby cheeks its just the way your face is shaped. I looked at the other picture to and that hair style doesnt look bad on her but im not sure how flattering it would be on you..if you really want it though and like it you can try it but if you end up not liking it your going to have a wait for it to grow back. or buy a wig..if your willing to live with that then go for it. If you want me to i can send you some hairstyle sites that will best suit your face just tell me if not thats ok to
http://beauty.about.com/od/hairstylephotogalleries/ss/roundfa.htm
http://www.hairboutique.com/tips/tip464.htm
http://sheknows.com/about/look/2280.htm
http://www.hair-styles.net/
http://www.visual-makeover.com/hairstyle-advice/hairstyles-a-round-face-shape.html
http://www.beautyden.com/hairstylesroundfaces.shtml
http://backtoschool.about.com/od/style/a/flattering.htm
http://www.azcentral.com/style/articles/071306haircut.html
http://www.visual-makeover.com/face.htm
i though the first one on the first website would look really cute on you but if you want some more or are looking for something more specific let me know.
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there's this guy who lives like right near me. And i knew from the first moment that he liked me. lets call him 'L'. I dont like him that way..i really like another guy who happens to be his friend too but he doesnt live near me. I'll call him 'J'. Anyway a girlfriend of mine confided in me that she likes 'L'. i thought that was fine because i dont even like him and ive known it for ages. anyways last night i think i led him on too much and didnt mean to and we ended up kissing and now we're going out. I feel so bad...i dont even really like him, he's like my best friend and he's great but i dont think im doing the right thing by myself, my best girlfriend, 'L', or 'J' for that matter. omg, what am i doing? please help me i dont want to hurt anyone. (link)
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In this case you might have to hurt some one(but they will eventually get over it and survive),you got your self in the situationso now just be honest tell l how you feel and break up with him.Hell survive then talk to your best girlfriend about it and tell her what happened and maybe have her talk to L about her liking him. Then start talking to J alittle more.But if your going out with L who you dont even like in the first place you are betraying your self,L,and your best girlfriend..so set it right and break up with this guy. If this guy is really your friend then hell understand if he doesnt then he wasnt your friend in the first place he just liked you. J is probably not going to be looking at you the way you want him to if your dating his friend so call him now and end it just say i really didnt think this was a good idea and the only relationship i can give you is a friendship and if we are truly friends youll accept it. If you think its ok then you might want to throw in that you also know someone who likes him but dont make it sound like your friend liking him or you liking his friend is the only reason he cant have you as a girfriend because then he wont let the idea go and will think there is still a chance.
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i find it hard to be myself automatically when i meet a person. i mean, even people i've known for like a year or so, i may not have really opened up to them yet. i can only do it with some people, but others, especially really outgoing people, i kinda act shy.. when im not really like that. its weird, because im normally outgoing but i guess i dont feel comfortable or something. i talk to them and stuff, and we may even be friends, but with some people.. well.. yea. how can i be myself like automatically? its hard to answer, since we're all different... but idk! (link)
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Just think theyre just people like you. I use to be like this to when i was alot younger and i realized i want people to like me for who i am not who they think i am of who they want me to be. So i started being me just keep a grasp on your normal habbits and speak what your truly thinking. Everyone else does. Just be yourself and dont care what others think be cause the odds are theyre being thereself and dont care what your thinking about it. Its not really a bad thing to open up to a few people..its really better to open up to people you fully trust are your friends and feel comfortable with. Its better to be who you are so you also know who you are truly clicking with but maybe what your describing is just apart of who you are and as long as your not betraying yourself then its not a big deal as you said everyones diffrent.
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idk,
lately it seems like all guys are jerks. atleast all the "decent ones", and the ones you REALLY like, are way out of your league.
:S (link)
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Your probably still in school just being exposed to immaturity. You dont have to go for guys your not attracted to you just have to becareful of the ones that you do like and thats same case with any guys. As far as being out of your league its not really that its just that they dont share mutual feeling and not every guy you really like will be that way it just varies. Believe me there will be better guys as you get older and out of school. So just continue going for guys you are atrracted to and eventually youll find a good guy just be careful and dont dwell on losses.
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okay i usually don't like talking about this, but a lot of people are concerned so i thought i would. for the past few months i haven't been eating the best. i usually have special K every morning for breakfast, snacks & yogurt for lunch, and for dinner whatever my parents make. that's about it. i see it as enough food to survive, but everyone always makes comments & says how it isn't. i think you should eat enough to survive. but anyways, people say/think i shouldn't be doing that & i should be eating more. i'm not really fat, but im not that skinny either. im a female, 5'9, and 144 lbs. to me, that's kind of a lot, but idk. everyone is saying im pushing myself to an eating disorder. i do exercise 5 days a week, but i feel that if i don't exercise or eat something i shouldn't, i feel extremely guilty & can't take it. it bothers me a lot. any advice you could give me?? anyone in this situation??
thanks!! (link)
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As long as your eating when your hungry and not eating when your full then your ok. what you wrote seems like that would be enough to fill someone. Its ok to diet and eat right as long as your not starving yourself or throwing up or using laxatives to get thin then dont worry about. Some people are just like that some people think if your not doing something the way they are then its wrong. Maybe it makes them feel self conscious so they try to draw attention to you or maybe there jealous if your starting to look better then them or maybe they just dont really know what theyre alking about. The point is as long as you are eating when your hungry and stopping when your full its normal. If you are dieting or just trying to stay in shape then thats ok as long as your not starving,trowing up,or using laxatives. You cant push yourself into an eating disorder its something people choose to do and it doesnt sound like you are choosing to do so. But dont be terrified to eat if you are hungry. Yes ive been in this situation to before...im petite so when ever i wasnt eating and other people around me were or if i ate like a little snack people would make a big deal of it but it was just because i wasnt hungry and smaller then them. So i just ignored them because sometimes people say stuff just to get attention or to make other people feel bad because their insecure or just because someones diffrent. Ignore them and do what suits you as long as your eating when your hungry and stopping when your full then your healthy.
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im the kind of girl who is shy around people. and i got a new best friend this year but ive never had a best friend before ive had friends but none of them have ever thought of me as their best friend. so anyways, im tired of my best friend when she comes over to my house which is like only once every 2 months all she does is take pictures of herself with my camera, its kindof a old camera but she almost broke it by pulling on it, and im tired of her shes not that funny and i dont know if i should stop being her best friend because if i do i wont have 1 so what should i do?
thanx (link)
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You shouldnt just be bestfriends with someone just to have a best friend.If you dont even like the girl which it doesnt seem like you do then stop being friends with her.Focus on friends that you actually like and that might form into a best friend relationship or start focusing on new people that you actually like. But its wrong to have someone around who you dont like or to pretend that you do like her. Shes obviously not your true friend and you dont seem to be hers either. So end it its better that way there are an abundance of people to meet and befriend not everyone clicks. So just cut her off and shell get the message.
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ok. i love making stir fry. i love my boyfriend who loves stir fry too. The other day i was cutting up some onions and salting up some broccolli when my boyfriend sexually caressed my rear quarters. i began becoming so exhilirated until the point I COULD NOT TAKE IT ANYMORE! in a blink of an eye IT WAS ON! the next thing i know im naked on the floor laying on broccolli. i was upset because my fry was burnt and looked like crap. i love my boyfriend but if he keeps turning me on and messing up my stir fry then its over. what should i do? i really need stir fry in my life..ha as wierd as it sounds. stir fry over sex. (link)
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Well you were in the middle of cooking I think he could of waited until you were done so your not wasteing food.Just tell him that youd appreciate it if hed not do that while your cooking i mean its just sex and youll have plenty of time to do it.So he can cool his heels a little bit. Im sure hell understand if you guys are so in love.
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ive known this guy for 5 years and hes always had a crush on me. 6 months ago i broke up with my boyfriend of 2 1/2 years. i am still very much in love with him but hes moved on and is deeply in love with some other girl. i gave the old crusher a chance and we have been together for a little over a month now and everything is perfect but i just cannot get my ex out of my head.
how can i move past my ex and concentrate on the one guy that loves me the most??
and is it fair to my guy to stay with him through the old feelings? (link)
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If you dont love him then its not fair to him or you. You can either break up with this guy and wait to see if your ex comes around or you can keep going with the guy who loves you and learn to love him or you can start over and find someone else if you dont think your current relationship is going anywhere. but if this guy loves you then its not fair for you to stay with him when you dont love him and are thinking about your ex. So if your not willing to love this guy and forget about your ex then dont string him along. If its going nowhere with you then its better to break up with him and find someone else you can love that may not be your ex if hes more in love with this girl.
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this is totally hypothetical:
wat if a guys friends are all whores (like seriously, they give head at least 2ce a day) and he gets a gf, that makes him wait 6 months to go further than kissing.
and he told her he loved her everday
and he stayed with this girl for 4 months and never got to do it.
and all his friends liked her.
but all her fiends hated him.
then he breaks up with her.
because he "cant handle the pressure"
but then he travels in a cycle, and starts over with her the same way that he did before he asked her out in the first place. flirting and all.
and he tells her he still loves her.
but also says he doesnt want to have a girlfriend.
what does that mean?
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Then its not true love because if he truly loved her he couldnt help but be with her and wouldnt want to leave her no matter what. If he loved her then he wouldnt care about sex or any other of those pressures because all that would matter is that he was with her and he wouldnt want the risk of losing her by not being with her.so it wasnt true love in that case.
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So i recently asked a Q about what I should do with this guy I like hwo is 18 and I am almost 15 on whether or not we should date. And I have been getting anwsers of "its a bad idea" Well what about, Not officially dating, but hang out, hug, kiss, hold hands, and talk and stuff? Is that still wrong? I care about him a lot and I just want to share something with him... Eeeck I do not know what to do. Help! (link)
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YES BEING A MINOR STILL IS AN ISSUE BECAUSE YOUR SO YOUNG YOU ARE STILL UNDER THE CONTROL OF YOUR PARENTS AND THEY CAN MAKE IT REALLY HARD FOR THIS GUY AND YOU.
Its still something he could get in trouble for you need to get your parents approval. If you were atleast 18 the age idea wouldnt be a bigdeal..its not that its a bad idea if this guy is up to snuff it just could lead to trouble if your parents find out. Its always better to be in a relationship because then if its not official theres no attachment so its no bigdeal if a person is dating other people while hes kissing you or having other non official relationships like you so thats never the best option because its bound to bite you in the butt. Just get your parents aproval and make sure hes up for dating you, and be very careful even though you know him.
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everybody in my school thinks i am emo or gothic.
so i dress black/red sorta different the others , look on the ground often , don't make eyecontact , mostly am sad (but that's just cause i hate the school and i'm lovesick lately) have naturaly black hair and naturaly white skin. yeah okay and i admit i hate myself , and hate my life blablabla
but does that make me emo?
cause i never thought about it that way (link)
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Everyones diffrent and its ignorant to categorize someone. So you have naturally white skin so do alot of people im pale to but i like it that way. At your age its not abnormal to hate your self and even though you shouldnt just dont get carried away but there are people who feel the same way at that age and older who arent emo or gothic. Those people are just grouping you in a stereotype. If your being true to yourself and arent caught up in an image then dont worry about it or let what they say dictate you.
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I've never had a boyfriend. Currently, almost all of my friends have one so it's making me feel even more lonely. I don't want one just cause they do, but I feel weird. I feel like if I have one, it will be awkward and I'll break up with them. I don't know. I REALLY want to have one, but I feel like I'm not ready. Is this weird? Lol, or is it normal? (link)
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No it just means your probably not ready. Everyone gets nervous about that kind of thing even though there is really no call for it because their just another person but if you feel really awkward its probably best you dont right now because that usually leads to disaster. Not having a boyfriend isnt that big deal..you shouldnt waste time with something that doesnt feel right.Its not an odd thing.
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so i like to write poetry, but im not sure if im any good.
would someone read this and tell me if its okay? and i want an honest answer, im not asking because im insecure, but because i really dont know.
A group of three friends is always a risk
because someone becomes the third wheel
and though I know that this is happening,
it almost seems surreal.
it can be really hard to hurt me,
but he was my Achilles’ heel.
All I want is to numb myself,
but I cant help but to feel.
I didn’t know you loved him
but, well, now I do.
and I didn’t think he liked you
but I guess it’s true
you’ve been there for me, always
but I love him, and you.
so although I'm really jealous,
I’m happy for you, too.
I never said I loved him
but I guess I was confused.
And I know us three were great
But pairs always come in two’s.
Life would be fine if we both got him
but I know he had to choose
so though I wish I could have won
I’d hate to see you lose.
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It's ok, Its average. Its not really unique and kind of predictable.Keep at it though.Its not terrible..just average.
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So I am almost 15 and everyone says i act and look like i am about 17. And there is this guy, he is 18 and he is supper sweet and nice. And not like other guys. And I like him and I am pretty sure he likes me. And dont think he is some nasy guy looking for some. He is a virgin, has had like 2-3 girlfriends, and has only gone to like 2nd base. He's a good guy. Im a freshman and he is a freshman in college, is this wrong?
like think about it, it is 4 years apart. my parents are 5 years apart, and there are people who are like 10 years. and i know its all a matter of maturity and i guess i have it. just, i dont know what to do. and advise, thought or anything would help.
Thank you! (link)
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I personally dont think age matters except in this case its illegal. if it was legal id say no big deal that hes older but its not. The only way that this would be ok is if you had your parents approval because if they found out it could be a big problem..just because you may look or act 17 doesnt matter because your still only 14 close to 15 right now. It also depends on what 17 year olds you are being compared to because there are some who are very immature. I'm not saying its wrong im just saying because your so far from being 18 you need your parents approval if they say no then your going to have to wait a few years. Because it could be a big problem down the line.
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sometimes classified as a psychedelic or a hallucinogen?I've never heard of anyone experiencing hallucinogenic effects because of it,so what's the logic behind this? (link)
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It impairs your mind i have heard of people experiencing those effects by the way. I grew up in a drug infested niegborhood and i ve even observed people on it be fore.i myself dont do it but yeah its not unheard of for people to hallucinate whil on it ive even know someone to run over their own 1 year old while high. So yes it does cause people to hallucinate.
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I was just at the slopes last night, and i saw this really cute guy. me and him made eye contact the whole night, then at the end i saw his friend and told him that his friend was cute. He then told him, then the guy came up to me and i got his number. I dont know if i should call him or when to call him. I'm also afraid that if i do call he will think im weird, or we wont have anything to talk about. Any ideas what to do? (link)
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He gave you his number for a reason. So obviously he wants you to call..It really doesnt matter when you should just do it when you feel.You should have plenty to talk about because you dont know eachother because you can use this as an oppurtunity to get to know him and discuss random things to see if you click or haveanything in common. You were both at the slopes so say hi how are you and then start off talking about the slopes and then whatever else pops into your head if it goes bad its not that big of a loss. If you decide not to call at all thats not that big of a loss either its just you wont know what would of happened.You shouldnt be scared or nervous because you dont even know this guy There is a 50/50 chance that he could be nice or a jerk. Hes not going to think your weird hes the one who gave his number to a complete stranger..so i think your safe on that.
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do you have to be born catholic to be one? My family beleives in a certain religion but I beleive in God and people at shcool are calling me a wanna be. Do you have to be born one or can you start being one? (link)
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You dont have to be born one you can talk to a catholic preacher about it and theyll direct you on how to become one..by the way those people who are calling you a wannabe are being alittle ignorant. Atleast you made your own decision about what you wanted to believe. Everyones diffrent and thats ok and it doesnt make anyone better or worse.Youl just have to go to classes and get confirmed and baptised or you could just adopt it has a belief its however or whatever your comfortable with.
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My best friend is an atheist. I am a Christian. I've asked my youth minister how to help convert him. Every time we get on the subject, he says CAN WE TALK ABOUT SOMETHING ELSE? And won't even hear what I have to say. Most of you might say "Just accept it." But because of my religion, when I'm in Heaven for all eternity and my best friend is in Hell, Its going to really suck. I need someway to talk to him without him refusing. I know all I can do is try to convert him, but I'm really being eaten away by this. He said he was saved when he was little, and I know if you're saved, you go to Heaven, but this is like UGH. If he's saved, and has changed his mind, how does that work? Also, I think he changed his mind because of "certain influences" at school. So how do I kindly put my point of view of Christianity to him, without offending him or causing him to hate me? (link)
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How would you like it if someone else or he tried to convert you? You wouldn't would you? Thats just a religious belief not a fact. There are other religion beside christianity and none of them can out weigh any other religion.because they all have books that date back years ago. God didnt write any of them.Its one thing to have a religion its another thing to push it on someone else its his choice and should be. There are so many diffrent beliefs and just because someones saved doesnt mean that they are going to heaven and just because someones not saved doesnt mean theyre going to hell. Thats just an opinion and there are many others out there.But if your going to be a claim to be so christian then you should also consider the christian belief that christians are supposed to accepting of others and your not supposed to pass judgement on others or condem others.I'm not saying its wrong to be christian but it is wrong to make others have to have the same belief. You need to realize that there are many beliefs and opinions out there that need to be tolerant of others diffrences because they have just asmany books an reasoning as your religion does.I realize that he doesnt believe in god at all but if thats what suits him then thats him and he has as much of an argument as you do. Yes it is offensive and rude to try to convert someone if thats not what they want to believe then thats their option. So just let it go..because know one is to say that anyone is right or wrong when it come to religion. If his believe is right to him and yours is right to you then thats all that matters. Everyone has to be true to theirself. If hes truly your friend then youll accept him its not like hes forceing it on you or that christianity is the only belief outthere or the ultimate truth. There is nothing wrong with being christian but you need to understand that other people are entitled to their own viewpoint as well. So let it go or let him go.
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