i find it hard to be myself automatically when i meet a person. i mean, even people i've known for like a year or so, i may not have really opened up to them yet. i can only do it with some people, but others, especially really outgoing people, i kinda act shy.. when im not really like that. its weird, because im normally outgoing but i guess i dont feel comfortable or something. i talk to them and stuff, and we may even be friends, but with some people.. well.. yea. how can i be myself like automatically? its hard to answer, since we're all different... but idk!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? illdomybest answered Saturday February 3 2007, 7:27 pm: Just think theyre just people like you. I use to be like this to when i was alot younger and i realized i want people to like me for who i am not who they think i am of who they want me to be. So i started being me just keep a grasp on your normal habbits and speak what your truly thinking. Everyone else does. Just be yourself and dont care what others think be cause the odds are theyre being thereself and dont care what your thinking about it. Its not really a bad thing to open up to a few people..its really better to open up to people you fully trust are your friends and feel comfortable with. Its better to be who you are so you also know who you are truly clicking with but maybe what your describing is just apart of who you are and as long as your not betraying yourself then its not a big deal as you said everyones diffrent. [ illdomybest's advice column | Ask illdomybest A Question ]
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