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emo?!


Question Posted Saturday February 3 2007, 4:35 pm

everybody in my school thinks i am emo or gothic.
so i dress black/red sorta different the others , look on the ground often , don't make eyecontact , mostly am sad (but that's just cause i hate the school and i'm lovesick lately) have naturaly black hair and naturaly white skin. yeah okay and i admit i hate myself , and hate my life blablabla
but does that make me emo?
cause i never thought about it that way


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randomgrl777 answered Friday March 30 2007, 5:55 pm:
well by what you said you seem gothic or emo. but if you dont think you are your not. have you had suicide thoughts. if you did you probly are but you dont have to be. gothic is like suicide all black or dark or white and frills lace chains peircings hair colored crying your eyes out always and deppressed and rock screamo and soft music and the hate of preppy nicey nice people. cussing in about every sentence rape. never careing. hating everything but loveing your only friends. emo is like blood and gore. suicide and cutting. deppression bright colors or black and red violent and never careing. whould die without friends or is always alone.
but jewelry tells everything. for jewelry spikes chains chokes. your not unless that describes you. hope i help.

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FlipShawtii answered Monday February 5 2007, 5:50 pm:
you're just you, that's who you are. emo's just another label the world offered and don't pay any attention to it unless you wanna become one.

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twistedsister17 answered Saturday February 3 2007, 6:18 pm:
You're not emo unless you want to be. There's nothing wrong with being emo. Emo is just another label, like prep or jock. Actually, the trend right now is to be "emo." I would just continue to be yourself and not worry about what other people say. If you want to consider yourself emo, then that's great, but if you don't want to label yourself, you shouldn't feel like you have to label or be labeled by others. Making a big deal about being called emo, kind of falls into the general description of emo. Don't worry about it, people will shut up if you show them that you're not bothered by being called emo.

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caramella answered Saturday February 3 2007, 6:05 pm:
you only are what you say and think you are.

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livingLIKEloversxx answered Saturday February 3 2007, 5:51 pm:
that doesn't mean your 'emo'.

it'd moreso classify you as goth.

but it's dumb either way.

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illdomybest answered Saturday February 3 2007, 5:44 pm:
Everyones diffrent and its ignorant to categorize someone. So you have naturally white skin so do alot of people im pale to but i like it that way. At your age its not abnormal to hate your self and even though you shouldnt just dont get carried away but there are people who feel the same way at that age and older who arent emo or gothic. Those people are just grouping you in a stereotype. If your being true to yourself and arent caught up in an image then dont worry about it or let what they say dictate you.

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christina answered Saturday February 3 2007, 5:38 pm:
Okay? So you're different. Tell them to fuck themselves and to be concerned with their own labels/lives.

♥T!NA

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easilyfixed answered Saturday February 3 2007, 5:29 pm:
meh, the best thing you can do is IGNORE it. people are gonna say whatever they feel like saying. if you don't think your emo, then your not emo. it doesn't matter what they say.
yes, they probably do stereotype you that because of how you act. but its who you are. don't change just because of what they think..

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ASAPcamille answered Saturday February 3 2007, 5:25 pm:
dont listen to what other people say. i have been called emo so many times, and all i wear is wicked bright colors. i know, my school is weird. you are what you think you are. to me, it does not seem like you are emo. at all.


hope i helped<3

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