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im the kind of girl who is shy around people. and i got a new best friend this year but ive never had a best friend before ive had friends but none of them have ever thought of me as their best friend. so anyways, im tired of my best friend when she comes over to my house which is like only once every 2 months all she does is take pictures of herself with my camera, its kindof a old camera but she almost broke it by pulling on it, and im tired of her shes not that funny and i dont know if i should stop being her best friend because if i do i wont have 1 so what should i do?
thanx
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If you don't like someone, you shouldn't be her bestfriend. If she disrespects your things and has annoying habits, I can see how you don't want her to be your friend. What about the other girl you mentioned? For the friends that you have, try to get to know them better. Ask them to hang out. Come out of your shell, and try not to be shy anymore. What's the worst that could happen if you ask somebody to go shopping, or sleepover?
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You shouldnt just be bestfriends with someone just to have a best friend.If you dont even like the girl which it doesnt seem like you do then stop being friends with her.Focus on friends that you actually like and that might form into a best friend relationship or start focusing on new people that you actually like. But its wrong to have someone around who you dont like or to pretend that you do like her. Shes obviously not your true friend and you dont seem to be hers either. So end it its better that way there are an abundance of people to meet and befriend not everyone clicks. So just cut her off and shell get the message.
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having a best friend is an amazing feeling because you have someone to confide in but if that person is someone who gets annoying to you then maybe you've just grown apart.
my best friend and i just split as friends...we still talk and hang out in groups but we are no longer as close as we were bc we have just matured and gone our seperate ways.
we are both much happier now and arent bogged down by that "best friend" stress.
i hope this helps
good luck
-leah-
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