Okay so theres this really bad rumor going around about me that is not true at all!! And i dont know how it started or who thought of it. Why do people do this if they dont like someone and why waste your time? Any ideas.
most of the time, it is just simply revenge!, have you done anything to anyone that would have made them upset with you? or another thing is that if you told someone a secret, they could have told it, and each person that heard it turned it into a rumor, that happens,people misunderstand things then twist it to make it worse, hope i could help, ^_^
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im 14 and me and my boyfriend have been goin out for a month now. i keep askin my mom if i can go to his house but each time she says no. i think she thinks we r gonna have sex and im only 14 im not ready for all of that yet. the most we would do is make out. how can i get her to let me go to his house??? we really want to see each other outside of skool but its kind of had cuz i hate when people come to my house and i like goin to his house and i've been there before but my mom wont let me go now. please help me.
has your mom met your boyfriend before?, i'm in the same situation you are, but my mom met my boyfriend and really likes him, and she thinks she can trust him, get him to have a good realationship with your mom,just to show he can be trusted, it is hard for a mother to let go, especially when your 14, (i'm actually very close to your age, but i won't say cuz i'm on the www.), so thats how i know, it's worked for me,hope it works with you~! hope i could help!
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My g/f is upset because her ex cheated on her a while back and now her brother is going to (plz excuse the lang. it is a quote) "kick his ass". I don't like to see her upset, and her ex is my friend, and now I am worried about her. (and Marshal for that matter,too) I dunno how to make her feel better...help plzzzz
oh wow, your in a tough situation, i'm in the same right now :), but yea you most definitly have to get her to calm down, especially if it's your friend, do anything oyu can to get her mind off it, try taking her out to a dinner or something, just somewhere so she does'nt think about it, but i see that in her point of view revenge is a key thing, but they may just be all talk and not to anything about it, but be prepared, hope i could help oyu out a bit, hope everything works out ok! let me know if you want,
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theres this kid in my school and he's really a bad boy. he's turning 17 and is still a freshman, he smokes and drinks on top of other things. he doesnt do well in school. i think he's kind of a player but idk, maybe he just has a lot of friends. i know he's one i shouldnt like but he is kind of hoTt and really sweet and i wouldnt mind just being friends with him.
he liked me and i would talk to him all the time but i felt kind of uncomfortable with him at one point so i backed off and when he realized it he backed off too. now i dont see him as much anymore and he only walks me to class when he gets the chance.
how can i tell if he still likes me?
should i continue any kind of relationship with him? and if so, how should i go about it this time?
if i were you, unless he changed i would not continue a realationship with him, bad boys only lead to worse things,he'll only end up hurting you (emotionallly) i know from experience and it does'nt get better then how it is now, sorry to say,
Jasmine,
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what are those bikini things cheerleaders wear under their skirts? ever since bring it on came out i've called them spankies but what is the real name?
most cheerleaders call them just "spandex" almost all cheerleaders refer to them as something different, another name for it is "bloomers" lol or simply just called boy cut shorts, almost everyone calls it something different, hope i could help! ^_^
Jasmine,
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ok i broke up w/ this girl and i really wish i hadnt and we still like each other-alot-but she made a vow not to go back out w/ me even though she still likes me or anyone until next year, but she may forget the feeling so should i ask her out or keep going on? i rate VERY HIGH!
thanks,
~fellow advicenator~
oh no!, definitly don't let this go!, she may have made that vow just because she was upset with you at the time, unless you did something oh so horrible to her,sometimes, and i mean sometimes,girls don't mean what they say about stuff like that,so go ahead and ask her out!, let me know how everything goes if you want! hope i could help,
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hiii.
kay well. Im 14 and im a girl. Boys are so inmature now a days. All the guys I go out with are not good boyfriends. All they say to me is " your hot" And I really want a really long good relationship. I know thats not really possible at my age but i see it all the time. I want a guy who loves me for me and does all those cute little sweet things. Ive had a couple in the past like that but they turned out to be ass holes.
Why cant I find that type of guy?
like you said guys are immature, but i don't see that age matters, i'm ___ and have found 2 mature guys that want a serious realationship, so there are some out there don't worry, consider meeting new people, maybe at the mall or something, hope you find a mature guy!, hope i could help!
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I used Yahoo for my email, and I have been running into problems on this computer (everything works fine on every other computer I've tried). My homepage pops up fine, but when I go to check my mail, it brings me to a sign in page, even though I already am signed in. After signing in on that, it brings me to the protect your password thing that pops up normally from time to time. After typing in my password on that, I am brought to page to yet another but different protect your password page. After typing in my password again, the operation times out, every time. How do I get my email back?
ANY help with my Yahoo troubles would be greatly appreciated. Thanks!
all i really know about this is that when you do get kicked off and signed out, the reson u have to sign back in is just because it needs your password periodically,just to make sure it is you and not some creepy hacker dude,lol,all i can say is just try refreshing the page, when something like this happens they are usually working on the site,this happened to me last week so i just kept trying and it finally let me in,it depends how long this has been going on for you,hope i could help a bit!
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Hey.
I had a serious question because I'm starting to feel all of these strange feelings. I'm 16/f.
I met this boy a couple months back & ever since have been completely happy. I've seriously never felt like this around anyone before. I wake up every morning just wishing that I was with him. & I try to spend every waking hour I can with him. I'm never usually like this, around boyfriends usually I'm shy & try to spend as little time as possible. But with him it's completely different.
I love talking to him, I love being with him, I love who I am around him. I was just wondering, does this seem like love?
Plus, usually with my relationships I wake up every morning thinking, "Why am I dating him? he's such a waste!" But I haven't had one negative feeling about him ever since I met him. He's so great.
So yeah, does this seem like love? Thanks lovelys.
yep, it seems as if your in love! congradulations!, go ahead and take advantage of this, does he know how you feel? and is this your b/f we are tlking about?
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okay i like this guy and hes a freshman n im an 8th grader we tlk on the fone alot! and like ughh...i like him SOOOO much! he says the right things at the right moments! and we get along great! im gonna see him this friday...hopefully but im really shy in person...not on the fone tho...wat do i do?!
...help!
i rate high btw!
13.f
ok, laet's see here,if you want to so it's you two going out you have to answer a ??? first, is it love or is it a crush? crushs come and go, but if you truly think he is the one, go for it!, you just have to casually talk about dating with him and it will sooner or later come up about you two dating, just work it in somehow to the conversation, let him know how you feel, don't be afraid to flirt a bit!,hope I could help you out, let me know if everything turns out ok :)
Jasmine,
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okay i shave down there nd like 2 weeks ago i got like sum little red bumps nd finally they went away .. but i got it again im thinkin its ingrown hairs from a not so good shaver . is that wut it is ?? nd how can i get rid of it . im so afraid my bf is gunna c it nd think its STD or sumfn .. help
yea, that seems like what it is, try alot of lotion, it helps soth the irratated skin, but don't try anything too sented it could cause irratation and cause a slight burning feeling, hope i could help!
Jasmine,
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can any 1 tell me whats the best free music download site?
I don't know if you can download here, but at yahoo.com go to music and you can watch almost any free music video, and gofish.com and msn music also let you watch free videos, hope you find what your looking for!
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so i really like this guy and i think he likes me and my friend think he likes me 2. we met on myspace . . i want to send him a message letting him know im into him and hes on my mind all the time. do you have any ideas and what to say . . .thanks in advance!
glad i could help you!! ^_^
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My mate gave me a hickie(love bite) for a laugh when we were drunk, how do i get it to go away really quickly?
i can't get it to go away but you should try to cover it with make-up hope this helps ;)
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should i IM my ex-boyfriend? i've been wanting to talk/chat with him, but everytime i try to, i'm always whether scared or there's something to stop me. so, should i talk to him or not?
yes, definitly tlk to him, you still want to have a good realationship with him, hope i could help!
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my older brother is a senior and i am a freshman. my brother has a friend that comes over once and a while, and a few months ago we started talking. we got pretty close, and became good friends. now we like eachother. lately this has been in secrecy, we arent together or anything but both agree this could "vary well kill us". although i am one of the older kids in my grades,we fear of reactions of mainly his friends. i dont care what other people think, but i understand why he does. he is supposed to responsible, and i think he is afraid of losing peoples respect. we're just unsure exactly what to do exactly. we know where we want to be, but dont know how to get there. i dont think my brother would mind much, because he trusts him, but he recently asked one friend for advice who said he shouldnt go any further. maybe this is true, but this is something weve been trying best to avoid. please help if you can. please. thank you very much.
consider going out in secret at first, slowly telling 1 person at a time, unitl they get used to the fact , don't hide your love!, hope everything works out let me know how it turns out, feel free to e mail and tell me further,
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lately i've been hanging out with alot of the upperclassmen guys because of one of my friends. well guy 1 i flirt with cuz ik he'll flirt back, not to be a tease but to be fun and come off as an outgoing person. this person actually turns out to like me and i feel bad now though because i dont have those kind of feelings for him. the person i do like, Guy 2, is also an upperclassmen who happens to be good friend with Guy 1, and also my friend likes him. well at her house last night guy 2 and some other people were over and he wasnt talking to my friend like he normally does instead he was talking to me alot, i dont know if you would call it flirting, but i guess in some way it was. well i dont want my friend to be mad at me but i also want to know what guy 2 thinks of me. and if there is something there then how do i go about it with out hurting guy 1?? what should i do??
wow, tricky, i'm in this situation too, only slightly different, this is inevitable, hurting guy 1 is not an option, or you could go out with him for a little while then break up, but this will crush him, and make guy 2 think you like guy 1, don't be afrid to flirt with guy 2 but don't toy with guy 1, especially when guy 2 and your friend is there, flirt with guy 2 when your friend is not around, but don't do somethig drastic that will come back and hit you in the face later on down the road. try to get a friend of guy 2 that is also friends with you to ask him him about you for you, who knows you guys could end up going out, let me know how this turns out, hope i could help, good luck!
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i'm having a hard time forgetting about my ex-boyfriend. we were 2gether 4 five months, and within that 5 months, i started to 'love' him. we broke up 3 months ago, but i still really do like him A LOT, but he likes somebody else. i've been trying SO HARD for the past 3 months to stop thinking about him, but everytime i try, there's always something that stops me from it: memories of us 2gether always 'flashbacks' in my mind.
how can i 4get about him??
you sound exactly like my friend katie!, there is not much to tell you, your love sick, do something to remind him of the times you two have spent together, past memories will make him realize that he wants you back, hope i could help,feel fre to e mail me about this, i would like to know how things work out with you two,
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I asked a girl to the winter formal dance a few days ago. She got really excited and was taken totally surprised and started bragging to all of her friends. Her actual words were "Let me check my schedule to be sure that I don't have something, but it sounds like a lot of fun." Oh my goodness thank you for asking me. Hug. Here I am thinking SCORE!
Well, aparrently not. The next day she pulls me aside and says that she's really sorry but she has something that night that she absolutely cannot get out of (independly confirmed, she really does have something that she can't get out of). Oh my goodness, she's so sorry, she was so excited to get asked that she told all of her friends. I'm a really nice guy. If there was another dance ("You're a Junior, right?" read: PROM) she'd be honored to go. She feels so sorry and she's really bad at this because she's never been asked to anything before and she's so sorry she doesn't know what she's doing. I made her day/week/month. Etc. Etc. So I mention that maybe there's something else she might want to do another night. She says "Well, there's plenty of time to think about that." Bounds off.
I am really confused. Do I cut my losses and move on or is she interested? How do I approach the situation when I run into her tomorrow? If she's interested will she come after me now or what? I don't want to be the guy that can't take the hint, but at the same time... I really don't understand what just happened.
hmmmm, confusing, have you considered maybe it's because of her parents she "has something to do", it seems as if sh is avoiding you, but not to get away from you, let me know more about this if you can and i can try to help more, your welcome to e mail me,
Jasmine,
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how do i know if my love life is falling apart?
i can help you with this but i knida need some more information on what is going on, you can e mail me a question to my coulumn inbox, or send me a personal e mail to my yahoo account
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