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my boyfriends house
im 14 and me and my boyfriend have been goin out for a month now. i keep askin my mom if i can go to his house but each time she says no. i think she thinks we r gonna have sex and im only 14 im not ready for all of that yet. the most we would do is make out. how can i get her to let me go to his house??? we really want to see each other outside of skool but its kind of had cuz i hate when people come to my house and i like goin to his house and i've been there before but my mom wont let me go now. please help me.
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Just explain to your mom nothing will happen. Have your mom talk to his mom. Then maybe they will understand.
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has your mom met your boyfriend before?, i'm in the same situation you are, but my mom met my boyfriend and really likes him, and she thinks she can trust him, get him to have a good realationship with your mom,just to show he can be trusted, it is hard for a mother to let go, especially when your 14, (i'm actually very close to your age, but i won't say cuz i'm on the www.), so thats how i know, it's worked for me,hope it works with you~! hope i could help!
Jasmine,
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Has your mom met him? Spent time with him? Maybe if you had him over a few times she might OK it next time he wants you to come over to his house.
Next suggestion...Is his mom going to be home when you visit? If so why not have him have his mom call yours and get it okayed? That would probably get you over to visit. :)
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Tell your mom that his oerants will be there, even if they arent gonna be! lol, but i would go for the truth, and ask your mom WHY she is saying no. hope this helps!
cjAdvice
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Hey,
She doesn't think your going to have sex, trust me. My mom did the same exact thing to me when i was with this kid nick..
Just tell her that your a responsible girl and you need to be able to make your own descisions or your never going to learn anything..you should make it clear to her that you want her to know that your not in a sexual relationship with him and you wouldn't do anything you wherent comfortable with with anybody.
k pce :)
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Talk to your mom and ask her why she isn't allowing you to go over there, maybe you guys can work something out that you guys both like. Just bring it up some night. Good Luck x0x Allie x3
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