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help please.
my older brother is a senior and i am a freshman. my brother has a friend that comes over once and a while, and a few months ago we started talking. we got pretty close, and became good friends. now we like eachother. lately this has been in secrecy, we arent together or anything but both agree this could "vary well kill us". although i am one of the older kids in my grades,we fear of reactions of mainly his friends. i dont care what other people think, but i understand why he does. he is supposed to responsible, and i think he is afraid of losing peoples respect. we're just unsure exactly what to do exactly. we know where we want to be, but dont know how to get there. i dont think my brother would mind much, because he trusts him, but he recently asked one friend for advice who said he shouldnt go any further. maybe this is true, but this is something weve been trying best to avoid. please help if you can. please. thank you very much.
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consider going out in secret at first, slowly telling 1 person at a time, unitl they get used to the fact , don't hide your love!, hope everything works out let me know how it turns out, feel free to e mail and tell me further,
Jasmine,
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i don't think age should matter. think about it. it's what, a 4 year age difference?? maybe it'll seem a little weird since you guys are in HS but when you both graduate, it'll juss be 4 years & it's nothing big. you guys don't want to miss out on a great relationship, because of an age difference. if your brother doesn't have a problem with it, you should go for it. your family & friends are what matter anyway, so who cares about the other kids at school?? i don't think many ppl will think much of it. it's not like a 7 year age difference er something. it's not bad at all. i think being in a relationship together would be fine. it's where the 'sexual relationship' comes in where it will start problems. it shouldn't become sexual though, as in sexual intercourse actually. plus that should be done after marriage anyway.
good luck!♥
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