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Hey guys! I'm 13 years old (almost 14) and I am in 8th grade. Next year, (which is not too far away) I will be in high school (freshman). For those of you IN ninth grade or over, does it suck? It scares me because I will be going to a school with 17 and 18 year olds and I'll be only 14 when I go to high school! Is it scary to go to high school? I've heard so many bad things about high school... the boys are the worst... I could probably survive in an all girls school because boys that I klnow are just mean except a few. I'm really scared knowing that I will be in high school! Can anyone give me some comforting advice to help me feel better because everyday, I get scareder knowing that another day is past and I'm that much closer to high school? I'm just scared... can anyone help me... seriously! I don't want sarcasm or rudeness in yall's answers. I'm just looking for a little comfort... Thanks!
P.S. I rate 5's to those of you who answer to me and who are being serious about the question and not goofing off...
Thanks!
Luv, Kay

hey.. i was so scared too but it serisouly is so much fun and so much less drama! you might be intimidated the first day of school cuz it seems big and all and the upperclass men but trust me its no big deal and youll find your way. pluss, the upperclass man guys are more mature and thats always a plus ;-) well dont be scared and hope i helped!

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you can always tell i have coverup on. especially on my nose, forhead, chin, and the area around the corners of my mouth. how can i get rid of this and make my make-up look more natural?

do u use a brush to put it on or your finger? cuz i got a brush and that works really good and you can blend it it really good. i got it from mac its about 18 dollars but i bet any brush will do. hope i helped!

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On Xanga especially.. people have those Icons they use in their blogs. I know some people make them.. but what are some sites where i can get them?

go to xanga and in blogrings type in "icons" and click a link and then you get a ton of them.. but here are some sites

http://www.xanga.com/iconsICONSicons
if your into girly stuff

http://www.xanga.com/xSeXy_IcOnSx
theres like a few thousand more sights but those are starters maybe.. hope i helped

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Ok, for school I have to choose a book for this book report thing. Any books you like apropriate for a seventh grade girl? (Only if they're really good, because I hate a lot of books!)

Thank you! xoxo abercrombiebabiex3

i agree with that girl... sisterhood of the traveling pants are good. also a book called "gingerbread" is a cute and you can realate to the girl in it and its by rachel cohn.. hope i helped please rate!

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can you make a email on google ?? if not where can i make a email aniwhere but yahoo !! thnx ill rate if you help !!

hey, you could go to www.comcast.net and make a email account there. i have it! hope i helped! ♥

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ok well im 13 and i like this guy and me and him have been hanging out alot and he was my first kiss,first makeout,first person to finger me,first person to eat me out all this in like 3 months that we have known each other. he isnt a virgin and he told me that he wanted to be my first everything and i said ok because i really do love him and he claimed that he loved me and he swore to god that he wasnt using me. well the last time me and him hung out was like 3 weeks ago and that was like the 4th time he fingered me and i swear im not a slut but now hes ingnoring me because one of my friends got him really mad so he took it out on me and now he doesnt like me anymore but i want him to and i try to get over him but i just cant.
what should i do??

aww i am so sorry. are you guys dating? because if you arent thats not really a good idea because he could just leave you like that..but if you are dating when i had to get over my first everythingit was so hard but you really get over them when you find someone new. it will be hard for a while youll think of him a lot but once you find a new guy he will come running back and you can see if he's worth it or not and if you want to stay with the new guy or go back to him.. its your choice depending on how much this guy means to you and if hes not a asshole. hope i helped good luck ♥

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K so I hung out with this kid today.. and we amidiatly hit it off (that I know of) and we hung out all day. and he held me and we kissed and everything.. But he always teases me by looking at me but not kissing me and just looking away in a teasing way. Well Im not sure if he likes me if he is playing me or what. I have really bad trust isues because I have been hurt by so many guys. I would really like to think he really likes me, because If so id like to go out with him maybe! What should I do? Im going to be seeing him tomorrow also!

i have the same issue.. alls you can really do is wait and see. dont do anything further than what you have done with him and see if he still talks/shows intrest in you. that way he wont be using you because you wont be doing anything further and you'll be like 'hard to get' amd guys like that! i hope things work out for you if you need anything else drop some in my inbox! ♥

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Hi, I'm 14 years old and 128 pounds. Everyday, I try to take a run for at least 15 minutes, or sometimes a mile and a half. It's been working really well so far -- it's only been a month and I've already lost around 10 pounds almost. This Thanksgiving weekend, I haven't found the time to run, and it's been probably 4 days since I last ran. Being always a little extra chubby, and having friends that are model gorgeous, I always have had a fear of being TOO fat or not looking great, etc. Now, since it's Thanksgiving weekend, I've eaten A LOT and haven't found the time to run. Will 4 days effect me that much? (Tomorrow I will most likely go run)

dude, your tiny! lol okay well 4 days isnt really going to do much since you are running every day. just keep up the good work and you'll be fine! ♥

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Im making my boyfriend a mix cd of love for our 1 year ann. and i need to know some rock songs that are about love, my goals is 18 and i have 10
WILL RATE FIVES

.:XoXo:.

yay! i love answering these lol.. but i dont know if your looking for like indi rock or rock rock.. sorry lol..anything by ben folds is good.. but could you give me a example of something? then i could help you out. then leave some in my inbox..! kk ♥

EDIT::
hey..well now i have some songs!
lol a good country song: making memories of us - keith urban**
-howie day - collide (acoustic)
- death cab for cutie - i will follow you into the dark
- mariah carey - always be my baby**
-something corporate - konstantie
- the flaming lips - do you realize**
-mae - suspension
-jason maz - you and i both**
-the early november - ever so sweet
-oasis - wonderwall**
-sugarcult - pretty girl
matchbook romance - tiger lily**
**= my favorites

hope i helped!

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what is Cellulite ??

its fat cells where they stertch and theres bumps in the skin... usually around like thighs and stuff!

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16/f
I need to get some perfume but idk what kind.. What are some good perfumes that boys like? (And not too expensive)

ohh! i like this question! well, i have heavenly by victorias secret and a bunch of guys told me they really liked it... its not TOO expensive but i love it! it smells warm and vanillaey. Also.. Ready by abercrombie smells really good.. and guys have told me they liked it... i got a medium sized container for like 25 dollars. Warm Vanilla Sugar is nice too.. from bath and body works.. not too expensive and smells really good and guys like it. pretty much anything from bath and body works :-) hope i helped ♥ erica

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what's a good place to get cute/funny/at least interesting icons?
the 100x100 pixel ones

hey, well i would give u a main website.. but there are soo many!

what you can do and what i do all the time is go to www.xanga.com and go to blogrings and type in "icons" and you get a bunch of sights... click on one and then surely you'll get a ton of them! i hope i helped ♥

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Has anyone ever tried MAC [liquid] foundation? If so, does it work pretty good & is it worth buying? And what kind?

yeah i have it and it works realy good and worth it. it doenst matta what kind

♥

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Where can I watch the trailer for RENT online? I can only watch it on Media Player.

i always go to:

www.apple.com/trailers

you can go there and search any movie trailer you want! ♥

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I am just 13 and I have this urge to smoke. I have never smoked before and I know it is bad for you. I have never did any kind of drugss including weed or coke. My mom would kill me if I did smoke. So I ask my sister how old she was when she started smoking and she said about 13 or 14. And that made it even worse for me! Even people at school smoke! What can I do? I have even thought of stealing them from my mom! I'm a good kid! HELP!

welll.. i say dont start because once you do you could get addicted and you know how hard it is to stop.. plus they like arent fun haha ive tried some before and alls they do is give you a buzz and i dont think thats worth it. maybe you have a urge because your mom and your sister does and you wonder what its like? personally, i think they taste gross but thats just my opinion.. does your group of friends smoke? because if they do that could take a toll on your decision incuraging you to try it and if you dont want to stat i say fall into a new group of friends.. hope i helped if you need some more leave some in my inbox! ♥

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does having an xanga cost money, or is it just if you go platunum???

noits free, only if you want really cool features and stuff like that you can pay for premium, but i suggest staying with regular because its still sweet

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Ok...i wanna have a sleepover 2night and my friend is not home and her mom said she would call me back when she gets home and Im like what if doesn't get home till 7 and she lives in Attleboro? How can i convince my mom to take me if her mom says yes? and i wanna call my other friend but like im kinda scared.. and how can i convince my mom to say yes to have the sleepover?
I rate 5's!!\


THANK YOU!

sorry hun i dont really get the question im not sure how far away attleboro is from where you live, but if you leave me some more detail ill be happy to answer ur question.. c ya!

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If you had a choice would you get a BMW or Corvette?

BMW for sure i love em hope i helped

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There is this guy that I am IN LOVE with. The problem is, is that he is my Ex. He looks 'SORTA' like Billie Joe Armstrong and this guy that I used to like. Me and him last night were talking at one his ballgames and I said "Kody, Fuck You" But I was just joking though and he knew it. Then he said "Yeah I know you do. But 'we' can't here" And I was about to die. And I said "hahahaha Very Funny Kody." Cause I knew he was joking. There is times were he will walk me to the bus and be as happy as anything. But then theirs times when he never talks to me. Like tonight at another ballgame. He saw me sitting with another guy, Jay and I think he 'sorta' got mamd and left after his game. He always stares at me and also tonight. I was cryin cause my cat died and he was like "Whats wrong?" and I said "My cat died" andn he said "Well uh.. How did it die?" and I told him and he said "well its better off now". I don't know whats up with him. When my friend the other day said "she likes KODY!" he turned around and smiled and never said anything.... Please HELP!!!

well.. im not really sure what the question is.. but i do think he likes you because if he didnt he wouldnt be making really a effort to talk to you. i dont knowif he flirts with other girls or not but if he does i really think you should just move on to someone else because you shouldnt waste your time on someone who could be so much beter with.. when you guys are talking you should be like 'so who do you like these days' and see what he says i hope this helped and if u need anything else leave some

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can anyone tell me some websites where you can play games?

www.gamesloth.com

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