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i am 21 i smoke and do pills and i am on high blood presure meds but when i went to the bathroom a hour ago it seemed that ....that erge i had was blood more then feces the water wasent totaly red but more red then clear no pain or anything maybe alittle burning or iching after if you canhelp me i would be much apritated

I would get to a doctor as soon as you can. I'm not sure but there is a chance you may be bleeding interally which is very dangerous left untreated.

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will boys like me if i have big breast

Shallow guys will and for all the wrong reasons.

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how do i make myself look prettier than i already look right now?

Have good hygiene (teeth, hair, nails) work-out, make-up, jewlery.

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How can I make my teeth whiter? Without whitening strips? Is there a paste I can make or something?

I'm not sure of anything you can make but if you wanna buy a toothpaste Crest 3D white is what I use and its amazing for whitening.

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ok so me and my girlfriend broke up over a month ago and we would see eachother almost everyweek atleast ones after that and it was amazing. but she still didnt want to get back with me and 2 weeks ago she started talking to someone else. and it looks like shes really into that person and all her friends love that person and they didnt really like me. and i really want her back cause i love her. what should i do to get her back????? im a girl btw.

I was in the same position a couple years ago and please believe me when I say once you end a relationship, its over. If you get back together with her there will be a short amount of time until you go through the same process all over again. Sure it doesn't always happen but most of the time it does. Why waste your time with someone who's just gonna leave again? Start getting over her as soon as you can.

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I'm supposed to go snowboarding this Sunday in Pennsylvania. I've never been, so what should I wear?

I have an old snowmobiling jacket. Should I wear that or just stick to my Northface?

Wool, or layers of socks, waterproof snowpants, lootss of layers underneath (you can always take them off if you get hot), waterproof jacket, waterproof gloves, a helmet, hat or both, and I always have to have a hanky to keep my face warm. I don't know what kind of northface you have but if you're talking about the fleece I wouldn't wear it because if its your first time it will get covered in snow and isn't waterproof. Good luck!

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will boys like me if i have big breast

No. If they don't like you now they won't like you when you have boobs. They will just like your boobs and it will be harder for you to tell who likes you for you and who likes you for your boobs.

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Everytime I get drunk I do outargeously stupid sexual thongs with people I know and each time I regret and am ashemed but then I still do It the next time and bi never learn but I always regreat!!
What is wrong with me? Why do I always have to do sexual things with guys evthat I know! Even tho I always regreat and feel ashemd the next day
Why don't I learn?

I would lay off the drinks for a little bit. Figure out who you really are and if you wanna go on to keep regretting things like this. If you really don't want to stop drinking let your friends know that you don't want to be left alone with a guy at parties or whenever you do these crazy things.

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15 f

I won't get into full detail, so it won't be so long. Well, January 5th was on my anniversary with my boy friend, it's been a year now..well, apparently he gave a note to my ex friend..( He use to like her before we started dating, she was the one who brought us together.) He said that he still had feelings for her, and all of this. She told me before he could, and I blew up over it. He told me it was to resolve everything with her, he wanted her to say that she didn't like him in that way, ( which she didn't like him in that way). Now, my whole family believes that he's a jerk and they hate him. I love him very much, and he begged me to not break up with him, he says he loves me and he doesn't want to be with anyone else but me..I'm crushed over all this..I'm only aloud to talk to him for 10 minutes a day once a day, I believe that everyone deserves a second chance. He likes to be hoenst with people, and tell them the truth, he wanted to tell me first but my ex friend did it before he could, he was truly sorry over it. He cried and cried last night, his gma told him oh shes just a girl, you can get over it stop crying, and they were calling him a fool..my mom thinks I'm a full for staying with him. There also mad because he slapped me on my side jokingly, after I hit him in the balls..:/ He was playing with my hair and it bothered me..So I really love him and I don't want to break up with him. Is giving him a second chance the wrong thing to do? I don't believe so since I love him so much. :3

It doesn't really seem like he did something that wrong in order for him to not get a second chance. If your gut says to give him one, I'd go with it.

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k, this kid nd i arent dating but kinda like eachother, he invited me over,drank A LITTLE!! just me nd him, we layed down , were watching a scary movie, he grabbed my butt, turned mee over nd made out, he felt me up with one hand, un button my pants nd fingerd me with the other, he told me to give a hand job, i did, being tipsy, pushed my head down, told me he loved me nd to suck him, nd he wldnt tell , i did. i dnt remember alot im 14, did he use me? am i a slut? help!

Yeah he used you, but that doesn't make you a slut. You can usually tell if someone is using you by what they tell you to do, not ask you. Sounds like a douchebag. Also, I wouldn't drink around guys who will take advantage of you.

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Hi, 23/f. There's a new guy in my life (23/m). He's an old friend from high school with whom I recently reconnected.
I'm basically a walking pile of baggage. I have some health problems; I've been cheated on, I've been emotionally, verbally, and physically abused by past boyfriends, and I know I haven't healed. I have PTSD to the point that, even though I have a protection order against him and it's been months since I got away from the physical abuser, I still can't go to the grocery store without having anxiety attacks.
This new guy has been hurt, too, but not to the extent that I have (he's a sweet, sensitive fella), and we kind of established last night that we have the same fears about relationships. We're both afraid of being hurt and of opening up to people, and he's mentioned he has a little commitment-phobia.
I have very mixed feelings about being with him. We're very open and honest with each other, and I've told him that I'm not ready for a relationship. We agreed to take it one date at a time, and we have been. He's been wonderful about not pushing things. Every time I see him, when we hang out, we laugh and have fun, but when he leaves, I feel...I don't know, empty. His kisses make me miss my ex, who was a better kisser, which I hate. I don't mean to compare them, but I can't help it. I keep pushing my emotions away because they so overwhelm me, and as a result I feel just...jaded, empty, depressed, anxious, and I can't seem to tell whether or not I'm really attracted to this guy.
I just don't know how to handle the mixed, confused feelings I'm having, or what to do about them.
Halp? O.o

It sounds like you aren't ready for a new relationship. You have the right idea of taking things one date at a time. If I were you I would just stick to being friends with this guy and when you're ready, to date other people too. This way you're certain if you're really attracted to him, or its just someone to help you get over all the pain in your past.

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WEll im gunna get started i think my boyfriend is gunna brake up with me because i only kissed him once and we have been going out for a long time now and i want ot but i cant im shy help need tips

If you've been together for long you should feel comfortable enough to kiss him. Unless you explain to him why you won't kiss him he'll probably think you just don't want to.

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its me again and me and my girlfriend mary have made it official were now running away from all the crap our parents give us and we will be able to be together . right now were at a hotel my friends brother rented . its going great and we had sex only 1 time . but is this right? help me please

How old are you even? Did you try reasoning with your parents before you made the decision to run away? Is getting to have sex really worth having to pay your own rent, electricity, phone, heat, internet, and everything else?

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k;; well me nd this guy have been dating 2 months;; we have only made out but talked about him fingering me; he felt me up nd he played with me down there many times he tried getting farther but i stopped him;; we were at the movies nd he felt me up;; the started ggoin down;; i felt a little uncomfortable then he just started fingering me ;; then i felt good i let him keep doing it;; i finallly stopped him; im 13 am i a slut?

You're not a slut but if you're into this guy you shouldn't move so fast. If you feel uncomfortable at all you should stop it and let him know.

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I'm only a 14yo girl and I have started mastorbating more and more latly. It feels so good but for some reson I feel really bad when it's over. Even though I feel bad about it I can't stop. Is this normal? Should I stop?

It's not uncommon, if you like it then so be it.

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me&bestfriend have been bestfriends for 10 years now! always honest with eachother and talk about everything. But i think we're drifting away..whenever others talk to her she will be extra nice to them and talk to them more and be sweet,and seems to be getting along with more people now and talks to them more than me. and when she does talk to me its only a couple of sentences. and if shes online and i say hi shes suddenly offline. and when i write on her wall on fb she takes days to reply but yet when the other person writes on it she replies straight away. but when we're together we have the funnest time, is she bored of me? i get really mad, if she doesnt wana be friends then say so!

I'm not saying she doesn't want to be friends anymore but usually after 10 years its difficult and heartless to just say "I don't want to be friends with you anymore." She could be just bored or just knows that she doesn't have to try as much at the friendship because she knows that you'll always be there. I would just talk to her about it and make sure everythings okay.

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How do you know if a guy wants to kiss you?

He'll probably do things like smile, and just look in your eyes and won't look away unless you do and find any excuse to touch you/get closer to you. It's usually not that hard to tell.

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Are hazel eyes blue, gray, or brown and green?

My cousin always said she had hazel colored eyes when she was growing up. Her eyes are like a blue/gray color.

But then last year we were talking about eye color in science and my teacher was helping someone with her eye color because her eyes were like a light brown with some green color. He told her that she had hazel eyes.

I'd like to think my science teacher is right but then maybe I misunderstood the conversation going on. Just...what are hazel colored eyes exactly? I mean are they closer to like a blue or are they closer to like a brown or what?

Hazel is light brown and green. Blue/gray eyes are just blue/gray.

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Is it ok for a guy to hit his girlfriend, even if she did something to piss him off really bad?

No.

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i like him, but what do i say when he asks me out?

Smile, yes, sure, okay?

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