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did he use me? hellp!!!!!!!!!!!
k, this kid nd i arent dating but kinda like eachother, he invited me over,drank A LITTLE!! just me nd him, we layed down , were watching a scary movie, he grabbed my butt, turned mee over nd made out, he felt me up with one hand, un button my pants nd fingerd me with the other, he told me to give a hand job, i did, being tipsy, pushed my head down, told me he loved me nd to suck him, nd he wldnt tell , i did. i dnt remember alot im 14, did he use me? am i a slut? help!
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Yeah he used you, but that doesn't make you a slut. You can usually tell if someone is using you by what they tell you to do, not ask you. Sounds like a douchebag. Also, I wouldn't drink around guys who will take advantage of you.
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Did he use you?
Yes.
He didn't "ask" you to do those things, he "told" you to do those things?
Pushed your head down?
All while he knew you were drunk?
You're not a slut... but he's a scumbag.
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Sounds like he took advantage of you, He told you what you wanted to hear and you fell into it. At age 14, Boys are thinking inside their pants they are not using their head. This is an age where they are all about who gets some and who doesn't.
Here you hopefully learned a valued lesson, Stay away from alcohol, You are too young to be drinking.
Now for are you a slut? No, You made extremely poor judgement. Even if you two were dating, This would still not be okay. This boy demanded you to perform sexual actions upon him while you were under the influence of alcohol. What happened? You were not responsible, He took advantage of you now you are feeling guilty and regretful.
For the future, When you have a crush on a guy the way you can tell if he is into you...He will respect you and NOT take advantage of you.
Lesson Number 1: Trust, Respect and Honesty play a huge role in relationships. Without it, Kiss the relationship Goodbye.
Don't ever let a guy pressure you, It is not right and no it is not normal either.
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