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My name is Liz, I am 16 and I have a boyfriend named Dalton. I am in love with him so much and I'm positive he loves me too. I'm really serios I am full fledge in love with this guy. Last night we were at his house and he brought up the idea of sex. I didn't know what to say so I told him I wasn't ready. But now I think I am so should I go for it? I know I love him so please don't say that I am too young or its not worth it. (link)
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being in love is soemthing so beautiful. you wouldnt want anything to change. you have to be positive that youre sure that you want to do this. because afterwards you wont be able to get your virginity back.
think about it if you told him face to face that youre not ready then maybe that emans that youre not really ready. right now you think you're ready because you were probably thinking about it alott and you push yourself to think youre ready. wait some time. figure yourself out. you might be misunderstanding youself. take sometime alone and think about this.
im not telling you not to have sex or to have sex. jsut think abot it carefully make sure you really want to do this. and remember if you ask yourself "is this right?"is becase deep inside you know its not
so basically if youre ready go for it. and if your not then dont do it. make sure you guys use protection. and one mroe thing make sure you have no regrets :)
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i'm 15/female
i'm scared incase my friends think i'm a lesbian,..i'm not u am straight,..but i just have a funny feeling they all think i am and because of this when i talk to them i always make sure i look at their eyes incase like i look them up and down,...but i can't remember why i started thinking this cos before i never bothered at all but now its like when ever i'm near them i'm scared to look at anywhere other than their eyes incase they think i'm a lesbian
why am i like this
i no i'm not a lesbian i love boys wayy to much
i'm just confused
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the most important thing here is that YOU know your not a lesbian if your friends want to think that fine. have they ever told you that? if they did then theyre stupid and so what if you were a lesbian its none of there buisness its perfectly normal.
but since you know youre not a lesbian then it shouldn't bother you. just amke sure you let your friends know that youre not because i know that would be uncomfterable being with people who think ur bie or lesbian when you know yourself that youre not. but the msot important thing really is if your comfterable with yourself and that you know youre not a lesbian.
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Okay well im a 13 years old girl im going into Jr.high and like all my friends are going to a different school. Accept for ONE, and she is nice when its just me and her but like she is two faced like alot when she's with me she talks shit about someone and then i'll ask her is there someting about me you dont like? and she say no and then from other people i hear she does talk shit about me and wont tell them what she has said about them. God i mean its horrible. can you answer how i should react to this? and one more question how can i be like top gog/ and or popular in 7th grade? like just popular. ya know
Thanks in advance! :D (link)
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hey,
well how to deal with her...hmmm,
just tell her to her face. tell her you keep hearing people who say that she talked stuff about you and you dont like it. tell her you dont like epople jsut coming up to you and telling you that she talks behind your back. id say step away from her. like dont trust her alott and dont talk to her that much. first before you do anything find out though if shes really talking behind your back then you can step away.
now how to become popular...
just talk to everyone. be friendly. i know in tv shows and movies it shows that the popular ones are always mean. thats not always true. trust me. ive been through it. jsut talk to everyone and dont be twoface evryone hates that! also, join as many clubs and after school activites as you can. jsut be a good student. and just please dont try to hard. people will notice. good luck!
xoxo,
blackluna7111
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so i have a past with this one kid lets call him " dan " okay so me and dan have had a past we hooked up alot and we did more then that alot too and everytime we would hang out wed hook up and do stuff.. well recently my best friend has been talking to him just like friends and now he likes her and i dont know .. im confused what to do like i have a history with him and now he wants my best friend (link)
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wow that must suck i understand you have a history with him. but if he likes your friend then theres nothing you can do about this. theres a possibility that she might like him back. and theres nothing you can do about it. try to leave it behind you. all you can do is warn your friend about he type of guy he is and tell her not to fall in his traps. if shes smart enough she will take your advice and listen to you
xoxo blackluna7111
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The guy I like is hated by so many people at our school. Like he dresses extremely preppy (but I LIKE that stylleee). So I heard he's gonna ask me out, but I don't want to say yea, because then my reputation would go bad. Basically, he acts exactly like a girl, which is why so many people hate him. But we get along GREAAATT!
But I really don't want to go out with him beacuse I'm kinda popular and my reputation would die.
Please don't say "do whatever makes you happy," because its much more complicated than that, and I'm really confused... =[
THANKS FOR ANY HELP!!! (link)
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im not going to tell you to do whatever makes you happy which is what you should really do. why do you care so much about what people think of you? they aren't going to be there in the future to help you with anything. when you fall you will realize alott of your suposably friends will NOT be there for you. But that speacial someone will. if he makes you happy great then. and preepy style is cute. in my opinion also. but my point is go for it. if you like him and he makes you happy then do it. oh man i said what i promised i wontn't say. haha. but yea, dont you want to be happy? who knows he might be the "guy" you never know if you might have him even while your still in college. and are you even gonna know half of the people that you used to know? probably not. so dont let an opportunity go by. really if you like him go out with him. people can say whatever they want. they will get over it. think about it. if it was me and i really liked him, i would definietly go out with him.
xoxo blackluna7111
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you know those sayings "bro's before hoes" ? like friends before boyfriends? what are some phrases like that?(for girls)sry if this was confusing. thanks (link)
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this is my favorite one "friends are forever boys are whatever" hope u like it
xoxo blackluna7111
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i have been dating this guy for over a year & i love him alot and don't want to be with any guy besides him. but, i look at other guys - i talk to them, flirt, etc... and i think it would be fun to kiss one of them, hook up with one of them.. but i don't want to be with them, i just want to be with my boyfriend. i want to be like, a slut for a day, but not a slut.. but i still want my boyfriend.
what should i do? (link)
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oh man dont do that. thats a huge mistake. not if you really LOVE your boyfriend. what happens if he finds out? how will you explain it to him? theres a huge possibility that he wont understand. love is always faithful. you cant cheat on your boyfriend and expect everything to be the same. it just doesnt work that way. either you dump him and date other guys or you stay commited to him. thats only fair to him and YOU. you cant love him and yet want to hook up with other guys. think about it. one step that you make and you might ruin your relationship. you dont want that right?
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so i`ve been dating my boyfriend since july 4th of last year, so it`s almost 1 year.
i love him alot, but we fight ALOT. is that normal? we fight over stupid things and both get pissed off super easy, and it really makes me so mad sometimes. i don`t know how much of the fighting i can take, but i don`t want to break up with him. i`ve talked to hima bout it, but he thinks we`re fine. he knows i hate it, but neither of us can help getting mad.
what should i do? (link)
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fighting is normal. and i know it can get really annoying when you guys have a conversation and outta nowhere you guys end up fighting.
you have to remember that you love him. and weather you guys liek it or not fighting can hurt a relationship. try to compromise. maybe thats the problem? that you guys have different perspective about things. just remember you love him and you wouldnt want to ruin something beautiful.
i say sit him down and tell him you love him and that you hate fighting wit him. try to compromise something out. maybe when some says something that the other thinks differently,you can just respect each others oppinion. maybe just ignore anyhting mean the other says or talk it out before you feel youre about to start fighting again.
love is something really speacial so you wouldnt want to mess it up just because you guys cant compormise. think about it. its not worth it.
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I cut myself.
I'm currently in therapy and getting help.
My parents don't know about it.
They don't need to know about my cutting. I'm getting help. And I'd really rather they never found out.
If anyone has ideas on how to hide the cuts, please tell me. (link)
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my friend buys wrists bands those hide it really well. like you know those things people use on their hands like a bracelt sorta but its kinda long and like it will hide your cuts. if you dont understand what im talking about go to hottopic they have alot of thik bracelts that can help. if people ask you about ur cuts just say you have a cat.
a little piece of advice: dont cut yourself its not worth it. youre jsut hurting yourself and it will only seem like its helping you for a while, while your really hurting yourself more.
xoxo blackluna7111
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i want to get my boyfriend a really good present for his bday. hes turning 15 and i can spend up to $100. so, any ideas? (link)
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mp3 unless he has that already or an ipod shuffle lol.
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don't know if this is the right category, but I want to go to a tennis camp this summer and I need to raise $130.00 by July 14th. How do I do it? (link)
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babysit! thats like the easiest way. put flyers up telling people that youre willing to babysit you shoupd get paid pretty well.
or you can tell your friends if they need help liek threre parents or somehting you can also walk dogs while people are in vacation.
or moan lawns and wash cars. hope i helped!
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My girlfriend how I am hopelessly in love with is going to a party tonight and I can't go; and there will be alcohol there and she loves to get drunk...I trust her with my whole heart but when shes drunk she loses control of what she does and she has told me stories of how she got drunk and she made out with guys...she promised me that nothing would happen and we tell each other EVERYTHING!! I just want to know what you guys think will happen if she gets drunk and how can I find out if anything DID happen?
thanks guys
Tyler (link)
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hey tyler,
well if she said nothing will happen then nothing should happen because you trus her right?
but remember when someone gets drunk they dont have control over themselves so anything could happen. just tell her PLEASE not to get drunk because you dont want her making out with anyone at the party. if she says she wont then trust her. i mean she is your girlfriend who you love, nd your love should have trust.
but if you really want to find out if anything happened then ask her straight up, if you dont want to do that then ask your friends who were probably there to tell you the truth or you can just ask people who were at the party.
i hope evryting works out for you guys goodluck
xoxo
blackluna7111
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14/F
My dad met his best friend in the army, his best friend got married and a couple years later so did my dad. They had me and my dads best friend and his wife became my god parents. I was very close to my god father. He was more like my second dad.
When my god father and god mother got divirced, he just left. My dad tried contacting him so many times, but he made it clear that he didn't want anything to do with us anymore. And my father finally let him be.
It's been 6 years since. I miss him so much, and I thought about contacting him or writing to him. My father said I would just mess up what he had with his new family, and remind him of something he would rather forget. Re-open old wounds. I don't want to hurt him, but I want closure.
I want to know if he ever thinks of me or if he still loves me. How could he just leave me like that. Am I being selfish in wanting that? Should I just leave him be and accept that he's gone. Or should I risk hurting him or making problems for his family by writing to him?
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ok, well first off i am very sorry for what youre going through.
secound, if this was me i would soooo write to him and tell him to please not tell your dad anything. if you guys were close he would do you that favor. if he did love you before then he should still love you because it wasnt your fault that everything happened. you just got stuck in the middle, which really sucks!
tell him that your really sorry that you miss him so much and that you wish everything could be the same. i dont think you will be hurting his family becuase your a youg girl who just misses her godfather. just write down all that you feel.
hope evrything works out.
xoxo,
blackluna7111
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what do people mean when they say "be true to yourself?" (link)
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it means to always do what you know is right, like what your comfterabkle with. done do anything just because your friends are doing that. you just have to do what you knoiw is right
never get influenced by anyone because they might not be doing the right thing.
hope this helps
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I have this friend, lets call him Bob. Well now I'm on summer vacation and we dont talk. We used to talk in school all the time. After school and now all I do is think about Bob. I have no physical attraction toward Bob though. Bob just has a great personality. Bob could always make me laugh, and I was confused on wether I liked Bob for a bit, but I thought well I dont because I dont think he's physically attractive. And I base everything on looks. Bob gave me his number,but I dont call bob, bob dont call me. But what the heck, I CANT stop thinking about Bob. I dont want to like Bob though. I least I dont think I do. What should I do ? and do I like like him ? (link)
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dear, person,
well it is possible that you might have a thing for bob. remember, beauty is whats inside not whats outside and if you realy like bob then you already know that. call bob give eachother a time to talk.
you never know; you might end up having a wonderful conversation with him. you will neevr know till you try.
and if you keep thinking about bob i guess you might have a thing for him so call him find out whats going on. you never knwo til you try. you nd bob might end up having a good relationship and then again it might not work out. but atleast you gave it a try and look at it this way, if you try it out you wouldnt be wondering your whole life what it would have been if you actually called him.
good luck!
xoxo blackluna7111
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i want to watch a love movie
but like a teen love kinda thing
movies like the last kiss or the notebook
but it hasto be on demand
haha
any suggestions? (link)
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a walk to remember its the best movie!
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okay well my boyfriend gets really jealous, but not to the point where it's over bearing.. his last relationship ended when he found out his girlfriend had TWO other boyfriends, so i don't really blame him for being this way.. well, we've been going out for a year (tomorrow, actually =) yayy!) and i was just wondering something.. well i never really talk to any guys as much as i did before being with him, but there was this kid on my myspace that added me who lives like in ohio and i live in pa (but on opposite ends so we're like 8 hours from each other, not that it really matters though) and he posted a bulletin about being upset cause girls are confusing or something, so feeling generous, i messaged him and we just talked about stupid stuff for a little bit and that's all. messages always seem shady, i know that.. so if my bf sees it, he'll probably be upset.. he knows my password and stuff cause he doesn't have a myspace so i gave him my info so he can still look at other poeples, although he like never goes on the computer anymore just because he doesn't.. so my question is should i delete the message? if he saw it i know it would create controversy, but its not really a big deal.. the kid said i was cute in the message.. and in his about me it says he's a flirt, so i know that part would deff make him be kinda upset.. i know he wouldn't like break up with me over it, but should i delete the messages just to be safe?? thanks =) sorry so long, i just like details haha ♥ (link)
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hey,
well i think you should delete them.
i would get jelous also if my bf was like doing that eventhough theres nothing to worry about.
you know, just to be safe
anyway this might become, big, like a misunderstanding, and you wouldnt want him to loose trust in you right? offcourse not.
for the sake of your relationship please delete the messges.
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boyfriends dad caught us together (not the first time), well we were in his room with the door locked. when his dad opened it, he told my boyfriend to leave.. with me. Basically, hes not allowed to see me for two months. I dont know what to do, i fucking love this boy so much, we've been together for over a year. But we cant sneak around to see eachother, thats how we got caught. I can either break up with him or just not see him for the whole summer. I'm really upset by this, and his father doesn't speak english so talking to him is out of the question. But i cant go two months without seeing him.. i love it when he hugs me or sends me cute little textmessages. My parents dont care about me, only he does. I dont know what to do. Help or advice or opinions please :( (link)
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well, i really dont know what to say to you. i mean i wana help but i saw what eevryone else wrote to you and it didnt seem like they helped. so here goes what i think you should do. ok:
well, my mom hates me too well parents also, and i feel like i only have my boyfriend to help me out. so if that happened to me i would die. so if theres no way of talking to your b.fs dad then you should sneek around. i know you said you did already but this time you have to do it better. sneekier. you cant get caught! ok liek for example does he have a cell phone you can call him at? like textmessaging also, comon his dad will neevr know hes texting or calling you. well unless he checks and that is kinda weird..but he can always delet your calls and messages. im afraid that if you dont want to talk to his dad or sneek around what else can you do? if it was me i would try calling him. like i would also tell my bf to pretend hes going shopping or to the movies with friends and then go meet up with you. i hope you guys can work this out. it soudns liek you really love him :)
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how do you know if you are being annoying while texting? or know if the person is actually interested? how do you know when the person you're talking to doesn't want to talk to you? (link)
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hm, this is really hard because you cant really see the persons face or reactions. but anyway here are a list of a few things i picked up:
1. the person doesnt text you for a while like he or she takes long to reply.
2.the person says brb. and never actually coems back!
3. the person never texs you first. or he texts you only when they are bored!
okay well i cant really think of any more signs you just have to be on the lookout. also, you can always ask them.
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I used to have a ton of posters and random cut outs from magazines and stuff on my wall. Most of it kind of fell off, so i just took everything off of it. I need some ideas what i can do to redecorate it. Dont say leave it plain cuz its pink and icky. Your answers are much appreciated! (link)
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hey thats cool i have alott of posters also, well you can always try to draw and post your drawings up, also, like if you have poems or sayings that would be nice also, jsut be creative and like the person below said you can also make collages and suff. and, my room has 3 frames up there they have like ocean views its so cute they add a nice touch to my room.
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