so i have a past with this one kid lets call him " dan " okay so me and dan have had a past we hooked up alot and we did more then that alot too and everytime we would hang out wed hook up and do stuff.. well recently my best friend has been talking to him just like friends and now he likes her and i dont know .. im confused what to do like i have a history with him and now he wants my best friend
Well you may hate to hear this, but your friend is not a true friend because if she was she wouldnt mess with anyone you messed with. Its too many fish in the sea for ya'll to hook the same one.
Dont get mad, Dont get jealous, Just move on. He is going to miss you when your gone.
And your friend, she will be just another trophy on his shelf for him to brag about. [ khadiya's advice column | Ask khadiya A Question ]
blackluna7111 answered Tuesday July 10 2007, 12:22 am: wow that must suck i understand you have a history with him. but if he likes your friend then theres nothing you can do about this. theres a possibility that she might like him back. and theres nothing you can do about it. try to leave it behind you. all you can do is warn your friend about he type of guy he is and tell her not to fall in his traps. if shes smart enough she will take your advice and listen to you
xoxo blackluna7111 [ blackluna7111's advice column | Ask blackluna7111 A Question ]
Brandi_S answered Monday July 9 2007, 11:27 pm: I understand you have a history and all, but realistically you can't put him up on a shelf to collect dust next to your knick knacks- you have to accept that he is going to move on with his life with someone else, and sometimes that someone is your best friend.
Leave your past where it belongs and move on with your life with someone else who wants to be with you for more than just hooking up now and then.
So you just have to suck it up, and find yourself a guy who you deserve.
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