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Guy i like =[
The guy I like is hated by so many people at our school. Like he dresses extremely preppy (but I LIKE that stylleee). So I heard he's gonna ask me out, but I don't want to say yea, because then my reputation would go bad. Basically, he acts exactly like a girl, which is why so many people hate him. But we get along GREAAATT!
But I really don't want to go out with him beacuse I'm kinda popular and my reputation would die.
Please don't say "do whatever makes you happy," because its much more complicated than that, and I'm really confused... =[
THANKS FOR ANY HELP!!! <3
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If your friends are true friends, then they wont leave you and they will stick up for you too. Give it a shot and see what happens! :)
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say no to him if your reputation would really die.
you will find another boy.
just listen to you heart!
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if you really like him and get along great it shouldn't matter what people think just do what your heart tells you hope this helps,y-vet
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Everything everybody here said is right but immma make my imput fairly short.
IF he asks you out, say yes. If you are popular, make it cool to date people like him, and trash anybody who tries to trash him. Your followers will be happy and jealous of you, and your bf will become cool.
If you end up a "loser", which you won't, at least you have a bf whos a "loser" too.
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honestly i think you should go for it if you like him than go out with him. its not that big of a deal. he couldnt possibly be that bad and the popularity thing means nothing. and plus why would you let others decide for you what you going to do or let you reputaion stand in the way. i say go for it theres really nothing you can loose im sure your friends arent going to ditch you over going out with a guy saying that he has a lower ranking than you.. i just think thats fair give hima chance!! i would :]
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Ok... So... You are seriously going to tell me that you are going to allow everybody else to dictate what you like in a guy? Please don't tell me that if they all jumped off a bridge... well, you know the old story...
You like this guy, and he likes you, and you are actually questioning this over the opinion of others? What the hell?!?
If that's what a popular reputation entitles these days, then I think I would rather be the chick hiding in the corner who thinks for herself and choses a guy because he is who SHE likes, not because he is what EVERYONE ELSE approves of..
No offense about that, kiddo, but you really need to learn that your life is YOURS to live, not theirs.
ygs-29/f
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im not going to tell you to do whatever makes you happy which is what you should really do. why do you care so much about what people think of you? they aren't going to be there in the future to help you with anything. when you fall you will realize alott of your suposably friends will NOT be there for you. But that speacial someone will. if he makes you happy great then. and preepy style is cute. in my opinion also. but my point is go for it. if you like him and he makes you happy then do it. oh man i said what i promised i wontn't say. haha. but yea, dont you want to be happy? who knows he might be the "guy" you never know if you might have him even while your still in college. and are you even gonna know half of the people that you used to know? probably not. so dont let an opportunity go by. really if you like him go out with him. people can say whatever they want. they will get over it. think about it. if it was me and i really liked him, i would definietly go out with him.
xoxo blackluna7111
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Do teenagers really talk like that? I thought those kinds of lines were only used in Mean Girls. Honey, who cares about your reputation? If you connect with someone & want to date them, DATE THEM! Who cares what the other kids on the playground think? You are the one living your life, not the other people. If you made choices based on other people's opinions, you are only being liked for someone you AREN'T. Who wants to live like that? It's not "complicated"; you are just brainwashed to believe you have to "fit in" to other teenager's standards or you're a loser for life. The truth is, they AREN'T THE judges. When you get out of high school, you will look back at this day & laugh & ask yourself why you cared about what THEY thought. It's a WHOOOOLEEE different world out there & I am THERE. I can guarantee you no one acts or passes judgements like that. I say learn to be happy now & date who you want.
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if you really liked this guy, you would care more about him than your reputation.
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