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Should I?
My name is Liz, I am 16 and I have a boyfriend named Dalton. I am in love with him so much and I'm positive he loves me too. I'm really serios I am full fledge in love with this guy. Last night we were at his house and he brought up the idea of sex. I didn't know what to say so I told him I wasn't ready. But now I think I am so should I go for it? I know I love him so please don't say that I am too young or its not worth it.
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liz darling if your ready and this means 100% ready without his influence go for it ok make sure this is true love and you are as eager to have sex. Have fun if you do and good luck!
AgonyK
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I say if you really love him and you think he's not a cheater and he reallt deeply loves you then go for it, because I personally know that guys think about sex all the time. Also, think about is this really what you want to do or is he pushing you into doing it.
sincerely,
SAMANTHA.< 3
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i'm not doubting you're love him but i do think you should go with your initial reaction. after a while, you THINK you're ready but originally you said you weren't. if you truly TRULY were, you would have said so right then and there.
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being in love is soemthing so beautiful. you wouldnt want anything to change. you have to be positive that youre sure that you want to do this. because afterwards you wont be able to get your virginity back.
think about it if you told him face to face that youre not ready then maybe that emans that youre not really ready. right now you think you're ready because you were probably thinking about it alott and you push yourself to think youre ready. wait some time. figure yourself out. you might be misunderstanding youself. take sometime alone and think about this.
im not telling you not to have sex or to have sex. jsut think abot it carefully make sure you really want to do this. and remember if you ask yourself "is this right?"is becase deep inside you know its not
so basically if youre ready go for it. and if your not then dont do it. make sure you guys use protection. and one mroe thing make sure you have no regrets :)
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If your mind, body feels ready than go for it. But, don;t change for him and before losing it to him make sure he is the one. If he treats you right and shows you so much respect, than he will probably wait for you. But if you love him than I am guessing you want to have sex. Also, use protection. Give sometime for thinking about think about what could happen if you do or do not .
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just make sure you're not changing for him...like if he hadn't brought it up, would you have felt this way? And are you afraid to lose him if you don't have sex with him? Just think about these things and make a final decision whether you are ready or not. And make sure you know all about sex and (hopefully you've had sex ed.) the consequences, like getting grounded (depending on how strict your parents are) if you guys were caught, and more importantly STD's and pregnancy. Just be careful. I don't think you are too young, and even if I did, I wouldn't want to influence your decision like that. I actually applaud you for saying you weren't ready at first so that you could have time to think about it. Great job, and choose wisely. Your virginity is like a gift, that you only get to give once, so if you're sure that Dalton is the one you want to give it to, then go for it.
Sincerely,
SlushPuppy
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I can't say your too young to do it, but make sure you know you're ready. You don't want to do this then regret it later on. If you are for sure ready, then you what you please. Just make sure you're both ready for this and have no doubts whatsoever. The worst thing you can do is have sex when you arent for sure ready.
I regret my first time though I try to live life with no regrets. I wasn't ready and I just let him pressure me into it. I loved him, but I just wasn't ready at the time.
If you do have sex, be careful and know your risks. Use a condom please. Most guys don't like them, but they are completely worth it.
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Follow your heart. If you feel like you're ready, then go for it. But really think about it. If you have any questions or doubts, I wouldn't do it. I'd say you're a little young, but I know of 14 year olds losing their virginity, so who knows how young is considered too young. But like I said, really think about it. Just think of the pros and cons. Will sex really bring you 2 clsoer or anything? Or will it just be something you 2 did? And if you're not ready, that's completely fine! I'm sure your boyfriend will understand if he loves you like you say he does.
<3 Laura.
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