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what am i?
i'm 15/female
i'm scared incase my friends think i'm a lesbian,..i'm not u am straight,..but i just have a funny feeling they all think i am and because of this when i talk to them i always make sure i look at their eyes incase like i look them up and down,...but i can't remember why i started thinking this cos before i never bothered at all but now its like when ever i'm near them i'm scared to look at anywhere other than their eyes incase they think i'm a lesbian
why am i like this
i no i'm not a lesbian i love boys wayy to much
i'm just confused
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just tell them you're not a lesbian.
then get a boyfriend.
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don't worry about what your friends think. if they think you are they aren't really your friends.you should talk to them!
approach it carefully though! your friends might think you are accusing them.
and if they say yes they think you are tell them you are not.if they do not believe you,then ditch them. why be friends with somebody who doesn't accept all of you?
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its natrual to look at other girls in case thier hair is messed up , zippers down , dont let it bother you to much , they do it to ?
have you every had a girl say your zippers down or your bra straps showing ? its not lesbian unless you make it , a quick glance isnt so horribel , we have eyes use them !!!!!!
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the most important thing here is that YOU know your not a lesbian if your friends want to think that fine. have they ever told you that? if they did then theyre stupid and so what if you were a lesbian its none of there buisness its perfectly normal.
but since you know youre not a lesbian then it shouldn't bother you. just amke sure you let your friends know that youre not because i know that would be uncomfterable being with people who think ur bie or lesbian when you know yourself that youre not. but the msot important thing really is if your comfterable with yourself and that you know youre not a lesbian.
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if you are not a lesbian, then i don't think you should let it bother you at all
besides you only "think" that they think you are a lesbian, you don't know, and asking could be pretty awkward. Chances are, they don't think you are a lesbian at all! It's all in your head, so let it go, relax, forget about it, and have a good time with your friends!
<3Taylee
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My one friend went through this. But we were all like 13 then. I remember all of my friends used to all talk about it. And its not that she was either. I mean, I don't know, obviously when we were 13, we were extremely immature. and she was the only one in our group who didn't have a boyfriend. and we were all little skinny short girls, and she was like tall and everything. well, now shes like laughing in all those girls faces, because now she has a boyfriend whos popular and everything. but, basically though, i think your friends are kinda immature, if there doing that, because obviously my friend were. just ask them. be like "is something going on between us? i feel like somethings wrong" and if they say no, then just try to overlook it.
Do you ever tell them who you like? Thats why they all started thinking my friend was a dyke, because she never talked about that stuff. so you could be like to them.. hey guess who i like now. or when your at the mall or something, you could be like oh my gosh, look hes cute.
i hope everything works out. (:
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Well you said yourself that you like boys right? So you're straight. Or you could be bi. But I dont think thats what you are trying to get at.
If your friends think that, confront them about it, tell them exactly what you said on here. Its good to look them in the eyes, I look my friends in the eyes too, and I'm not lesbian either, its just good conversation when you do that, and it means they have your full attention. Don't worry about it, its very good conversation skills!
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