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ok i need your help !!
im 5'2 and weigh 90 pounds
is the to fat to skinny or average ??
cuz i was thinking about losing 5-10 pounds do u think i need to ??
HELP !!

Your under weight.

According to my doctor at 5'2 your supposed to weigh around 110 pounds. If anything you need to gain weight. If you lose 5-10 pounds you will be underweight even more and its not healthy.

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I would like to know how this could be done. With a picture uploaded from my digital camera: how can I pick and choose the parts that I want to be color and the other portions to be a black and white effect? If it helps I have the program IrfanView.

You can't do that with IrfanView. You can use those programs that other person gave you or you can see if one of your friends have photoshop or another editing program.

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I don't know if this is in the right category but I hope it is. Well anyway, I'm going to Florida this summer for a vacation. 13/f(not that my asl has anything to do with it). but i live in maine so i was wondering what the easiest way of transportation would be because my parents cant decide whether 2 get a plane (cuz the tickets cost more) or take the car down there (it would be like 3 days of driving! and the gas costs a LOT). and one more thing:
what are some good hotels or good places to see there? thanks

i cant even explain to you how jealous of you i am right now lol. I live in maine and dying to go back to florida.

But to answer your question: i would highly recommend taking a plane because driving that far is really hard and tiring. It feels like you are in the car for a week straight.

And im not sure about hotels that are good down there but i would deff. go to alot of the beaches depending waht part you are visiting. Theres some amusement parks that are pretty fun.

have fun:)
kim

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My boyfriend & I had sex unprotected. We didn't use a condom because he said he can control himself and it was only for a few minutes so that it wouldn't happen. I just got off my period the day before.. is there any chance of me getting pregnant? I also heard somewhere that smoking weed affects sperm count or whatever.. and he does weed & drinks. Does that lower the chance any? I'm not wanting to get pregnant by the way, I'm just wondering so I can know if I will or not. Thanks.

yes there is a chance that you can get pregnant. If you have sex without a condom thats pretty much an invitation to get pregnant. No one on this site can tell you if your are actually pregnant. For you to find out for sure you would have to take a pregnancy.

hope everything works out for you.
good luck
kim:)

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i saw this product on tv where its a light you put in your mouth and it whitens your teeth (my teeth aren't yellow or anything and i brush and floss every day) but i was wondering if that thing worked. Because i tried all teh whiteners out there (crest, oral b, simply white, etc. And i think i want to try the light you put in your mouth for like a couple minutes or seconds or somehting and your teeth are whiter ( i don't have enough enamel on my teeth to mix baking soda and water, do that type of stuff etc.) but can anyone tell me what that teeth whitener light is called and if it works if anyone has ever tried it...thanks

i dont know it it works or not because i havent tried it but im pretty sure its called Ionic White.

http://www.ionicwhite.com/

kim;)

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does anyone have any tips on convincing my mom to let me pierce my bellybutton? i already have 6 piercings in my ears and she said no more after i got my 5th hole (cartilage).. i pierced the 6th one (other cartilage) myself hehehe woo but she didnt like it (that was like a year ago). so she said no more but i want it soooo bad. i already tried asking for it as my 17th bday present (in september). no. i tried askin if i can get it if i keep a job for so many months, get all A's in school, etc. no. i tried researching and telling her the facts/risks/care/faqs/etc. no. so basically whenever i ask i get yelled at to quit asking. ahh but i want it lol! any ideas? :D

SOunds like your moms not going to give into you anytime soon. The best thing i can suggest for you to do is just wait till your 18 that way she cant yell at you.

yea and not doing it yourself is probly a good idea.

kim:)

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is there any program that like, when you zoom on in a picture and it gets all like pixelated and blurry, anything to make that go away? prefer it to be free.. thanks

Pretty sure theres not and if there is i dont know what it is. But as far i know, that is not possible. Anytime you enlarge a picture you are stretching it.

kim.

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Do you have to be 18 to buy condoms?

nope. You can buy them whenever.

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do guys think girls pube hair is gross?

wELL id say that it depends on the guy you are doing sutff with. Every guy likes something different.

kim;)

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13/f
i get this goey stuff in my undies all the time and its nothing to do with my period because i havnt had it yet and this has been happening for a while...so i was wondering...can anyone tell me why this is happening and if something is wrong with me...thanks alot

Actually, it does have to deal with your period. Its discharge and its a sign of you about to start your period. Maybe not this month but it will come soon. And its perfectly normal.

kim:)

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i was on youtube and i found this on the top videos: http://youtube.com/watch?v=gSmYVlofcZE does that really happen when you get your period? lol probably not but im still wondering ... thx

umm thats really nasty. And no thats not even close to being true

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How do you effectively clean a mirror without it leaving streaks or "fuzzies" from the washcloth?

Windex and a paper towel. I use it when i wash windows at work and even the manager says it looks good. And i barely ever hear her say something looks good.

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is there any way that you can find out who an "unknown" caller is?

if they were the last incoming call you can call *69 and that will tell you the number. If the call was blocked then no there is no way to find out.

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Okay I know you will probably say i'm to young!!!!!! But I know i'm ready for sex so what's the big deal????????

your obvoiusly not ready if your coming on here to make a big deal out of why adults think sex is a big deal. Your probly one of those 13 year olds that keep seeing those questions on here about how stupid 13 year olds are having sex at such a young age thinking they are ready either because a guy wants to screw them or you finally got a new boyfriend and youve been with him for a month and you think you guys will last forever.

How do you not see the big deal in sex? You may think you are ready but honestly did you think about the after facts of having sex with someone? Like diseases, getting pregnant because the condom broke, The fact you will never get your virginity back.

You shouldnt have sex because the majority of teenagers decide to have sex before they turn 15. I bet that those teenagers where not ready for sex. They either had sex because of peer-pressure or because they thought it was cool.

Think about everything before you go and have sex. Think about when you really meet the love of your life the man your going to marry, hes not going to be able to be the one to take your virginity.

kim:)

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my fertile days were 9/29/06 - 10/3/06 i had sex on 10/9/06 but he pulled out is there a possobility that i got pregnet on that day?

I you have sex then there is always a chance of you getting pregnant the pull out method is not always going to work and if it does work you are lucky because not alot of people think of pre-cum and the fact it can get you pregnant. The only thing i can tell you is to go and get a pregnancy test or wait till you miss your period.

yea an your additoinal info is a bunch of crap because first off its only 10/25/06 and you said you had sex on 10/29/06.

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yeah I ihave a new bf!

I love him a lot. and the other day were talking and he brought up the subject of how far have you ever gona with a guy. I told him just making out!
and he is 16.I am 14!
but I would expect him to e more mature but he has had a blow job hand job and been with a girl naked but didnt have sex. I love him like he loves me!
we met at an amusement park[knotts berry farm]
and we hav been going out for a week! but have been friends longer! so i am not a slut!
I felt a little jealous when he tole me that a girl did that and beat me to it!
well the thing that sucks is i am going with him to a party on saturday and his dad heard a rumor of him getting a girl pregnant so he got a pack of condems. and my mom knows we are going out and she wouldnt care if we happened to have sex!

but i am thinking if it is good thing!

so should i have sex??


pleasehelp me!

umm let me think about it: no you should not have sex.

You say hes not being mature, but your not being mature either just so you know. Having sex because your upset that someone beat you to it doesnt mean your ready to have sex. And i can garuntee your mom will be pissed to find out that you are plannin on having sex at the age of 14.

Your acting like sex is some kind of reward you get for going out with him. Its not and your going to get over that. What you have for him is lust its not love your only 14 and your moving into this relationship way to fast.

You need to get over the fact that hes already had sex with someone else and grow up. If he almost got a girl pregnant before that pretty bad. what happens if he gets you pregnant? Dont say it cant happen because trust me hun it can. You cant support a kid and neither can he.

-- You said that he didnt have sex with this girl but how did his dad hear that he almost got her pregnant. Your facts dont match up.

kim;)

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I'm a freshman in highschool, and I've started hearing more and more about people drinking, smoking, doing drugs, etc. I don't know if it's just my school, or if it's normal... but it seems like if you don't drink, people are like, "OMG?! YOU DON'T DRINK?!" Is it like that elsewhere? Or is it just my school? Because I'm hearing a lot about it now. Also, why do so many people do these things to themselves? What to they get out of it? A hangover? They like that? Can't they have fun without getting drunk or high? I don't get it. Sorry so many questions, thanks in advance.

I agree with you 100%. Its at my school also and i know tons of people that involved with drinking and drugs. Teens do it because they think they get more popular by drinking and walking around and having Parties or going to them. They feel the need to grow up way to fast and when they turn 21 they already experienced the drinking and being drunk. But they dont care. The drugs teens do for the same reasons. I guess drugs help you when your stressed out. teens can only be stressed out to a certain point they havent really lived.

Alot of teens do not think about the after effect of drinking. Such as what if they were stupid enough to drink and drive and ended up crashing and getting killed. They don't think about how their friends and families would feel. they only think about the amazing feeling they get while doing it.

if you have any questions just ask.
kim;)

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okay i rele like this guy. so i asked him to the dance. well jhe sed no. and he wants to go with mi best friend! im rele upset. and i dont kno wut to do

well first off learn to spell because you cant spell to save your life.

If you asked him and he said "no" that obviously means he doesnt like you. if your friend knows you like him and she is going to the dance with him then yea its kind of wrong but theres nothing you can do about them going together. you never said they were actually going to the dance together you only said he "wants to go with her." How do you know shes going to say "yes".

Just talk to your friend about it.


-----Yea i get rated a one because you cant handle the truth and accept the fact that he likes your friend more then he likes you. My advice to you is grow up.

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how do you get your eyeliner to stay on all day or for a long period of time.
i mean right when i put mine on, ( i do the whole pull ur bottom lid down and line it with the eyeliner thing ) but what are some other ways cause when i do that it goes away in less than 30 minutes and smudges below and is really messy.

thanks so much.
and please don't say "you should ask ur beauty consultant about that" or "you should ask someone who works @ the make up counter about that"

I have tried almost every brand of eyeliner out there and the only kind that works for me is liquid eyeliner. And i love it

people may tell you not to use it because its hard to apply but you get the hang of it after like a week.

By the way i use Loreal.

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do you think that its weird if i want to break my own hymen with a tampon
so it wont hurt when i eventually have sex for the first time?

Its not wierd but even if you break your hymen having sex for the first time will probly still hurt because having sex strecthes the inside your vagina while the hymen is just there.

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