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ahh!! ok, soo I've been playing the piano for about 5 years. when I first started my mom literally had to drag me there because I didn't want to do it. then I was lying to her saying I enjoyed it. I thought, hey if I did something for my mom, maybe she wouldn't hate me. But anyways, I have been telling her I dont want to do it anymore for about a year. She said to me today "I dont want to listen to this. you dont want to do anything but sit on your lazy ass" OMG, I can't stand this! I hate the piano! My mom tells me she loves me but those are just words. she doesn't actually mean it. Whenever I try to talk her her she's like "I'm not going to listen to this! You're a very ungrateful spoiled brat" Oh, and she was on the phone and said "she always complains school is very hard for her, but why would she graduate number 2 out of 360?" OMG, I have to study about 5 hours a day, and spend about 3 hours on homework!! Please help! She does take me to the barn every day and does help me but I think thats only because horseback riding is my sport and she wants to get me "off my lazy ass" (link)
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well i really dont think ur mom hates u.. wat she probably wants is for u to be successful and not b "on ur lazy azz" u noe.. maybe if u can try telling her tat u really dont feel lyk she cares.. that u need actions not just words.. but if she didnt care she wouldnt care on what u did.. tell her that the piano really isnt ur thing and that u could try something else! and about the studing u could take lil breaks in between those 5 hours but if u wanna stay #2 then u gotta work hard.. hope i helped xoxo angie
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Only this year..me n my mom have argued soo much. And she started the arguements not me. How do i tell her i dont want to argue nemore without bein a butthole about it? (link)
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tell her str8 up how u feel! u mite hurt her feeling but only 4 a lil bit she wont get mad n she wont luv u n e less but she deserves to noe how u feel!
xoxo
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im almost 15 and ive never kissed a guy..am i a loser? (link)
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NOT AT ALL!!!!!!!
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Hey. My best friends bf has been dating me while he went out w/ her! I had no idea when I was doin it w/ him.But i am now pregnant w/ his kid! I made a deal w/ him that i wud never tell my friend that I was w/ him but now i think i need to. I dont know if im ready for a kid! Shud I have an abortion and never tell my friend or have the kid or what? Plz answer this I really need help! (link)
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dont have an abortion.. itll b hard to deal wit but be honest!
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ok i love my boyfriend ok and so im kinda like a lil shy to go somewhere with him like ya know alone like at the movies or the mall so i always have to bring one of my friends and i can tell he kinda gets sick of being around them and that he only wants to b with me i need sum advice on how to b more comfortable around.
signed..
shy girl (link)
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i useto be the same way.. ur prob. just scared of wat will happen if u two r alone.. tats wat i was scared of.. but after a while u just get comfortable and want to b alone wit him.. but u shouldnt drag ur friends along all the time becuz eventually he wont want that cuz all he wants to do is be alone with you!
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Ok my bestest friend iz havin boy trouble n i try n talk to her n tell her i kno how it feels cuz i have been through the same things but she iz alwayz like u dont kno how i feel!!! Dont u think if i've been through worse crap then she has then i do kno how she feels?????
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well if ur friend doesnt think u noe how she feels then all u culd do is tell her to talk to u.. n xplain to u how she feels.. but most of da time ppl say they noe how the other person feels n they dont.. just b there for her. theres not much u can do.. it'll pass.. n tell her to always remember ppl got it worse... n her boi trouble coould b allot worse.. angita
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ever since summer started its been problem after problem. i guess its keeping me busy n itz better happening now the during school. but i dk. i break down at night n crym y self 2 sleep its getting bad but im the kinda person that can deal with alot happening but i dont like it. i dont know i think im really confused about wut to do n i need help. (link)
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im sry u feel lyk tat.. but its better to cry about than to hurt urself in any way.. talk about ur problem to ppl.. pll u trust.. if not rite in a journal every single feeling u feel and its lyk talking to sumone else.. everyone has problems and its hard to deal wit it .. i noe.. but look if u dont have n e 1 to talk to u can certainly talk to me and ill b more than glad to help u! much luv.. angie
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Ok my lifes not terrible or anything like that, but ugghh. Things can be so fricken tough. I have a good family, we're all together and nothings bad in that department. Im even really strong in my faith, but geese life can get to be so damn miserable. Just last year my cousin moved into the same town as me. Yep, same school, same grade, same frigen everything. And shes taking over as popular queen. Shes a little bitch that gets everything and has to be so girly and wear pink and be perfect. My opinion is shes damn ugly but whatever. Shes went out with every frigen guy in the grade and shes not done. Shes never satisfied. People actually tell me omg how can you be related to her. I dont even know... my response is gee idk how i got related to a mix of godzilla and the devil himself. To add onto the jumble my aunt (her mom) is always up my butt about us having a good relationship and crap like that. HOW CAN I HAVE A RELATIONSHIP WITH HER? I've tried time and again. I even started hanging around her crowd but they all hated me and couldnt wait to get rid of me and they would even tell her that nobody in their group really liked me. Total assholes. But the best part about her popular crowd is they all talk about eachother. So im done trying to have a relationship with her, she never showed up at my friend or family party when it was my birthday so she basically doesnt give a shit about me. Oh yes dont forget the lovely story about when my aunt came to my house on my birthday and started screaming at my mom and telling her how rude i was to my cousin(her daughter) and to everyone else and that i was a bad person and this and that, god it was miserable. I actually have an awsome crowd of friends and a wonderful best friend, and im always being told im prettier than my cousin and stuff, so im not jealous of her or anything. Shes gotten me in trouble from my parents so many times this year but my mom finally feels bad and has just realized who the girl really is. So all that being grounded for nothing. Anyway..she hates me. She always has. And my annoying aunt is always in my face and telling me to be like her daughter. The best part is that shes got two more daughters, one is my sisters age, so my sister goes through the same hell as me. Well anyway that cousin is the schools whore, biggest druggy in the world, and always lies to her mother about whos shes with. So thats damn screwed up if you know what i mean. And whenever we tell my aunt she doesnt really click with it. She just goes I trust her more than anyone in the world, when really she just loves lying to herself, why, well put it this way, its beyond my worldly knowledge. Then the youngest is going into 4th grade and boy is she a fun one. My mom always has to babysit her and shes the biggest brat on the planet. Shes nasty to our grandmother, screams cries and whines when she doesnt get what she wants, she makes fun of me (or tries to), and she never takes blame for shit. And boy do i hate her! Shes always going through my stuff and chasing me around and trying to do what I do. And yes i live in the same town as them. My relationship will never be the same with my aunt because I will and can never forgive her for what she's done to me. Its left a scar on me forever. Im sorry but what else is there to say. I was here way before my cousins were and now theyre always around me and telling on me and the one in my grade spreads rumors and makes different people hate me in my grade. And here I am, about to conquer another year of it. I used to love it where I lived. But now Im just scraping by. I want to get far away. Or live somewhere else. And I sure as hell cant wait to get off to college. I hate my school, my town, the community, I just want to be somewhere else. I love life, but not where I live. What the hell do I do before I go mad? These people are ruining my LIFE (link)
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I hear u about life bein tough! but try to hang in there.. look by wat i read i can tell ur cuzin needs attention and maybe its becuz she feels ur better than her and shes tryin to fit in! and i can tell she gets it from her mother..(no offense).. i feel really bad for u cuz i feel ur pain.. but wat u can try to do is that we ur near them try to avoid them.. but atleast ur mom noes how u feel and u dont get in trouble for it.. be strong and its all about jealousy and i really think they r jealous of ur family becuz u just mite b a lil better then them! lots of luck.. kit.. xoxo angie
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Well Friday is my boyfriends birthday. We have the house to ourselves for the day...any suggestions on anything romantic we could do ? (link)
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aww.. ma hubbys b day is on friday too.. u should just chill make him feel special.. watch a favorite movie.. n things he lyks too do! have fun!
xoxo angie
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I'm 15 years old + a virgin. My best friend has had sex with her bf. My boyfriend isn't a virgin, either. I feel so left out since I've never done anything really 'sexual' with a guy. I'm so curious about it, but I don't wanna do it unless I'm totally in love and I'm ready. I really wanna know what it feels like. What should I do? I dont wanna be known as a little virgin girl for not doing it, but I've never been some1 to give in to peer pressure! (link)
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dont do it if ur not ready n dont wry about bein "left out" cuz ur not! u should just really wait and its ok to be curious and stuff but do wat u think is best!
xoxo
angie
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my little brother has a really bad temper... kinda like a baby but he gets mad easily... he's really discusting... things u couldnt emagine... well i dont like touching him its that bad... so when he gets mad... lol. he touches me n like i start fighting with him. when he does stuff like that i alwayz get in trouble instead of him sept 4 1 tyme but thats a whole other story wut do i do my mom already knoz all this but hez her little baby... she says oh u cant do anything that he got 4rom ur dad. wut can i do? i have no clue wut 2 do at all. (link)
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wow.. ur in trouble.. i think the best thing to do is to try to avoid fighting wit him or getting him mad.. if he upsets u TRY not to get mad and try to just stay calm!
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I need to get rid of a few pimples over night. Do u know something fast that I can use that wont cost much? HELP YA'LL!! (link)
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u can use toothpaste.. but not to long otherwise it'll burn it and ull have a mark!
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I know it was wrong but i had sex wit my bf...the problem is i did it wit out a condom...he did not cum inside me but im really scared that im preg...its only been like 2-3 weeks since i did that..im so scared and idk what to do..i cant tell ne one well i can just not my family..im waiting for my period to start..it will start the end of this month..someone please help or tell me about preg like the signs and symtoms i really need help on it cuz its scaring me.. (link)
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hi.. the 1st thing is.. its ok if u had sex.. well kinda.. but its very very very important to use a condom! becuz even if he doesnt cum inside u a lil could still come b4 he actually does.. if u want u can just go to the store and get a preg. test its easy and ull noe if u r or rnt! but next time to b on the safe side use a condom! xoxo angie
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ok my parents dislike my brother just b/c they dont like his girlfriends parents and they think his girlfriend will b a bad influence on him and sumtimes when im on the computer i hear them talking to eachother and there like saying bad things about him and i feel like really bad b/c i for 1. i dont like hearing bad stuff about my bro b/c he is my own flesh and blood 2. is b/c i feel like im caught in the middle of them b/c my bro tells me stuff about my parents and then my parents talk about him!
help i need help on how to bare this situation!
and when i do tell my parents about this situation there like stay out of this and im like ok but... there like no stay out its none of ur business and im like i HAVE MY OWN RIGHT TO EXPRESS MY FEELINGS! and my bro says the same thing to me! and i try to help and all but they seem to not want it and the never take it into consideration...
help!
signed..
stuck in the middle:( (link)
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well i see ur really stuck in the middle but technically its none of ur business! and i noee u dont want to hear about it so if either of them go to u and tell u n e thing tell them tat its none of ur business as they say and that u dont want to hear about it.. or maybe just try to tell them how u feel but i really think u should stay out of it!
xoxo angie
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you know for the whole relationship thing? is boo the girl? and is kitty the boy? or is kitty the girl and boo the boy? and whats some good love songs.. that are not sloooow but not faaast.. please dont say all my life because that is mine and my x bf's song.. or is it wrong to have the same song with ure new bf as u did with ure x? (link)
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well i guess boo is boy and kitty is girl? i donno im takin a guess.. but about the song.. wait till u guys r together and once u hear a song or u both lyk a song and then that would be ur song!
xoxo angie
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muh dad manages the money around the house... my mom used to... my dad i think hez saving ^ 4 sumthin he wantz cuz he does stuff like that. ive told my mom already she thinks the same thing. shez not gunna do anything soon cuz i dont think she wants to handle the money n pay the bills cuz itz to tiring for her. im not getting the stuff i need like new clothes, shoes etc. n even food were like ruffing it on food. this week we went over like a dollar for our money cuz we only have a certain amount according to my dad. wut do i do to solve this? itz oviously a big problem. he acts like the money my mom n he makes is all his n he desides if he wants to give her money to go shopping or sumthing. hope u guys understand n u can help me. (link)
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look i noe u got a problem on ur hands but honestly this problem is between ur parents and u shouldnt really worry about it cuz there is not much u can do. make sure u tell ur dad and emind him tat u need food.. clothing.. shoes..n stuff like tat.. but really u should leave this problem for ur parents to handle!
xoxo angie
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Ok my boy friend iz at camp in maine he has been there since um.. the 10th of july n i love him so........... freak'n much ,but im scared he iz gunna meet sum girl there that's prettier funnier and all that stuff!!! i kno i should trust him cuz we have been togetha for almost 9 months n i trully ove him to death but im not to sure i can trust him cuz he iz a HUGE flirt!!! Do u think i can trust him not to do n e thing wid anotha girl????????
-X- Caitlin -X-
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u luv ur bf riite..? and u say u trust him.. u have to have trust in a relationship otherwise it wont work... my bf is a huge flirt too.. and a very jealous person.. i tell him that as long as he doesnt touch a girl or a girl doesnt touch him then its ok.. if a girl flirts wit him not to flirt bak to make it clear tat he has a gf.. and if n e thing were to happen to tell u! even if ur gonna get mad! and once tat happened to my bf n he called me n told me wat happened n ever since i have complete trust in him! if he loves u hes not gonna do n e thing to hurt u! always tell him how u feel and be able to communicate!
xoxo angie
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idk if i should have sex yet i think about it alot i want to try but then when i wit the guy my body is tellin me a whole different story if u know what u me i just dont know what 2 do
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DOnt do n e thing ur gonna regret! i think that having sex is something really special and u shouldnt do it until ur ready.. ur body mite be telling u different things but do wat ur heart is telling u to do! wait for the rite guy to come along and sweep u off ur feet! its something really special and u dont want to do it wit someone who doesnt feel the same!
xoxo
angie
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Ok well in the past year things have gotten really really bad for me! Me and my parents are constantly fighting ans when ever were suppose to have "quality" time we ALWAYS get into an argument!So ive been starting to cut myself! everytime i start to cry i bring myself to cut my arms up! how can i stop doing this to my self? (link)
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i have alot of problems with my family to! we are always arguing and i do cry about it! but i honestly think that but cutting urself ur making it worse.. try talking to people and try to prevent yourself from cutting cuz all ur doing is bringing more stress towards yourselF! cry all u want until u feel better but dotn cut urself becuz tat could lead to other problems! i think u should really talk to someone who specializes in tat. and if u can talk to ur parents and tell them wat the fighting is leading to! maybe that will help and there wont be so much fighting.. but remember life isnt perfect and every family fights.. so just hang in there!
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i bought a thong but it's really uncomfortable! Do you have to get used to them? any tips? (link)
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i do agree wit u they are kinda uncomfortable! but i do think after a while u do get useto them.. but mainly u should just wear them when u need to and wear reagular undies otherwise!
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