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I'm going away on a 10 day field trip with my school to Alabama ( I live in Georgia )I'm afraid of getting homesick. I used to get homesick all the time when I was little, then I just grew out of it. Now since I'm going to be away for a long time I don't know what I'm going to do. Any tips incase I get homesick? (link)
I think once you get out there with your friends and start having fun, you should be fine. just think, you'll be home in a few days.


I was just wondering, do y'all spend more time with your bf/gf or with your friends? (link)
friends


Recently I've been caring ALOT about what I eat, and after I eat I feel guilty. Could I be anarexic? I still eat good, and dont thik i could ever stop eating, but I just... feel fat. I weigh at the moment 85 lbs, and everyone tells me Im really skinny (which makes it hard to talk to anyone), but for some reason when I look in a mirror I feel like my gut is huge. whats going on?!?
Thanks for the help =) (link)
Ok first of all you are NOT fat!!!!!! 85 pounds is actually good. just keep on controlling what you eat and you'll be fine hun.


Ok. I have been thinking about loosing ALL of this weight! But if I do I am afraid that my arms and stuff will become excess skin and hang there like a 60 year old womans! I have ALOT of streatch marks on my arms up next to my shoulders and it already hangs (LOL) and some of it could be because I ahve long arms and stuff. But I don't know what todo. Be Obease and Die or Be So Ugly that I wish I Would Die!

-Nicole (link)
Trust me, your skin just wont hang there lol. and the strecht marks should go away. after i lost weight, thats what happened


Okay...well I've been dating this wonderful guy....*Mark* for 4 months now..and we haven't even made out. Yeah..sounds pathetic I know, but we cuddle and hug and you know...it's nice, but I just can't bring myself to make the first move..I'm so shy and so is he...HOW...help please

How the heck do I just know when to make out with him


Driving me nutsss (link)
well if i were you, i'd say take your time lol. its hard to find a nice guy like that. he sounds like a keeper. but if you really really want to kiss him, whenever you guys say goodbye or hes leaving your house or vice versa, just lean in and give him a kiss and i guarentee not long after that, it will lead to making out. good luck


So there's this guy at school and I like him a LOT. I mean like I like him so much that he's all I ever think about. I want to ask him out but I don't really know how. I mean I don't want to walk up to him and be like, "Hey Peter do you want to go out with me?" I want to actually like have a conversation with him before I ask him out. And I don't want to write a note. I want to ask him in person. How would I do this without totally embarrasing myself? I rate 5's on good answers. (link)
well if hes in any of your classes, ask him for help in something or ask him for time or talk to him about the weather. and have confidence because guys like that in a girl


ok you know those white marks under your nail?? like you can see them on it, not the part that gross out but near it, its like a white mark. you can get em anywhere on your nail i guess, it looks kindve soft. i heard its if you're dehydrated. does anyone know what it is??

thanks!! (link)
well i had a white mark just like that actually for quite a long time about 5 years ago and it just went away on its own. it didnt cause me any discomfort so it just went away by itself. doesnt sound serious so i wouldnt sweat it too much.


Okay so I am a freshmen and I am currently dating this guy in my class we have been going out for 2 months. I also have had a major major crush on this guy who goes to a different school and is one year older than me for the past 2 and 1/2 years. My boyfriend i love being around him and he makes me happy, but when i get home i can't stop thinking about my crush i've told my self that i have to get over him, but i can't! I know it is really stupid to be worrying about this ,but i don't think I will end up marrying my boyfriend because we just want different things. So my question is, should i continue to date my boyfriend and give us a try or should i dump him and keep looking? (link)
I think whatever will make you the happiest you should do. I mean, its good if you dont want to hurt your boyfriend but DONT stay in a relationship if you arnt 100% sure that you want to be with him. even if you dont like giving up, leading him on wont do any good in the long wrong cuz he will end up more hurt.


How can I find out and suggest help for my sister without her getting upset? My parents also might think she's bipolar but we're afraid to talk to her about the idea because she'll flip out on us. She's been getting worse as the years go by. Any help would be great. I rate (link)
Well if its getting worse as the years go by then you and your parents better do something before its too later. I have a bi polar friend who is on medicine and it does help if they take it. I would suggest going to a doctor and asking his opinion or searching online websites about how to approach this situation from a professionls point of view......good luck


Okay.. I really like this guy, but he is the most popular guy in our grade! I know I have not much of a chance with him. A school dance is coming up this Friday Night, and I want to dance with him so bad, but I am too afraid to ask. My friends say they'll help me, but I know I'll just chicken out!! What should I do? (link)
Just ask the guy hun lol. the worst he can do is say no and yeah you might feel bad for a while but if you dont ask him then you will never know what he might have said. so just have confidence when you ask him. guys like that


Me and this kid have been going out for about 2 1/2 months and it doesn't seem like he's very open. He'll write me e-mails and notes saying he loves me and how great I am but he never says it in person. We've only held hands a couple times and kiss on the cheak once but he kinda missed and got my ear. Please help me to try and get him more open.
-Despret
P.S. I had my friend{prettyblonde234) wirte me this so don't think it's her. (link)
It sounds like to me that hes just shy. I knew i guy like this once who always said i love you to and girl but never really could show it. eventually he will show it when he starts to feel really comfortable around you. just give it time. maybe hes had bad relationships in the past.


Do you think its possible for someone *your best guy friend* to start liking you even though a couple months before he told you he didnt? We hooked up since then and really formed a strong bond along with a great deal of trust and respect for one another. Is it possible? Do you have any stories of this happening? I just dont want to get my hopes up.. (link)
Been there, done that, got waaaaay too attached so dont get your hopes up until he says he wants a relationship with you.


i am over weighted and I want to lose weight but if i tell my mom or anyone I know they are going to make fun of me. What should I do (link)
Well, a visit to a nutritionist could be good. I think the best way to lose weight though is just to start eating better. I know everyone always says to excersise but that doesnt always work for some people. So just cut back a little bit on the fatty foods like burgers and fries and ice cream, and just start eating 2 more healthy foods a day such as fruit or salads. And just make sure not to eat too much of anything becuase too much isnt good. Oh, and drink water or juice instead of pop and soda. Just by doing that you could lose up to 5 pounds every few weeks.


Alright
my "downthre" is just really raw and red and burns.
what is this?
What can I do to make it go away? (link)
I think the best thing to do would be to go see a doctor. Go to Planned Parenthood. It will be cheap in case money is a problem. It is most likely just a yeast infection or a small rash that can be fixed witha simple lotion or medicine. I wouldnt be too freaked out if I were you. Good luck.


how much do i shave down below?
i am not quite sure please help me asap (link)
It really is totally up to you how much you are comfortable shaving down there. Some girls like to shave all of it (mostly for their boyfriends) but some girls dont shave at all and it seems to work well both ways. So whatever is best for you.




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