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whats good stuff to put in a beach bag?

Hmm.

-A change of clothes.

-Towel.

-Bottled water.

-Other drinks.

-Snacks.

-Sunglasses.

-Sunscreen.

-Rafts, volleyball, soccerballs.

-A book.

-Magazines.

-Tanning stuff.

-Ponytails.

-Money, if there's a snack bar or something.


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I could really use some pictures of cool, shoulder-skimming, shaggy haircuts. I need bangs too, which would look good with my hair up. My hair is sort of thick, but shaggy layers could thin it out. Can anyone help?

I'm getting my hair cut like this:

http://www.tiscali.nl/images/3/2/Hilary20Duff2011.jpg

Maybe get something like that? I'm getting the bangs a little longer though. If you google or go to msn.com there's tons of really cute hairstyles. Type in something like 'side swept bangs.' Good luck!

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16/f

I dated this boy on and off for 2 years. It took us that long to realize that we basically should't be in a tied down relationship. We developed what we call being "close friends". Basically, friends with benefits. But sweet stuff too, not just sex, sex, sex.

Well for the past month or two he's just been so blah. He wants to have sex everytime he sees me. But he never wants to talk before the fact. And I just realized that we never actually have a conversation on the phone. We're always either just silent, or saying boring things, or he just doesn't wanna get on the phone with me. And now I'm just like, wow, our "relationship" kinda sucks.

I talked to him about it but he doesn't understand. He thinks we can just chill together. And not talk.

But I'm like.. listen, if we're gonna have sex, we're gonna have conversations.

How do I make communication better? Or do you think he's just into the sex and doesn't wanna talk?

I think he's just in it for the sex. I, personally, don't think being friends with benefits is such a great idea, anyway. Lose the "close relationship" and just be regular friends. I don't think there's anyway to make people communicate better, especially from what he sounds like. You know the relationship sucks, and you've tried talking to him about this. It doesn't sound like anythings getting through to him. Good luck!

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during sex my wife isnt as tight like she was when we met and i also cum to early but when i master bait i dont stay hard as long during intercouse and i cant go like i use to what can i do

Well, she isn't as tight as you first met because after you've done it a few times, she becomes more loose. As for the other question, I honestly don't know, sorry. Maybe try asking the pool. That way, people with more experience can help you out. I'm really sorry I couldn't help more.

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hey

this september, i'm going to be going into high school. i have a few questions. - you don't have to answer all of them; even if you can answer one, i'd be greatly appreciative.

1.) what's the FASTEST way to learn the map of my school? - besides getting a map & memorizing it

2.) how do i not become nervous the first few weeks when i'm getting accustomed? [like when i get lost, etc.]

3.) any tips on how to survive at least freshman year?

thanks so much, kidss.

I'd start off with just trying to figure out how to get to your classes. Ask your friends, or just figure out how to get to your first period class, then ask that teacher how to get to your next class. Ask the upperclassmen if you'd like-you can pretty much tell who would lie to you and who wouldn't. After you figure that out [which will take about a week, if that], you can figure out the rest of the school. You also might be able to go to the school a week or so before school starts, and just walk around. My school has signs, so I never really got lost. Maybe your school does too.

Just relax. It shouldn't be that nerve raking. It's not really that big of a deal. When you get lost, don't go crazy. Ask someone around you. Teachers are lenient if you're late for the first week or so.

Freshmen year is not bad at all. It's actually pretty fun. It's a new start, and you get to meet a ton of new people. Just make small talk with people sitting around you. I made a few of my good friends just from making small talk in my history class. Join a club or sport.

There's nothing to worry about. The upperclassmen aren't going to kill you or anything. You'll survive. :)

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what are som fun good clean ideas for a sweet sixteen????
my birthday is in november so something i can do but its going to be kinda cold so yep
thanks

I answered someone's question on here a while ago, and she was having a hollywood themed sweet sixteen. I thought that was a neat idea, if you're into that.
Hmm. How many people are you looking to have?
Maybe have like a girls night. Manicures, pedicues, facials, movies. Maybe you could reminisce and watch movies and listen to music you listened to when you were younger. That's always fun. Then, in the morning, you can go shopping, and buy really nice outfits and you out to a nice dinner.
Or, you can just have a bunch of people at your house. Play DDR, pool, ping pong, you know, that sort of thing, and it'll keep people busy, but you'll have fun. Just hanging out with people at your house can be just as fun.
Or, if you wanted to go all out, you could rent a party center, get a performer, and all that.
Also, get some friends and go to the Mall of America, or any other big shopping center. Or, something like Kalahari, or another indoor water park.
If you need any other ideas, let me know. Have fun at your party! :)

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Is it true that if you squeeze lemon juice from a lemon onto you hairs, (leg hair, arm hair, upper lip hair) then it turns blondish???

I know it works on hair, so I'm assuming it would work on other body hairs. Actually, it depends on what color you hair is now. If its really dark, then it probably wouldn't work. I have light brown hair [well, actually its getting darker as I get older] but when I did it like two years ago it worked. I really wanted highlights but my school wouldn't let me, so I did lemon juice instead. I would really only recommend it if you have light colored hair, though.
Also, I wouldn't recommend sun-in. It made my hair orangish, and another girl I knew. I mean, if you want, you can try it.
And it really doesn't dry out your hair. Use a good shampoo and conditioner, and wash it soon after it's dry.

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Ok so im redoing my room. I want to get a new bed set. So i went online and picked out 3. Which one should i get?

#1- http://www.wakeupfrankie.com/ensemble.asp?ensemble_id=127#viewer

#2- http://www.wakeupfrankie.com/ensemble.asp?ensemble_id=168#viewer

Or #3- http://www.wakeupfrankie.com/ensemble.asp?ensemble_id=66#viewer

Please just give me your opinion. I really like all three. Thanks ;)

I'd go with #3. The first one looks comfortable, but it would be impossible to clean and stuff. And then, I just liked the third over the second. I think the colors mesh better, and it would be easier to find things to match with it.

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I'm going to volleyball tryouts for my freshman year the week of August 13-17 (school starts on the 16th). I've played soccer before on a rec. team but I'm not like the ultimate sporty girl. The only time that I've played volleyball was during the times that we played in gym. I have a really great advantage, though, and that is my height (5'8") and the ability to jump up and like set the ball.

What should I expect on the first day of tryouts? The sheet just basically says dress in a shirt, athletic shorts, clean tennis shoes, and hair must be put back away from the face. I've never really played volleyball for real, I'm a little nervous. Do you think I will be good as an actual player on the team?

The first day will be a bit tough, I'm not going to lie. If you work out starting now, you'd be a lot better off.

When I tried out my freshmen year, I was really unprepared. I did nothing all summer, so I was completely out of shape. Run a mile and a half each day [or work up to it] and you'll be fine. Conditioning is the really hard part. Once you get to real practices, it isn't as bad.

I signed up two days late, but those two days, they had to run a mile in under ten minutes. You can, so you'll do alright.

When I got there, we stretched and ran two laps. Then, we went outside to the track and did the indian run [when you get in a line, then the last person in the line sprints up to the first person, then so on] for ten minutes [instead of the mile]. While doing that, we had to pass a ten pound volleyball around.

Then, we ran up the bleachers nine times; three times, the a thirty second break and continued.

After that, we just did drills. We did stations, one minute each. There were situps, jumping [for blocking], ski jumps, hitting, setting, things like that.

You deffinately need to know how to serve over hand. You most likely won't make the team unless you know how.

If you have a friend that plays volleyball, or one that'll just help you, that'd be a good idea. Bump it back and forth, serve to eachother, anything. Also, I had a little bit of roof above my garage, then my parents room a above it, but a little further back [if that makes sense] and I used to bump and serve the ball up there. It's a good way to brush up your skills.

Be really loud at practice. Call for the ball, cheer for your teammates, and tell them to be ready. Coaches love that. I'm really quiet and my coach HATED me for it.

And, you deffinately NEED kneepads. You can't show up without them. That wouldn't be good at all. Oh, and bring water! I forgot and I deffinately regretted it [it was 7 in the morning, hah].

Our conditioning went from 8-11, but if you weren't there by 8 and ready to go, the coaches would punish the entire team. Once school started, the were about two hours, everyday.

I think that's pretty much it. Remember-be loud and don't give up! If you have any other questions, let me know. :)

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alright. im 17 and my boyfriend is turning 20. just for back ground details.
for his birthday i want to make him dinner. i just dont know what to cook for him. im not a pro chef or anything but i guess im not that bad. he likes italian food a lot...soo any ideas?

and then any ideas just for like setting up the dinner its self? i was kinda thinking of setting up a table outside on my deck because it will be a nice summer night and i live on a lake with a good view of the sunset.

That's a good idea. Maybe make him spaghetti? Haha, I'm not too good with Italian food. This isn't Italian, but how about crab legs, lobster, and/or shrimp. That could be really romantic if he's into seafood. I don't think it's too hard to make. It's basically just reading directions. Maybe get a few candles, too. Then, after you could just go by the lake.

Here's a site with Italian recipies:
http://www.italylink.com/food.html

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I just want some opinions on what everyones favorite cell phone provider is. Such as, cingular, verizon, tmobile, etc. Can everyone please just tell me which they prefer, and why. It's alot easier having people tell you what's best when they actually HAVE the plan, rather than researching on their websites... because most give biased opinions and really aren't as kind as they seem. Thanks so much :)

I have alltel. It's a good deal because of the "my cicle." My parents, my brother, my aunt and I all have phones using the same "my circle," and we never go over our minutes. You can pick ten people and it's free to call them, or for them to call you. Plus, its free to call eachother. I never have dropped calls or anything like that either.

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i need a new screen name for aim
(no symbols, less than 16 characters)
my name's julianna/julie
im outgoing, love to have fun, if that helps.thanks!

juliexanna

juliexsays

juliannaxo

itsxjulie

jules346

juliex3

I'm not too good at making screen names. Mines my initials and birthday, haha. I hope some of these help though! :)

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I'm writing a story...don't want to say too much!
Ask these few questions with detail and THANKS!

1. Do you think your spoiled and why?
2. Do you think if you got everything you wanted, you will be happy?
3. How would you explain the word TANTRUM?

Thanks! If you have any ideas for my story, I would appreciate everything! Plus, I this book won't publish but if it is...i promise to give cred to the people at Advicenators.com
THANKS EVERYONE!

I don't think I'm that spoiled, especially compared to other people my age these days. I don't ask my parents for money often, and if I do and they give it to me, I spend it wisely. I don't go blowing the money they give me on a tank top at Hollister for $20. I can buy four for that price. I don't just expect my parents to give me money either. I usually babysit or do chores around the house for my money. I'm also on my own for college and a car. My parents aren't just going to give it to me. If I really wanted to go to a Catholic high school, I would have to help pay. I admit, sometimes I can act spoiled, but for the most part, I really don't think I am.

I wouldn't be happy if I had everything. What would there be to work for in life? I want to have to work to go on a nice vacation, so I feel like I actually earned it.

I would explain the word tantrum as what happens when a person doesn't get there way. They throw things, hit people, break things, etc. They stomp around and scream until they get there way.

Good luck with your story! :)

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I need a name for my main character.

The character is a spoiled brat that gets everything she wants. She throws tantrums and is spoiled to death!

What kind of name describes this?
Thanks and hope it isn't a difficult question.

Hm. On TV shows, the bratty cheerleaders are always named Ashley, Courtney, Amber and so on.

http://www.babynames.com/girl-names/A

That site has tons of girl names.

Emily means admiring.
Katelyn means pure beauty.
Erica means honorable ruler.
Amanda means worthy of love.
Sara means princess.
Adriana means dark, rich.
Mary means bitter.
Molly also means bitter.
Bella means beautiful.
Mia means mine.
Sadie means princess.
Jessica means wealthy.
Kailey means laurel, crown.

If you need more, let me know. :)

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everytime after my families get robbed, it says they want to see the ghost of the person who robbed them in their aspiration things. i cant figure out how to do that, and how do i know if the person is dead or not will their ghost come to the house?

thanks

I don't think a ghost can come to your house if the person didn't die in the house. If you click on the aspiration, it should say how to accomplish it. The grave has to be in their yard. I usually just let that goal pass. I'm sure if you google around and find a forum for the sims, they might have an answer. But I really don't think you can, sorry.

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I was wondering if side bangs were girly or emo/punk hairstyles, or if they could be both in different ways? I want to get side bangs but so many people have them so can anyone give me pics of side bangs or a cool different hairstyle that's not to wild but pretty simple? (I don't want any layers cause I like looking like The Grudge with my hair ;].... and I don't have any pics of me either cause I don't have a digital camera :|. 13/f) Thanks!

They can be both. It depends on how the rest of your hair is cut.

PUNK--http://i87.photobucket.com/albums/k158/gothic-emo_seriously/40-1.jpg

GIRLY--http://cdn.channel.aol.com/aolr/ashley-tisdale-400-021507.jpg

I can't really find a side bang hair cut that no one else really has, unless you want like punk/emo. Most of the girly side bangs are pretty similar.

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Okay I have two question.
1.How do you become less shy,like I wanted to give a guy my number but I never talked to him and then so then when it came time to leave I did NOTHING. about it and I was just wondering how do I become like not as shy,like is there any east tips or something?

2.I am going to a different school and I'm going to be a freshman,and I was just wondering if its HARD to go into a different school,because the school I use to go to I've been going to for a long time.

Help me? Please.

I'm not really sure about the first one, because I'm still working on that myself. But I've heard that confidence will really help. Get a new wardrobe, a new hair cut, anything that'll boost your confidence. Don't be afraid to show who you are.

It isn't really hard to go to a new school, actually. I'm shy too, and I went to a new school twice; going into fourth grade and high school. I think going into high school was easier because I wasn't as shy as I was back then. Just talk to people around you. Be yourself. Once you find your group of friends, it'll get better. I met a few of my good friends in my history class, just from making small talk. I'm more outgoing when I'm around someone I know and I'm comfortable around, so maybe try that. Meet someone in each of your classes that you can be yourself around. It really isn't that hard. I promise :)

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sorry if this is under the wrong thing,
but i just about wash,blow dry, and straighten my hair everyday.
now this is killing my hair,
so i was just wondering if anyone knew anygood
repair hair porducts, or anything to put on my hair before i do this to protect it.
dont tell me to stop fixen my hair because i cant.
thanks in advance

Get a creme for your hair that'll protect it. [I use Studioline] You put it in your hair when it's wet, then dry it. Also, there's sprays that you can use [V05 is good]. You can find these at CVS, and any product would work. I use both of these things, and I straighten my hair often, and it really helps. And, you can use shampoos and conditioners that are specifically made to protect damage hair.

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Enrollment is going on right now and I'm going to enroll on the very last day of enrollment x.x If I do, will I get a bad locker or do they just give out random lockers to people? Also, on the first day of school, should I bring a backpack + binder, or just a binder, or just nothing? Thanks!

You get lockers on the first day of school. You report to homeroom and they assign them. So, no, you won't get a bad locker or anything.
However, you might not get all the classes you wanted. I signed up a week before school started, and I didn't get any electives, except Spanish.
I'd bring a notebook, folder, pen/pencil, and a backpack on the first day. You're going to get a lot of papers the first day and books. You really don't need a binder. The teacher will let you know what you need the first day. :)

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im still in secondary school and currently looking for a job.i live in the republic of ireland.i was wondering how many hours a student under16 and over 16 is allowed to work during school terms

id really appreciate the help

I'm not sure about under 16, but over 16 I think is around 20 hours a week. During the summer, you can work more though.

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