My names Amanda im 17 years old! I live in a real small town--bracey,va. i live in an even smaller neighborhood type thing so its just me and my friends. Im single but im basically in LOVE with one of my best friends, yeahh that sucks. Ive been through it all..bad relationships, asshole boyfriends, backstabbing best friends you've been friends with all your life, alotttt of stuff. I can't exactly explain me in a paragraph but i can promise if you ask me anything i will do everything i can get give you the answer or the best advice that im capable of.
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this has been bothering me all day, i though of a song today that i used to absolutely love. but i canremeber anyof the lyrics or who sings it but if you can help me out id love you forever!
its a country song
female singer
and in like the chorus shes singing about like her mother being her best friend or something
and in the music video shes like on a swing or something
and it had to of come out between 2001 and 2003.
im sorry for like the limitied details but im searching itunes like a total maniac so if anyof you can help me i would be like the happiest perosn ever. (link)
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Its definitely one of those two songs. The song the first person is talking about is 'Who I Am' by Jessica Andrews. or 'Somebodys Hero' Jamie O'neal.
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ok lately i have been thinking of commiting suicide. most of the time i just get scared and dont do it. but im always depresses and crying for no reason. i need help and my mom doesnt want to take me to therapy because she doesnt want anybody to know what goes on in our house. my mom also says that if u commit suicide or cut yourself you will go to hell. thats basicly the only thing keeping me from jumping out of a window. so what are some free hotlines that i can call to help me through this or something because i dont want to feel this way. PLEASE HELP ME!!! (link)
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1.800.SUICIDE (784-2433)
Just Remember hurting yourself is only hurting others. Because once your gone you'll cause your family alot of grief. and your mom should want to take you to therapy. Talk to a counselor at school asap. If she wont do anything then you can do it yourself. its good that your trying to stop yourself!
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In entering pictures on your section of "who I'd like to meet", how to you put pictures up? I know you have to copy the url of the picture or somethin, but I'm a little confused. Any help? (link)
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You have to make a photobucket account first. Go to Photobucket.com and sign up. then you save the picture on your computer. and then save it to photobucket. On photobucket it will say upload photo then you push browse and find the photo on your computer. It will load then there will be 3 codes under the picture. pick the second code. if you need more help leave one in my inbox.
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where do you get your videos/movies from? what program do you use, if you dont use itunes store?
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I use the Itunes store. and then you can get them off Cd's and stuff. Theres things like Limeware that is free, but thats virus central and it will mess up your Ipod. I know myspace has a way to do it but i havent figured that out yet.
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okay so i just got my ipod yesterday and im wondering if when i go to put more music on it, since i still have the music in my itunes is it going to duplicate everything? if it will should i make a new folder for new music?
thanks for your help.
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Nah, nothing duplicates. THe system reads the Ipod and knows what you music you have on there. I just got an ipod too its hard to figure out but you get the hang of it.
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Hi, I was watching BET, and there was a song,
about like saying no to sex and stuff, and I missed the title and artist, Ive been searching on google but I cant find anything. Does anyone know what song this might be? (link)
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S.E.X. by lyfe Jennings
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I have 3 awesome kids. Their deadbeat of a father is about to have his liscence suspended for not paying his child support, funny thing is he is in complete denial. He still plans to drive to missouri two days after his suspension and go for truck driving school, rude awakening when they scan his liscence. Does anyone know the process on how he can get it back.??? (link)
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Like the person below me said he can appeal to child services. you have to either drop the charges of him not paying his child support then they may not suspend it. Or you or him can tell them what he's doing which he is trying to get a job. If they take his licenses away then he cant get a job therfor he cant pay child support. Better chances of him not getting his licenses suspended is if you say something to child services since he is suppsoed to be paying you the child support. My mom has been going through this. She talked to child services and told them he was getting a job and stuff so they didnt suspend them.
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what are some side effects of birth control? i know it probably changes from person to person, but what are some.. thanks (link)
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Just adding something they forgot..you can also gain weight from the pill.
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Well today I had sex for the first time with my boyfriend, and now every time I touch down "there" it hurts. It hurts around where the clitoris is.. Between the clitoris and the foreskin. Is that Normal? Every time he rubs it or fingers me that area hurts for a day or two. Is it because he's doing it too hard or is there something wrong with me??
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Theres nothing wrong with you at all. He just needs to take it a little more gentle. The first couple times for everything hurts because your tight after you get loosen'd up it wont hurt as bad or at all. Just ask him to take it gentle(the pain wont be as bad afterwards) or just dont do anything until after the pain goes away.
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(my chest)
im super flat,its not even funny. how do you get bigger boobs, without getting plastic surgery and such. is there anything natural you can do?
and please don't say i should just accept myself, and live with it. (link)
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Like everyone said if your skinny you may have to gain weight but you probably dont want to do that. A padded bra makes them look bigger, but you could get a water bra from walmart or store like that they fill you out more.
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I see a lot of questions on this site about SEX. I think the weirdest part for me is that the age of the girls asking is like 12 and 13! Im 15 and I havent thought about sex yet..Im just not ready. I think Im MORE mature for it. I dont do it because I dont want to become pregnant. But Im also scared of it, am I immature or more mature than these 12 year olds having sex? Someone just explain to me how they can have sex without any second thoughts. When I was 12 I was like playing with barbies...Im really confused. (link)
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Your not weird or anything close to that. You are definitely more mature than they are. Their just doing it because everyone else is or its the "cool" thing to do but its all fun and games until they get pregnant and they start to think why didnt i do this or that? Dont worry about it, i have respect for you and your decision. Im 15 as well and i pretty much have the same outlook as you. Its good to wait until you are 100% positive that your ready. so just ignore anyone who says somethin negative about your decision.
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I posted another question a few days ago about my Dad. But, for I think four or five years, I've been praying that my Dad would stop yelling. My mom has been praying since the day I was born that he would stop. He cusses, screams, you name it at me and my family. I can't take it. I'm crying typing this. I thought God answered all prayers. Why can't he answer this one? (link)
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I've been there. Have you actually sat down and talked to your dad about it? i know its hard to do it but sit down and have a calm, relaxed conversation with him about it. Dont get upset or anything cause that will just make him yell. Running away wont solve anything that will make things worst. Maybe both you and your mom should talk to him. Talk to a counselor at school she/he can help you. He has anger management issues that need to be taken care of before they get worse. HOpe i helped. Leave one in my inbox if you need to talk or anything.
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My best friend is a 16 year old guy. Honestly, he's not like most guys, not into sports except skateboarding. I've run out of ideas for his Christmas gift. I decided on a fish from petco with the tank and everything (small). Do you think he'll like it at all? (link)
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Everyone likes a fish. but i mean think, would he be the type to actually take care of it? I'd settle for like a giftcard to Pac Sun, Journeys, or any store that sells skating stuff that way you know he'll like it.
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ok so im going to see the gynecologyst for the first time. and well is there any way that they can tell that i've had sex? because my mom is going with me and im 16 and she doesnt know.
will the doctor tell my mom? (link)
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Theres no real way to tell if you've had sex unless you've actually said you had sex. The doctor will ask you if you've had any sexual experiances, answer truthfully. But they dont tell your mom anything if you dont want them to.
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I think I am scared to have a boyfriend. This has happened like two times already, I will really like a guy, he will like me to, we will talk and hang out then when he asks me out, I say no. I don't know why I am scared, but I think one reason is my family. Like I don't want to tell them cause I will be embarassed or something. What should I do? I really need to get over this or I will never have a boyfriend and i will keep hurting the guys I care about! (link)
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Aw i know exactly what you mean! i used to be that way. You could just be scared of commitment. You dont have to tell your family right away when you have one. Just start by telling your sibling, preferably a sister *if you have one* and then work your way up to tellin your mom. or just start out by telling your mom and then she can talk to your dad. You have nothing to be worried about once you tell atleast one person in your family it gets easier. I was embarrassed at first to but now im ok with it. You dont even really have to tell them but itd make things easier if you did.
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I had protected sex on the 16th, saturday. I started my period late sunday night [right on schedule] Is there a chance that I could be pregnant? My period wasn't as long as normal & definitely not as heavy. Is it possible that having sex just made it irregular?
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Well if you had protected sex and you started your period on time id say your not pregnant. Somtimes periods can just be off even if you've had it for awhile.
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I'm 16 years old, and my boyfriend is significantly older then I am. Let's just say he's old enough to go to bars & drink legally and what not.
He doesn't party a lot, but he smokes weed and it annoys the hell out me. When he goes partying with his friends, he'll always call me & I'll just start FREAKING out on him.
Like when he drinks alcohol it makes me soo mad when he calls because, well I don't know why. Then we'll get into an argument and I'll insult him. I don't know what's wrong with me.
I think it's just jealousy. But, how would I overcome this? (link)
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I dont think its so much of a jealousy thing. You just probably dont like the idea of him doing it in general. It could be a jealousy thing because you want to drink and do this and that. Hang out with him more. And just dont answer the phone if you know hes drunk or whatever. Or tell him not to call you when he is. You cant really ever get over it you just learn to deal with it eventually.
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i had sex for the first time today
it was hard for him to get it in for a while cause im pretty tight i guess
he got it in and it was okay
but we didnt do it for long
after i realised i bled all over my bed
more then i thought i would
it was horrible
but i covered it up well!
is this normal?
its like quite a few hours later and im still bleeding a little bit
is this okay?!?!?!!
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Its perfectly normal. Although its different for every girl. Some dont bleed, some do. You can bleed for hours after or even days after your first time. Nothing to worry about.
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so i like this guy i hardly know him but we've flirted online and he seems pretty interested and i am too. but the thing is i know it wont go anywhere. he drinks and smokes and does weed. i have never drank or done drugs or anything i am a goody goody but i still like to have fun! if this had happened a while ago i would be like ew no way but for some reason this guy has me interested in him. should i start backing away? i realy dont want to. could it work out even if he does drugs and im a good girl (link)
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I've seen this type of relationship my best friend was a goody goody and she got with aboy like that. I would back away because hes gonna get you started on drinking and smoking and your gonna lose your friends like she did. Even though now you think you wont he'll use some sorry line "if you like me you'll drink this just once" or "if you like me you'll smoke it" and then he'll just keep doing it and eventually you'll get hooked. Id say its not worth it.
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I accidentally bleached my favorite shirt while doing laundry. This shirt means so much to me. I only bleached a few spots here-and-there on my left side of the shirt, and a stained about 3 inches wide directly on the bottom.
Could I re-dye it? It has text on it so Idk if that would affect it.
How about going over it with some kind of fabric marker or something? Would that work at all?
Please help, and give me some suggestions. Please don't give me "sorry it's ruined forever" because I know there's a way to fix it.
Thanks in advance!! (link)
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You could try re-dyeing it. but i doubt it will ever be the same. Find a permanent marker or a fabric marker close to the shade of your shirt and try that. Keep the marker though because the coloring culd eventually wash out and you'll need to touch it up
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