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I went out with this guy. I knew he was a player and stuff. and a lot of grls liked him. But he liked me and asked me out. So about the first 3 days we were together he kissed another grl. but when i told him i didnt no if i want 2 b with him he threatened to kill himself. so i stayed with him.. later i found out that he fingered a grl and made out with her. but i still liked him a lot. Was i wrong for staying with him after the first tyme? am i worng for being his friend?
yeah!! you know he was a player and you know he touched another girl... break up with him, and if he threated to kill himself, you could always mention it to your school teachers or someone that works there, because thats secretive
sexiiKt -i just asked the sex q..what are red wings?
i dont get why guys would even wanna have sex with us when we have our period, let alone why a girl would want to, most of us usally feel like crap when we have it lol
I am around 5'3 and I weigh 120 lbs..Im not really heavy set but I cant wear like half the shirt in the stores-almost all the ones at the stores i go to are made from that clingy fabric..and I hate wearing that cuz it shows my fat..no one thinks im fat because I dont look fat, I always wear like baggier shirts, but not like so baggy that my figure dosent show, well anyways is 120 lbs fat for someone around 5'3 and only age 12? Please Answer! Love Always *~J|E|S|S~*
another always asked questian. no its not its probably perfect weight n you probably have good curves, id be worried about the weight at that age cept your 5'3 so no your fine
i am dating my mom's brother's cousin's grandpa's son's daughter, are we related?
actully its your 2nd cousin lol my friend figured it out for me
what is an emo?
one of the few animals that can not fly. dont even ask about the other meaning.
A couple of my friends always tell me that im so gorgeous and they wish they looked like me n stuff... yeah, its flattering but it makes me feel uncomfortable and a lil guilty or something. should i do something? or what can i do so that i wont feel uncomfortable... thank u
if you feel unconfrotable ask them not to say it, or say it back to them, tell them there prety, but all and all you should feel unconfrotable its a complement
my boyfriend wants to have sex but I don't know if I'm ready what should I do?
tell him that, if he cant appreciate that, then hes not the one for you, theres not reason a guy cant wait a lil longer
Im really depressed right now..and i dunno why..its weird. How do i cope with it?
be around people, that always helped me, just to be with someone, though hotlines could help, you should keep yourself busy, it should keep your mind off of things, or give your self a goal, like if you like running! give yourself a goal to run so many times a day or somthing
ok, what is the best way to reject a guy without giving the "lets not ruin our friendship" speech and not making them hate you? THANKS :)
annie
xoxoxo
(15, f)
just say your not into him that way, or you need to get to know him more, i mean theres no really good exscuse that wont hurt him, but id rather be told the truth then a lie by a guy
i have recently been going out wit this guy i am totally in love with. he has cheated on me b4 but that was after i broke up with him. The first time we started going out everything was perfect and he told me he loved me and you could really tell he meant it. But we got in a huge arguement and he called me a bitch so i dumped him. He begged and begged me 2 take him bak but i wouldnt. Latley weve been goin out on and off and he cheats on me sumtimes. Is he doing this just to get bak at me or is he just not into me?
maybe he just cant get his shyt straight, i had a guy like that, and i kept going out with him, but girl, hes not right for you if he doesnt just want you, he might love you, and you love him, but you need a guy you can trust too
i am 14 and i have had sex with almost every boyfriend ive had since i was 11..if i want to or not..is this normal? Advice?
not really, sorry, but sex is somthin your supposed to do when your in love, unless it doesnt mean much to you, you woudnt want the title of slut so id be carefull, try not to give it up that easy, no offence
Ok here is what happened. The other nite when we were @ my friends house we all decided to play truth or dare. I was dared to make out w/ my best guy friend. We decided we would do it since it was just a dare and didn't mean anything. It turned out to be different than I expected. My friend got a little carried away and was really into it. I mean he was like passionate about it! Soo i dont know what to do cause everytime I'm hanging around him I feel funny cause of us hooking up or whatever. I've tried to talk about it w/ him but he doesnt seem to wanna say anything bout' it....well help me out if u can! please..thanks ;)
maybe hes embarrised, it is possible that hes embarrised about what he did and wants to forget it. Do you like him? It could go eithor way, he might actully really like you, when you talk to him about it what do you say? if you mentiond it like a mistake, he might just wanna play it off, of fear of rejection, if you like him you might wanna mention play truth or deare again but if you dont like him like that then just dont worry about it
hey heres my problem...whenever i shave my bikini line i get lots of red bumps every where around the area i shaved, someone told me there ingrown hairs, but what can i do about it? I dont want laser hair removal and i really dont want to go get it waxed. Does anybody have any little tricks they want to share so i dont get these little red bumps?
i get them all the time and they hurt me!, While your shaving, you need a sharp razor, shaving gel and hot water, but when your done and out of the shower, put some lotion on it. Sometimes if i get sick of it hurting, ill just let it grow in two days, unless theres, other reasons not to, and then shave it, it gives it a chance to grow in, and its easier to shave the longer you let it grow, thats why ya dont shave during your period cuz no ones gonna see it anyway, then it gives it a long time to grow in lol
whats the best thing to clean ur ears with BESIDES store solution?? hydrogen peroxide or rubbing alcohol? let me no one of the 2 plz. thank u much!
Megan
Depending on why your cleaning.
For piercings and sometimes infections : alcohol
But for watter in your ear or wax or clogged ears : peroxide
(so my mom always taught me =p)
do you think having an online relationship is okay..... so youve seen the pictures talked alot.. but do i really know and trust them.. i mean would you depend your life on someone you just met online.. or is that crazy!! thanks
~*a*M*y~
you can fall in love with online guys very easily, have you ever talked to him on the phone? as long as youve seen multipal pictures, it usally means its really him, but trusting someone with your life from online? idk about that, not like you'd ever have to though, but relationships with them are cool, because at least you two like eachother for your personality
im thinkin i want a guy thats a year or two older than i am because that way hes not so immature and hopefully not as prude... but then again.. i dont wanna be made fun of or called a whore for the stupid things ppl will assume.. so i guess i could go for a guy my age.. but isnt it more important what i want then what my friends think... please help! i rate well! x0x0x ~*a*M*y~
One or two? wow i've gone a few years over that before. It's not bad, nor is it even iilegal, it's true too, most girls rather older men, because they want someone who is mature, since girls naturally mature quicker then men. People won't think its wrong, since alot of people do it!
Im having this party for my birthday but im not sure if i should invite one of my friends because im kinda worried that she might end up trying to hook up with my bf. Shes had a crush on him before i went out with and it seems like she still does. Ive talked to my bf about it and i know that he wont try anything with her but like i said... its her hooking up with him that im worried about. She knows that i MIGHT be having a party but that im not sure. We are friends but i barely talk to her since she goes to another school. Should i invite her?
how is she a friend if you think shed hurt you like that? and you said you trust your bf didnt you,dont invite her if you think shes really gonna hurt you, i woudlnt risk it, unless you talked to her abouut it
okay so there is this boy that i went out with b4 as friend he was really rough like we always wrestled and stuff and i just thought it was his way of flirting so i let it go when he asked me out i said yes cuz i thought the rought stuff would cool down but it didnt and that lead to a break-up. but now i really miss him. and i found out he likes me back and so i really wanna go out wit him again but im scared that hes still just as rough with me! how can i get him to treat me more gentle and not like"one of the boiz"?
please help me asap!
come on girl just tell him! boys are thick headed (no offence men) if you dont tell him you wanna be treated nice and sweet, then he wont, some guys want a girl that will just be one of the guys, but you dont want that! so tell him or if he goes to do it just say kiss me instead lol. ive never hadda bf like that, but to rough is too rough sometimes
Hey i was wondering what is high school like is it hard fun what?im a little scared and nervous about starting high school will i make alot of new friends do people pick on u.i rate:-]
i cant tell you if your gonna make friends, but most likely you will, theres alot of people in highschool and alot of groups of people, theres alot of after school activities to do witch keeps you busy. as long as you go in with a good attitude and a nice personality youll be fine. your classes are supposed to be also set for your learning levels so it should be challenging but not deadly, less you have honors classes, they give alot of homework lol, but were all nervouse, i was really, because i had trouble making friends, but i turned out okay
I've been really depressed since i graduated middle school back in june, but its not really obvious to my friends and family. Well, maybe it is, but they don't really ask me about stuff, and let me know that they can tell i'm depressed. I dunno if i'm ever going to feel better, and I just wanted to know if anyone had tips of moving on from a broken heart.
Thank you.
time sadly, i was really depressed once, and wouldnt talk to anyone, untill one day my mom just said, Jenna your gonna loose all your friends if your gonna stay like this, and i snapped out of it, sometimes its just thoses little things that can change, maybe you should talk to your mom or dad, telling someone close to you might help you, thers always hotlines you could talk to though, try to keep your self busy with things, it being summer sure doesnt help though, you gotta do somthing to keeep your mind off of things