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I love giving advice, I don't give that 2 cents crap "talk to him,you'll feel better". I know better than that, and if that's all I can say in that situation, I keep my mouth shut, cuz i'd rather not answer than give them some crapy advice they'd never use. Im not gonna sugarcoat anything, if the answers harsh then thats whatyou're going to get. If you want to you can IM me, it's down there somewhere!

I have a passion for music, I've been playing Guitar for 4 years, and I'm never going to stop, I know that i'm not going to make it big, but I know I'm going to always have the skill, I love listening to music, my current favorite is Fall out boys new CD, i've listened to them before they became big, and I know all their songs by heart.
Right now, I'm just babysitting because I dont have my working lisence yet, but I'm getting it soon (I hope!) I'm going to Take and Internship with WaMu, and I'm hoping that will be a life time job, so I'll be set for life. I met the love of my life, soon to be 4 years ago, we met online, and I love him with all my heart, atm i'm 15, and hes 20, but i'm 16 soon, and hes already has his bday so yeah ^^. unfotunatly my parents dont know and wont know until.. *Coughs* after the 3rd kid..but yeah, we've been through everything, and I think we have what it takes to make it in this world, hes cheated on me before, had sex with another girl, but I knew they were together, so again, I guess I cant complain to loudly, I told him that he could have a gf if he thought I wasnt enough for him and I guess he took the offer! but I know that if we've made it this far, we have what it takes. Like they say, If you want to know hes rightfully yours, let him go, if he comes back then hes yours forever, and he came back, so i know it'll work.
so yeah, I give advice to kids at school about love life, and I'm mormon, not supposed to be dating until i'm 16, so they think i dont know anything, but if you guys have any questions, again, feel free to just drop me a question or IM me (AIM: AllyBBear MSN: Patronsaintofsquirrels@hotmail.com)



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Location: California
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desperate for changing.. starving for truth.. im closer where i started.. im chasing after you.. im falling even more in love with you!.. letting go all ive held onto.. im standing here until you make me move.. im hanging by a moment here with you.. theres nothing else to lose.. theres nothing else to find find.. theres nothing in the world.. that can change my mind!


who sings that song? and whats it called

Hanging by a moment
by life house ^^ AWSOME song XDDD

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ok heres the situation..my parents said i can only get a cat if i can find a place for the litter box so my puppy wont get into it when nobodys home. i cant think of anyplace to put it, any suggestions?

Put it somewhere up higher where the cats can get to it but the dogs can't, like my friend has theirs in the laundry room, and have a little childrens burrier thing to keep the dogs out, but the cats can jump in.

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I usually wear bras that are sort of like sports bras but they aren't. They don't have padding or anything. I decided I wanted a bra with more support in it like a cup bra. We looked at the cup bras, but the ones i was looking for had padding in them. I tried them on and my boobs actually looked like boobs! I'm not used to this change and I love the look and feel of them but, I'm not sure if I'm being too fake. I'm going into 7th grade and I'm a size 32 in kids bras. What do you think? IS this too much of a change from my no-padded bras?

no, of course not! plus, if you're cold, you know that issue, you don't have to worry about it anymore ;)

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Hi my name is jess my sister was going out with this kid named rob and they just broke. Well until after they broke she found out he was one of those stalker people. Today he broke into my house and my sister and i locked ourselves in my moms room and he kept banging on the door so my sis called the police. Well they came and caught hijm and we didnt press charges but they said if he steps one foot on this property again he will be arrested. i was crying when this happened cause i was afraid he had a weapon. Im really afarid he will do this agin. How can i get over this really scary moment im scared ut of my pants right now?
plz hurry love jess

well, i don't know If you are religious or not, but i would suguest praying for comfert and saftey for yourself and your sister, maybe getting a preisthood blessing.

you might try getting a restraining order, keepign the doors/windows locked. stay close to your sister.

hope i helped
Ally

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ok, its really hard to explain this without going into detail on the last 8 years of my life, but ill try my hardest- 14/m

I have loved this girl my entire life and we have been great friends, and i asked her out and she said yes. Well that was about 7 or 8 months ago, and she turned out to be a SUPER freezer (for those of you who dont know, its a person who doesnt do ANY thing on dates). She wasnt at first and i thought we were goin pretty well, but then all the sudden she said she needs her space and she told me to back off a lil and slow down. and that was about 3 months ago, and then all the sudden i felt like she had broken up with me cause she didnt do ANYTHING. All the sudden i was getting to feel depressed and stuff (it wasnt only cause of her doin that, i had other stuff goin on too, and she wasnt there for me) and the last week ive called her like 6 times and she never called me back. well i swam over the summer, and i had a friend who i kinda liked last year, and so i was hangin with her, well i think i kinda love her now, and i was debating on breaking up with the first girl and goin with the second. Well, that wont work, because all the sudden the first girl is starting to show just enough that she really likes me and prolly loves me back. so now im stuck in a bind because half of me is sayin break up with her and get over her, and then go with the next girl, and half of me says stay with her and give her the chance. but i already told the second girl im breakin up with the first, so now all the sudden im just plain caught in the middle, and i have no idea what to do! please help! i rate high!!!!

look, you need to trust your heart, if needs be, make a list, put only the things down you like about each girl, not what you're supposed to like, but what YOU personally like about them. think the things over and try to figure out which one you'd rather be with. yes it will be rough, but the later you do it the worse it's going to hurt them.

I hope I helped
sorry about your problem
Ally

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how do you like a guy like a bf but not attracted to him? dont say that means you dont like him or the personality thing because wait i dunno why you shouldent say that. ill rate 5!

there's a diffrence between liking him in a bf way, and liking him in a sexual way. they're totally 2 diffrent things. thats how ^^

hope i helped,
Ally

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Hey this is BAby face i was wonderig if you have anygood advice for hair dues i would apreciate it


THANKS

http://www.more-hairstyles.com/index1.html


There are a lot of real cute hair styles on there, it really depends the length you want tho

hope i helped
Ally

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Hi! (this is kind of long...)

I'm 14, and most of my friends have dated or are dating. I feel like I stand out, almost like I will never be able to date. Whenever my friends talk about dating, I am happy for them, but I just think I'm never going to date, with hopelessness.

I have tried finding girls by being friends with them and then after a while, asking some of them if they have BFs. Some of them do, and most of them don't. I am still friends with them, but whenever I'd ask the ones without BFs if they'd like to do something together (almost like a date), they usually say "no" or "maybe not" or "sorry, I'm busy". I know they are either not ready or they just wouldn't want to date me. Sometimes I feel terrible or depressed about it, but other times, I get a strange feeling like I would want to stand out and not date.

My analogy on dating with comparison of my friends and me is that dating for my friends is like taking an airplane from ME to CA, but for me, it's like walking there and I can't find any other way to get there. I feel like I'm hopeless, like no matter how much I try, I'll never find a girl. :-( I am a very nice guy, at least that's what my friends say, but I'm not sure why I haven't been very successful. I just can't seem to figure it out.

If you have any advice, I'd be glad to hear what you have to say.

Thanks. :-)

Most girls i know (Including myself), have standards, that we arn't allowed to date until we are 16, this maybe one of the things. I think you should just be patient, and most importantly dont' give up faith, you will find the one person you're supposed to be with, you arn't hopeless. Just keep trying and keep your head up

I hope I helped,
Ally

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Alright i have been dating this guy since July 3rd its the 26th today. first off i havnt seen him in 2 weeks and 1 days !!well i got grounded and i wasnt able to leave the house but yet my parents agreeed to allow him to come over. and every time i invtied him over its like no i cant i gotta go home and so and so answer everything and when i got ungrounded and he got grounded his mom said he could still come over and use the phone he hasnt called me once When i call him and he promise to call me back he doesnt. i really do love him i mean when i actully do get to see him we have so much fun together he holds me in his arms if im sad comforts me if i get hurt that kinda stuff and i dont no what to I RATE HIGH

I think you should just be patient. is sounds like you're really happy with him, and from personal experiance, i know guys don't like the chicks that flipp out when they don't call back. if it really really bothers you, tehn you can try talking to him but i'm not sure what good that might do.

Hope i helped
Ally

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Im 16 yrs old and starting shaving my pubic hair at 13yrs old. And for some reason it gets all pricky and when I shave the pricky lil hairs off I start to bleed. Anyone have any ideas on what I should do?

okay, i agree with Lucee, but DON'T EVER use hair removal cream, read the fine print...
just wanted to assure that one ^^

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O.K. I am 13/f and my mom hooked me up with this REALLY hot 16 year old guy named Wesley about 2 weeks before my birthday. We met while my mom's employee brought him to the store that my mom works at. About 2 days later, we were going to a restaurant and we found out that coincidentally, they were headed to the same place. So we ended up eating TOGETHER! Me and Wesley talked about EVERYTHING. I like him and I could TELL he liked me. Well, the day of my birthday, someone planned a barbeque thing for cancer and Wesley came. He told me happy birthday and stuff. Well, after the barbeque thing, we went to the movies. I invited 9 people but barely ANYBODY came except my best friend Becka, and of course Wesley came too. Well, before the movie, I was throwing popcorn in his mouth and he was throwing it in my mouth and it was the FUNNEST time. We were seeing the "Ring 2". When the movie started, we were being really loud and having a REALLY great time. We ended up holding hands. He put his arm around me in the car but what bothered me the most was that he was ALSO putting his arm around Becka, my best friend. I was too bothered but I scooted closer to him so he would know that I like him more than she does. He held my hand until we got to his house. When we got there, we got out and went in and took a look around. Then, we went outside and Wesley picked up Becka and ran around with her. He did the same to me.

A month ago my mom found out something about him that really made me upset. She found out that he had sex with a 47 year old woman. She was really fat and short, too.



I cried because I thought he really liked me. Hoe can I get over him? I miss him but I hate him. I hate him but I love him because he did that to me! Please help!

I'm depressed! What can I do?

wow, that's rough...

I can truely understand that you miss him, but you don't want to see himg. what it sounds like to me is you still love you, but you don't want to. Just take it slowly, you can try talking to your best friend and just try and straighten things out a bit. I'm really sorry for what happened...

I hope I helped
Ally

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