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Justin and I dated for like, 2 months and one week. We broke up because he said I couldn't trust him, he cheated. But he admitted it to my face.
Now, we both like each other again, after being broken up for about a month and still talking and stuff. He called me a couple nights ago just to talk, which he's never done before when we weren't together. He wants me to ask him out this time though, because he asked me out last time.
Should I do it? Or wait for him to? I mean I'm pretty sure he likes me, he's said it and he even purposely got kicked out of class so he could come see me (I got kicked out of class too, lol.) (link)
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i dont know ... if you cant trust him once, i dont think you can trust him again, it takes a real long time to gain trust for a person.. and idk how you could rebuild that trust in a matter of a month.. idk, def seems to me like your going to ask him out again, and if you want to and you do it, thats fine good for you, but just dont get so caught up, it might happen again it might not. good luck. xox
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ok well i've been hearing from friends that my bf is goin all out for valentines day. like were goin out to eat and then movies and then he has something for me. and im nervous bout the whole thing. cuz i don't know exactly what were doing yet. i mean should i be nervous? its the first like real date we will be going on. cuz we usually just came over to each others houses. so should i just get over it or should i be nervous? (link)
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no dont be nervous, and dont think of things that your bf will do for you, trust me, if you hear hes going all out for vday, you want to be really suprised and really happy dont ya?! you shoulnd't be nervous at all! xox
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hi im cait and 5 boys like me and half of them are cheating on thier girlfriends (which are a few of my closest friends) and keep calling me and flirting with me and all that stuff that boys do when they like you and i dont want any of my friends to get hurt and i dont want all theses boys cheating on my friends what should i do??? (link)
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well first of all... if their going out with your friends... DONT DO ANYTHING WITH HIM, your just wanting fights with your friends, your looking for trouble, pick one and stick to it, and make sure hes single =) so that your friends dont get hurt. and you should just stick to that one guy, and not go around making them cheat on your friends.
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My friend, Angel, never liked my boyfriend, Wyatt. Wyatt is my best friend, even now that we broke up. Now Angel won't let me have anything to do with Wyatt because we aren't going out. Angel tells Wyatt to get lost because i don't like him, which isn't true. They're both good friends. What should I do? (link)
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your friend angel could just be jelous that you have a best friend, and maybe you wont hang out with her as much or talk to her as much as you do with your friend wyatt. you could talk to both of them about the other say good things about them, maybe some things that they got in common, your friend angel will realize to be friends with you, she has to at least be nice to wyatt and not lie to him. xox
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Im going out with this guy i really like but when ever we talk on the phone theirs nothing to talk about. I dontknow wht to do it can get akward. Im not shy im far from that anyone would say that but its just i cant think of anything to say can you help? (link)
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i used to be like that, you guys can always talk about family, school, sports, or something that your boyfriend likes. if that doesn't work, try hanging out with him, its better talking face to face i think, theres alot more that gets brought up usually. xox
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Yesterday I saw my friend smoking, so today I hoped to stop her from getting addicted or doing it again. I asked her if she tried smoking yesterday (rumours were going round she had too) and she acted as if it was a joke, said no and kept trying to change the conversation. I know she has told other friends. However, she does know I am strongly against smoking and she has in the past told me that she was too. How will I get her to terms with what she has done and stop her from ever doing it again? She seems to ruin her life at any opportunity- in the past she has been a cutter, anorexic and bullimic. Please help! (link)
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well in the past since sheve done those things, i think shes just trying to find some ways out of things, she probably thinks that her life is terrible, which its not i bet, i just think its a fase that girls go thru, smoking and stuff like that, once they get older they will realize how immature doing that kind of stuff is, so just talk to her about it, if she denys it again, dont bring it up, dont get mad at her, just talk to her about how you dissaprove smoking and your point of view on things, xox
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my mom has this bf and he is at my house every night and i cant stand it last night i was asleep in my moms room and she made me get out so that her bf could sleep in there im just so mad (link)
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well you can talk to her about how you dont like your moms bf, but then again, think about her, she must be happy to find a guy that she really likes i bet, it is her house her life and her room, think about her hun. xox
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ok well i have alot of sinuses these days and when ever i blow my nose lots of blood comes out! my nose bled 4 times in one day! Is it normal?
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i have a sinus infection right now, and its a pain in my ass, i know that sometimes when i blow my nose some blood comes out, just little specks nothing big, but i dont think its normal for it to bleed 4 times a day, when alot of blood comes out, i dont think thats good for your body, so try to go to the doctor if that still happens, until then just rest and feel better.
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Hey
My bf of two months (I knew him for a year before that though) and my best friend of 5 years, just don't get on. They are always arguing and, to be fair, it is him who always starts the arguements. They have always been like this but it's gotten far worse recently and it's coming to the point where I have to chose between my friend and boyfriend. My friend wins, hands down, but how do I tell my boyfriend that?
Ta muchly!
Jena xxxxx (link)
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just flat out, tell him. be honest and tell him that your friendship wiht your friend is worth more, but to avoid this, try hanging out with your bf without your friend.. it will try to avoid the fighting and choosing who. xox
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My boyfriend broke up with me 3 weeks ago. I really like him still but today he asked out my ex best friend. She said no but told my friend she only said that because of me. She told her that she is thinking about saying yes to him. The thing is, she has always hated him. We broke friends because I spent too much time with him and now she's saying she's thinking about going out with him. We're still kind of friends but not as good as we used to be, she knows how I feel about him. I don't think she even likes him that much, why is she doing this? (link)
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well since you guys aren't best friends really anymore, i think thats the reason shes doing that, because she knows that u still like him and she knows what shes doing is getting you mad. i dont think you can worry too much about it, she knows how you feel, and hopefully your exbf knows how you feel too.. its just up to her to decide, boyfriend or your friendship.. xox
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Oh my goodness okay well i havent had my period in about 40 days and i thought that maybe i just skipped a month. I have my first boyfriend right now and we're really close and we were on a vacation thing together..we didnt do anything sexual AT ALL and my mom just asked me if i was pregnant!! and now im terrified because i dont know why im so late and i thought i just skipped a month but i guess not..im definetely not pregnant but my mother scared me and now im really worried! please..could someone please give me a reaosn why my period could be so late? (link)
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you can go to a gynocologist to find out whats wrong, or talk to your doctor and see whats going on, they can get your on birthcontrol, to help regulate your period, not for sexual situations, but just for your sake and being regular. its normal to skip a month, but if its over a month go to your doctor. xox
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i've been best friends with my best friend for a long time now. but everyone says that i'm a follower. i don't really follow her we just sorta hang out. but it really does seem like we go whereever she wants to go.and never what i wanna do. should i tell her about what i think? i don't want her to get mad at me cause after this year i'm moving and switching schools. i just don't know how to deal with this problem. please help. (link)
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yea, speak up and say what your opinions are, and if not dont follow her and do what she wants to do, make your last year worth while and do things YOU want to do. i dont think she will get mad, and if she does, shes a lame friend, because you have to suck it up and do what she wants to do sometimes, ya know? be honest and say how you feel.
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as said on the subject i have a plugged nose and a soar throat.. the end part of my throat is really really itchy and i can't make it stop ='( and my ears hurt they feel kinda really itchy too i've been rubbing it with a qtip buh it doesn't work wut else can i do? what kinda medicine shud i take? is buckleys good? they advertise it alot.. plz help.. thx (link)
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try some kind of cold medicine that you can take over the counter, you might just have an ear infection because of your ear being sore and kinda itchy, what i do is get a heating pad and sleep with that on my pillow and it gets rid of them, lol idk how tho! just get some rest, it usually helps with medicine. xox
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im ADDICTED to sex. If I don't have it in less than at least a month, my stomach starts hurting, I become depressed..and everything. I know this sounds so stupid and don't call me a slut please...is this normal? or...what can i do to maybe hold my urge in? Because about every weekend I have sex (but with the same guy I always do it with) I`m also pregnate..and my hormones are going EXTRA crazy..15/f HELP!!!!!!! (link)
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oh dear, sex can be good but your def not addicted to it, and your stomache isn't hurting because you NEED sex, its because your pregnant... duhhh use protection, jeez.. tell someone and i hope that your parents and your bf knows that you are.. i hope that hes your boyfriend.. its okay to have sex i guess.. since u want it and all.... ever hear of masturbating... look no side effects you cant get pregnant =o!! oh my! so yea !!
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How exactly can my boyfriend and i have some privacy without his sister or anyone watching us or barging in on us? not like..sexually..like just so we can have time together. Thanks! (link)
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try leaving the house, i dont think your mom would make her tag along with you guys.. go to the movies or the mall, someplace where you guys can be alone without your sister, just somewhere to have some fun being together. xox
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i want to pierce my belly button but im not sure how to. someone who has pierced their belly button and didnt get infected please tell me how to do it and i was planning to pierce it with a safety pin, do you guys think itll work? please help me step by step? thanks! (link)
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i peirced mine myself, then like after a week i took it out cuz idk, i just wanted it perfessionally done because i dont wanna take that risk of getting infection. i just suggest go getting it done perfessionally, only 35 dollars max, unless you wnat a really good ring, other than that it should be like 30 dollars, all you need is one of ur parents there to sign for you, but i think if your going to do it at home one of your parents know about it and would let you get it done. xox try going to a shop
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im going shopping tomorrow and i want to go to deb because i heard that it had some pretty cheap cloths there. do they have jeans below the waist at deb? if so, how much are they? please help. (link)
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well who ever said that their clothes fall apart in like a week, is wrong, and who wants to go waste friggn almost 60 bucks on a damn pair of jeans.. THAT ALREADY HAS HOLES IN THEM?! seriously, def go shop at deb also if you want to buy dresses they got really nice ones there =) jeans are probably around 20 dollars there, if not like 25, but compared to other places, its a good price and they dont fall apart. xox
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My guinea pig used to be a biter, but he got a lot sweeter. i love him but sometimes he still bites, but not as much as he used to. If anyone no's anything about this can you give me tips on what to do? thanks (link)
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i used to have like 3 of those things! theres blocks of wood that you can buy at petsmart, those seem to work good, they love it too! hope that helps xox
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okay i think i may like a guy...the bad thing is he is a freshman and im a junior i know i said this to my self a thousand of times that i would never date a freshman but he is really nice, sweet, cute and all of the above things that guys could be...i mean what should i do...im really confuzed on this one can any one help me... (link)
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what i can say, is that when i was a freshman a junior asked me out and weve been together ever since, over a year now. so why wont you date a freshman? does it look bad or something? do you care that much about if someone said something about you and him being together? he seems like a great guy, and you even say hes nice sweet and cute and all.. so why wont you date him? huh? go on, go out with him =) xox
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hey! i have a question, i shave "down there" like the whole thing and im starting to have little things that look like pimples but their not..and i cant get rid of them! How do i? Thanks so much! :o) (link)
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yea sometimes thats normal, try shaving down and then up, do it in the shower with the water running, you can use shaving cream i think. that should get rid of it. xox!
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