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This kid in my school asked me to this party and I turned him down because i knew no one would dance. I want to know if he still likes me but i'm scared to ask. What do i do?? (link)
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call a friend that has 3 way have her call this boy and you will be there to listening in but he wont know that you there if you have a mute button on the phone great use it but if not then just be really quiet i have done this before and still to this day the boy still doesnt know i was there
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i used 2 always see matthew in school and hes always stare at me and smile. then i met him and he was friends with my boyfriend and whenever my boyfriend would go to the bathroom matthew would say mike if i was you i wouldnt get up your girls kind of cute i wanna sit with her..so it was sort of weird.. all the time in school he always says hi to me and yesterday i was in lunch and hes in the same one but i was walkin out of the caf to go to the bathroom and he was walkin in and like hugged my hips with like one hand and was like hey beautiful where are u going.. then later i was walkin by and he said hey and i said hi and kept walking and he was like how come you always walk away from me? so i stayed and he was like call me tonight if you want to hangout.. do u think he lykes me (link)
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yea i think he def likes you if you like him better then your boyfriend then dump your boyfriend but i wouldnt dump your boyfriend if you have beening going out for long because you and you boyfriend could have a future
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Im head of heels for this boy (you honestly couldnt even imagine). He's absolutly perfect in every way imaginable. Well almost.. he's not brad pit (lol) but his personality shines through and makes him beautiful. What's my problem? He introduced me to his best friend who is equally wonderful.. and he is brad pit (if you catch my drift). Im not dating either one of them because Im not allowed to date. But it was sort of understood that him (the first boy) and I were together. But this best friend of his has jumbled my heart. I've fallen for both boys in completely different ways. Should I choose one or leave them both to save their friendship? (link)
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chose the one that makes you feel your best and the one that brighens up your sad day and then if they start fighting have a talk with both of them together and tell them thats it not a big deal and that the one you didnt chose will meet the girl of his dreams
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therez this kid who i was involved w/ for lyke a month very physically he was going out with someone at the time but i was his unofficial gf who he talked to and did stuff with, and he promised he'd break up with her, then i come back after a weekend and he's broken up with her, and i expect him to ask me out, and some other girl's on his arm, i feel like ive been used and i should be pissed, so how should i ger back at him? no really i want to burn this jerk, he ignores me everyday and acts like we were never all over each other, how should i get revenge? (link)
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i dont think the answer is revenge i think its talking i would have a talk with him and tell him how bad this whole thing made you feel and how much he hurt you and also that it would be nice if he stoped ignoring you and then if he doesnr respond to it well then you go for revenge
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Hi does anybody know where a 14 year old boy can find a part-time job that isn't a paper round? Cos i really need the money.
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yes one of my friends work at target and she says its really nice there and they dont push you to work as hard as you can she is 16 and she loves it there
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one of my bestfriends just called me to tell me that like one of my bestesteset friends house is on fire..she knew this because her dad is a firefighter..no one knows where my friend is and im startin to freak out..we're doing the paper together and im hoping shes ok.would it be nosey to drive over there?
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no it would not be noisy it would maybe be helpful so i think you should go over there and make sure you friend is ok be a caring friend
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Well my two best friends of all time are going to one highschool and we are all supposed to go to the same one. Then my mom changed her mind and is making me go o another one!!! I REALLY wanna be w/ my best friends and I dont have ne other friends going to the other highschool help!!!! (link)
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even thogh your mom has changed her mind about where you are going to go for high school you should have a sit down talk with her about it and how you feel and also how you will learn better in a place where you want to be
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I'm falling for a really good friend of mine, Chris. He likes me also and we talk about dating.. we've kissed and gone on a few dates already. In June I'm moving back home to texas for college and I was wondering if it's really a good idea to date him when I'm leaving in 3-4 months. I think I know the right answer, but I'm torn and curious as to what everyone else thinks.
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if your going back home to texas only for a few months take him with you make it a road trip but if you are staying there permanitly then dont make the move of going out with him long term relashonships dont usually work out
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i was going out with this guy john secretly (i broke up with him though) b/c my friend alexia said taht if i went out with him then she would turn everybody against me. i didn't think that was fair so i went out with him secretly. but she found out and so did the whole school. i denied it but john didn't. everyone beleved me. but then my friend set me up and alexia was on the line listening. now she is REALLY PISSED at me. she is hella mad and might drop me as a friend and turn the whole school against me. she even said she was thinkn about it. i dont know what to do b/c SHE WILL turn everyone against me. she's already done it to some people. i just really dont know what to do. im not blaming anyone but myself. Please what should i do??!! (link)
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i think you should invite your friend over after school one day and have a little talk with her and tell her how you feel about the situation tell her the only reason you did it is because you thoght it was unfair that you couldnt go out with him not to ruin your friendship and also tell her that you are sorry for doing something behind her back and then if she is a good enough friend she will forgive you and stop turning everyone agaginst you
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What are some signs that a guy is going to break up with you? (link)
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one of the most important signs are that he doesnt call you much anymore like he used to and you always call him and he always says he cant talk
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me and my boyfriend fight on and off all the time we never het along ne more but i love him i have been with him for almost 2 years and i almost had a kid with him but he treats me really bad. He yells at me all the time and calls me really mean, hurtful names he hurts me so bad sometimes that i cry and sometimes cry myself to sleep he means the world to me but he always makes me feel like i am nothing and puts me down all the time. Ihave tried to kill myself before because he has made me feel so bad about myself. I am so confused and i dont know what to do please help me WHAT DO I DO? (link)
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well 1. dont ever kill yourself over a man
and my advice to you is: tell him how you feel and if he doesnt respond to it good then he is not the one for you no man is worht your tears always remember that and is he calls you more hurtful names when you tell him dump him on the spot
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Ok, I really like this guy at my school. In a couple weeks there is going to be a dance and I really want to ask this guy out. But I have self esteem and dont think that Im pretty enough and am afraid of rejection. All my friends keep telling me that I should go for it. But Im very very VERY nervous. What do I do? (link)
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i think you should just take the chance the worst thing he can do is say no but but another suggestion is to ask a female friend to give you a makeover and see if you like it for the dance or w.e but you might not be into that kind of stuff well i hope i helped
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i just found out my boyfriend is gay...this is so weird...what do i do? i still love him a lot and just "being friends" would be really awkward ...im so confused! (link)
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i think even tho how akward it can be to be just friends i think you should take the route because i have heard the gay guys marry woman and not have sex with them...
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I've just started gym class, & she said we're NOT allowed piercings what so ever, even ear. & your not allowed to cover it up or anything. i have 2 of my piercings in my cartilidge, i can take my other ones in my lobe out but not my cartilidge because it'll close and i won't be able to get it back in anyways. I start it tomorrow. and i really duno what to do. I dont want to take them out because I don't want to have to get them repierced. My mom said thats really stupid & she said I won't have to take them out. What should I do? (link)
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i think you should have your mom write a note about the piercing situation i know because im a cheerleader and i have one piercing in my cartledge and i was told i had to take it out so i had my mom write a note and all my problems were solved
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My friend's mom works in school with her..and shes strict about guys with her. My friend isnt allowed to date african americans..but get this..her mom is married to man from afghanistan and her mom is white! So i think its really unfair that her mom is being racist while SHE married outside of her race. I feel really bad..is there anything i can do? (link)
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i think maybe you should tell your friend the way you feel about this and who knows maybe she feels the same way and then tell your friend that she should talk to her mom about this and maybe her mom will come around
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cAiT*
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Hey, I have really really sensitive skin and dry hair. I can't find a good shampoo and conditioner that my skin/scalp won't react to ( a lot of the perfumes etc) and will make my hair look full and rich. Do any of you know a good "natural" shampoo and conditioner that works really well for my type of hair? Thanks. (link)
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i use this stuff called deepshine and its by rusk it works really good for my hair it has like sea kelp stuff in it and you can get it at like boston beauty or sally beauty
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cAiT*
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me and ryan* have been dating for about 6 months now. these past two weeks, it seems like he's been hitting me a lot lately. i mean, half the time we're joking.. but he's been kicking me.. we were walking down the hallway and i said something to him, a joke.. and he kicked me in the back of the leg.. i couldn't walk right the rest of the day.. he kicked my other leg yesterday before algebra ended.. and today, my friend jacki was over and he kicked me in the hip (very bony) so i started to cry and all. is he considered abusive ? what do i do ? (link)
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you shouldnt have to put up with that shit if he is gunna hurt you and make you cry then just dump him a.s.a.p its best for you
and remember no man is worth your tears
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Hey I have dark brown hair and I was wondering if I should put blonde highlights in them? I have done it before for like 2 years and then I stopped for some reason. I was wondering if blonde highlights are still in or should I leave my hair dark brown. Oh and I'm kinda sick of blonde so what other colors can I put in my hair. I have a pic on my column its xo_sherry_ox :) (link)
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well i have dark brown ahir adn i added redish highlights to it and i have been doing it for about 2 years and now i miss my dark brown hair and i was i never did it and now i have to wait for teh redish color to grow out so if i were u i wouldnt dye your hair
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--16.f-- There's this guy, in my school (let's call him Tom?) well..I am on the school swim team, and so is Tom..He flirts with every single girl he can, and ofcourse, I'm included amoung these girls. But he doesnt flirt the same way with me as he does with the other ones. He gets..more into it, I guess. Everyone says that he likes me all and I like the attention. But like he just can't be trusted and he's one of those guys who you think is going to grow up to be a prostitute..but I kind of like him..what should I do?
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i think that he justt joined the swim team to see girls in bathing suits so if i were u tell the swim coach that he bothers you and get his ass kicked off the team!
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Okay...well i know this is weird..but i definetly need help lol. See everytime theres like a hott guy or jus even a cute one that like talks to me or is looking at me, even jus for a second, i start to turn red. AND the worst part is i don't even like them! I mean maybe it's because im shy...but im not really that shy. I don't know wat to do about it...but like i can feel my face get red, and when they're lookin at me i get embarrassed cuz know that they can see my face red... So wat can i do to make it stop...or at least control is better?!!
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just chill out and get some self confidence and that shoudl do the trick!
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