Hi, my names Melanie.
I'm fifteen years old.
I love fashion, hanging out with my friends,
and drawing and writing along with a bunch of other stuff.
I used to have an old account here that was quite known for awhile,
but I sort of just lost touch with it,
so I decided to make a new one.
I'll try and help you the best I can,
just hopefully I didn't lose touch with my good advice, haha.
And feel free to IM me with your problem too.
I also put my myspace in a link down below,
if you ever want to add me & talk.
But incase you don't see it or something, it's:
www.myspace.com/themelinat0r
Website: my myspace!
E-mail: melledisko@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Pittsburgh
Occupation: student.
Age: 15
AIM: mel le disko
Member Since: July 2, 2006
Answers: 1503
Last Update: August 9, 2008
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how do you make holes in your jeans
do you just cut them or what? ;/ (link)
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what i've done in the past ( and i've had people ask me if i bought them or made them before cause it apparently looked like i bought them that way so that's good ), is:
i take scissors and cut little holes into where i want the rips to be, and then i slowly start to tear the fabric. not TOO huge though, because after time and the more you wear the jeans, the holes'll start to spread farther and you don't want huge huge rips.
then, for a more ripped effect, you can also take a razor or a cheese grater or something like that and rub it on the pants to make that scratchy, ripped kind of look.
i hope i helped.
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well on this site i answered a persons question and even elaborated on it and they gave me a 2 what is that? (link)
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i've had this happen to me before. usually whenever adivcentors give very good advice, and it's not what the person wants to hear, they give them a low rating. i find it stupid because they came on this site, asking for other's advice, and they should be open to all forms of advice. if they're not going to listen to what you have to say because they don't like it, they should just ask themselves their own advice and follow that.
if you feel you really gave a great effort, and you recieved a low rating and want to file a abuse report, that is always possible.
i hope i helped.
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i was reading that persons question below me nd i was wonderin what would happen if u did have an overdose? like i kno stomache bleeing, but like what is that.. nd like does it hurt and stuff? (link)
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I went to Wikipedia.com, and I searched up "overdose" on there, and these are the syptoms I got:
Symptoms of overdose occur in various forms:
Exaggerated form of normal action (e.g., sleepiness on antiepileptics, hypoglycemia on insulin)
Other effects due to chemical properties of the medication (e.g., metabolic acidosis in aspirin, liver failure due to paracetamol)
Non-specific symptoms due to central nervous system irritation (e.g., confusion, vertigo, nausea, vomiting, delirium, seizures).
As you can read with the vomiting and seizures, I'm sure it hurts very much.
I hope I helped.
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ive been really depresed lately and i just took 5 motrin in about 2 1/2 hrs. is that bad??? (link)
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As long as its junior strength or mortin IB, you should be fine. I wouldn't reccommend you to keep doing this though everytime you get depressed. There's other ways to solve depression or cope with it. Try writing something down on paper ; maybe a journal? Or just talk to your parents or your friend or someone or listen to music that can relate to your emotions right now.
Taking things isn't the way to cope with things ; in the end, it really just leaves you with even MORE problems. Like what if you were to overdose? That's a scary thought.
I hope I helped.
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Okay well this going to sound werid but I have this internet boyfriend he use to live by me but he moved and like now im datting him and i really want his number but im afraid to ask him and like I don't know how to like ask him like being all nice and not tring to be like I want it so bad ya kno? and what should I say. And I'm also kinda like afriad to hear his voice so what do i do to like make this fear go away. can someone plz help me. (link)
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I can understand the nervousness, but all you gotta do is play it cool. :] Just take some deep breaths before you say it to him, and just casually be like,"Hey, what's your number? I wanna hear my boyfriends voice. :]" Or maybe whenever he's leaving or you're leaving to go somewhere and get off the computer be like,"Hey, can I have your number so I can talk to you later? :]" Or something. Just be cool and casual about it, I'm sure he's not going to be like "NO" or anything, I mean, you ARE dating him!
I was in this same situation with my online boyfriend, I was so nervous at first, but then we started to talk about what we were up to and what happend that day, and sooner or later, we realized we had been on the phone for like, two hours! Just talk to him like you would on the internet, everything'll be just fine.
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I hope I helped.
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Okay, I cant seem to think of this song. its driving me crazy! alright, Its a duet, and I THINK its a duet with Michele Branch and another guy, and its about them breaking up, i can only recall one line, and its only roughly accurate, something to the effect of "I cant stare at your picture next to my bed I'm while sleeping with him" I know thats a horrible quote, totally messed up, but pplease, I LOVE that song and I cant remember anything about it!! (link)
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[EDIT: Oh, it's not available on iTUNES? That's strange. Well what else I would try doing it finding on of their myspace's w/ the song if they have it, and see if you can download it, and just save the song somewhere and then drag it onto your iTUNES ( it usually comes out all these weird letters though, so you'll have to rename it with the artist's name and song title and stuff ). Or, what I use is LIMEWIRE ( free version ), and I just download all my music there for free, and they'd definetely have it ( I know cause I have it haha ).
Gah, me and my mom adore this song.
It's called "Picture" by Sheryl Crow and Kid Rock.
I hope I helped. :]
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ok. so i have ALWAYS (since pre-skool) have been known as a tomb-boy.....(im a girl), but a year ago i started to like this boy. but i would NEVER tell ANYONE....this year hes in my class. AND on top of that, his locker is RIGHT next to mine!!! omg. now, he talks to me. and i like wrestling and so does he. and lately, when he sits near me in a class, he talks to me more. so now im starting to think he likes me. but i really dont know. SHOULD I ASK HIM OUT? OR TELL MY FRIENDS I LIKE HIM?! I RELLY NEED AN ANSWER!!!
ps. i DO NOT want my friends to ask him out for me AND HES BEST FRIENDS WITH MY BEST FRIEND! (whose a boy) (link)
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Hm, I wouldn't ask him out just yet. Since it seems like you two have only just started talking alot and you're still getting to know eachother and everything, it may be awkward for you to straightout ask him out.
I probably wouldn't go around telling all your friends that you like him, cause teenagers being teenagers, SOMEONE'S probably going to let that information slip and then rumors'll spread and if he DOESN'T have feelings for you at the moment, he might feel awkward, and he won't talk to you anymore. And you don't want that to happen, now do you?
I would let your best friend know about it possibly and only him so that he can get the "dish" for you and find out how his best friend feels about you and everything and what he thinks of you. He also can try and get you two to hang out together sometime. Maybe you, him, and your best friend ( maybe even some other people? ) can all hang out together sometime. If this happens, just have a good time and make conversation with him and show him how much fun you are to be around and talk with!
I hope I helped.
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ok. ive been BEST friends with this girl since 2nd grade. then she moved 2 years ago. but we still talk and see eachother. but after she moved, she started caring about hoe she looked, and she started being mean to me on the computer. but when i talk to her she's like her old self. and the most important thing is now (on the computer) she's starting to tell me that i should dress better, and i should wear brand names. but that's not me. what should i do? (link)
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Well in my opinion, if she was your BEST friend she wouldn't be telling you you should dress better and start wearing name brands - she should like you, for you.
Just ignore it.
The next time she mentions it, just be like,"Eh, brand names aren't me, sorry." And move onto another subject. If she keeps persisting it, though, I would talk with her. It'd sound to me then like she might want you to be "cooler" since wearing name brands is "cool" to most people for some odd reason.
I'd then just mention something to her and see what she says and she why she keeps persisting that you wear name brands and that you should dress better and everything. And once more, just tell her, you're sorry, but that's not what you want to dress like, it's just not you. And she should just accept it and move on.
I hope I helped.
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is it okay for a girl to ask a boy for his cell number (link)
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Of course it's alright!
Even though it's "common" for guys to always ask the girl for the number or ask the girl out or something, it's time to show the guy you have some confidence and make the first move, so he doesn't always have to. :]
Guys like it whenever a girl can do the asking for once, it'll show you're confident and that you're interested in talking to him more and hanging out with him more.
I hope I helped.
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i used to be the most awkward kid in my school, but i really really REALLY changed over the summer. and i'm starting to make friends with people so that's good, but the thing is everyone's already like best friends with each other, while i'm just an okay friend. so when all the best friends are together and the okay friend comes along, i'm kind of left out in the conversation (not really intentionally..it just happens). and i can't just force myself into it uninvited because, come on if you and your bff were talking and this random girl started intruding you'd be annoyed too right? so i'm not sure what to do, but i know i really really really need to find a good friend at school fast, because i feel as if i have no true friends at my school. =/ help!? (link)
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Gah, I know how that feels!
What I've tried doing is hanging with each person individually and getting to know them better and becoming closer and closer slowly but surely, and whenever you feel you can all hang out together with more people without being kicked out of the group, then do so.
And you CAN sort of nudge your way into the conversation, but just be careful how much you nudge so you DON'T seem annoying, then, because I've done it slyly before, and they've started many conversations with me without getting annoyed.
Just listen in on their conversation, and whenever they may say a joke to eachother, start a conversation up by asking them what that's about and maybe have them tell you the story behind it or something.
And then maybe even share with the other people a joke you and so-and-so had while you two were hanging out alone one time, so you can get a few chuckles out of people.
It'll take some work and time, but if you keep making sure you're getting to know the people around you no matter the situation, it should work out just fine.
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I hope I helped.
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I think my best friend *and only friend* doesnt like me anymore..She posted an away message while I was talking to her that said "Fuck you I dont need anymore friends" and then she called my cellphone while her friends were over and they were laughing and saying really bad things to me like pussy in the background. Im so upset, Im shaking. This has never happened between me and her and weve been best friends for 6 years. I wanna die..please help (link)
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I know you don't want to hear this, but even the bestest of friends change. It sounds to me like she's a very different person than the person you used to know. As people get older, their personalitlies are going to change, they may get meaner, make different friends, and it sounds to me like she's just been hanging around rude people and she's now become rude and careless towards the people close to her.
She's definetely not acting like any best friend should towards someone, and you shouldn't waste your time with her anymore. If you want, try having one more conversation with her, whenever she's by herself and she doesn't have her friends there egging her on to be mean towards you. Ask her what that was all about and see what she says.
Wether it was truly all her, or it was the fact her friends might've been pressuring her or anything ; nothing gives her the right to treat you like that, and like I said, you shouldn't be wasting your time with her. If she wants to be rude like that with her friend ; show her the consequences of her actions and show her she lost a great best friend. And just show her you really don't care, and you're over it and moving on. That for one, will definetely get to her and plus, you should. It's just the best thing to do in this situation.
Just enjoy some time to yourself and have fun and maybe try and make some more friends and meet some new people. Or even try and hang out and re-connect with some old ones you may have. Who knows? In those groups of people may lie a new best friend. A better one.
I hope I helped.
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Hey everyone!!! I am 15 years old and I have never had a bf. I dont think that I am ugly, nor i am not antisocial. Is something wrong with me? After all, i am already a sophmore.... (link)
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There's nothing wrong with you at all!
I'm 15 myself and I've never really had a boyfriend. Unless having them for a week and in that time never seeing them counts. I don't really think it does, but.. anyways.
Everybody meets their special someone at one time or another. Some early, some, later. Just think: while other girls are sitting going through guy after guy after guy and they're all turning up to be jerks or something, you're taking your time, having fun, and seeing what types of guys fit you best. Plus, you can notice the signs of a bad boyfriend from the experience of your other friends so you know what to do and what not to do.
Just keep having a good time with your friends and enjoy yourself ; you don't NEED a boyfriend. You can have a great time with or without one, and just keep meeting people and talking to guys and flirt. And hopefully, one'll soon become interested and you won't need to go through all those jerky boyfriends like your friends probably had to. :]
I hope I helped.
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Okay well i was going out with this guy kyle and we broke up and now he is like dating this other girl and we just broke up like 6 weeks ago and i still miss him to death but they dont even talk on the phone see one another at school or go anywhere with one another!Well she had a myspace but nomore!It is gone she delted it!Am i still in love with him?Im i over him?I need some help!!! (link)
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I honestly can't tell you if you're in love with him or over him or not. That's only something you yourself can really know, cause you're the one feeling it.
It sounds to me though like you DO miss him. Which isn't suprising, it happens to all girls who break up with a guy. You're so used to everything about him adn talking with him, that it's going to take some time getting adjusted NOT talking to him all the time and seeing him all the time and everything.
Just remember, you two broke up for a reason, I don't know the reason, but it may just be for the best. There's always plenty of other fish in the sea. It's going to take some time to get over him, but after awhile, you will. You just need to focus on you for now and distract yourself with your hobbies ; or maybe even discover a new one. And just have fun and spend more time with your friends ; you don't NEED him. You can have a great time without him. And then maybe after awhile, you can start finding a new, better guy. :]
I hope I helped.
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well i was starting to like guy cause we were talking all the time and then he asked me for a picture of my.. yeah and i said no thne he got all crazy on me and started calling me prude and telling me he would never want to be with someone like me. im like okay i dont rly care anymore what you think then yesterday when i woke up i had a text msg on my phone and was like ilove you and always will. i know hes trying to get action. what do i do. (link)
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You said so yourself, you don't really care anymore what he thinks. So, continue doing that. Him and his words mean nothing, and he's just a asshole who doesn't deserve your time and energy.
Just ignore him.
If he doesn't get the message, just tell him to eff off. Hopefully, he'll get that message.
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okay, i really like this guy named Richie that i've known for awhile but one of my friends also likes him. i think that he is going to ask me out soon and i want to say yes but i dont want to hurt my friends feelings because they really like him too. i dont know what to do. plz help! (link)
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I would have a talk with her about it. If she's not already aware you like him, let her know. And decide what you two are going to do in the case that he asks either one of you out. Will you be both alright with it if he asks the other out? I mean, of course you'll be jealous, but you want the other to be happy, right? ( I had a current situation just like this, and me and my friend reached that decision that whatever happens, happens, and we'll be happy for the other. )
And in the end, that both gave us an opportunity ( but if you're sure he's going to ask you out, then it gives you alot more of a chance and everything and makes ties between you and your friend a-ok in the end ). Just, don't rub it in her face or anything. Try and point out other guys to her that also might meet her interests. Don't rush her to get over him, though. It's going to take some time, but just be there for her, and help her try and get over it, and hopefully she will soon.
But if you two reach the point where she'll get upset if you date this guy ; you really got think of wether it's really worth it or not. Friendship, or guy? I say: "guys come and go, but friends are forever." Eventhough a boyfriend's great, most relationships never last forever, and whose shoulder then would you have to lean on? Not hers, I bet. So if she's uncomfortable with you dating him, then I suggest you seriously sit down and think about what you feel's more important. A friend, or a guy.
I hope I helped.
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I just got a Steelers jersey for Christmas. Unfortunately their last game is on this Sunday coming. I can still wear the jersey right? Like to school and stuff even though their season is over? I know a lot of you will say, "who cares what you wear?" But, I just want to make sure that other people are doing it too. Because, Steelers aren't that big where I live.
Thanks! =] (link)
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If you're a fan of the Steelers and want to wear their jersey, go right on ahead! I see people wearing jerseys from all different sorts of teams all the time even whenever the seasons been long over with. It just shows you like the team, and have team spirit!
And I just know people where I live would LOVELOVELOVE you, haha. I live in Pittsburgh so, yeah people here are pretty big on the Steelers if you haven't already noticed. x]
Anyways, I hope I helped!
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Is there any way to make your boobs look bigger? I know, awkward lol, but i'd love to know.... (link)
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The only real way to make your boobs look bigger, is to purchase a nice push-up bra. You can find alot of good push-up bras at Victoria Secret, or you can consider buying those natural bras they've shown in the commercial where you can wear strapless outfits with them and everything. I forget what they're called, and I'd search it for you, but this is my grandparents computer and I don't think they'd be too happy finding that in their search history, haha.
I hope I helped, though!
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this kid called me pretty & called me twice today & said how he missed me, we dated a couple months ago
does he like me again? (link)
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He might, he might not. This is a tricky situation. But to me, it sounds like he does cause no guy usually tells a girl they're pretty and that they miss them and calls them a couple times if they're not interested in them again.
Maybe try and hang out with him sometime soon ( group of people or no group doesn't matter ) and see how he acts around you. Does he flirt or give you extra attention or anything? If he does, these are common signs that he's interested in you again.
I hope I helped.
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For my bday and christmas, since they're only 25 days apart, my friend bought me a pair of noise cancelling earphones along with a gift reciept in case i didnt want them. The thing is i dont know what i'd use them for.. i mean i know the obvious is 'block out noises' but thats what my mp3 player is for. I dont want to give it back but at the same time i dont see a use for it.. plus i'd feel bad if my friend asked me how it was and i had returned it. Any reasons why i should or shouldnt keep it? i cant make up my mind.. please help! (link)
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If you find you have no use for it, return it. She DID give you the gift reciept incase you didn't want them ; this is normal whenever people exchange gifts. People understand if the other person may not want it, and might want to return it in exchange for something they might have more use for. It's the thought that counts, right?
If she asks, just let her know that you really did like the gift, and thank her for buying it for you and everything, but you tried figuring out a way to use it, and you really didn't have a use for it. And you know how much they cost and everything and didn't want it going to waste, so you returned it. ( Or something like that ).
She'll understand. I'm sure she's been in that kind of situation before whenever it comes to presents and not having a use for them and wanting to return them.
I hope I helped.
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Would it wrong to take a nap with your boyfriend or girlfriend? on the sofa or something?
I dont know, for some reason, I dont think my mom would agree. I'm just wondering too, I'm curious, what most parents would think of this? (link)
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I personally don't think anything's the matter with this. It's just two people sleeping on the couch, doing nothing to eachother and just being comfortable in their home.
Now, I could see why your mother'd be concerned if you two were to say like, under the sheets in your bed or something, cause that might lead to other ideas in her mind, but the sofa? Harmless, I say.
I hope I helped.
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