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omg so confused PLEASE help
ok. so i have ALWAYS (since pre-skool) have been known as a tomb-boy.....(im a girl), but a year ago i started to like this boy. but i would NEVER tell ANYONE....this year hes in my class. AND on top of that, his locker is RIGHT next to mine!!! omg. now, he talks to me. and i like wrestling and so does he. and lately, when he sits near me in a class, he talks to me more. so now im starting to think he likes me. but i really dont know. SHOULD I ASK HIM OUT? OR TELL MY FRIENDS I LIKE HIM?! I RELLY NEED AN ANSWER!!!
ps. i DO NOT want my friends to ask him out for me AND HES BEST FRIENDS WITH MY BEST FRIEND! (whose a boy)
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Okay, I'm a tomboy too and the iffy thing about that is that almost all the guys you meet, they'll feel comfortable around you and just see you as one of the "guys"
It's your decision as to whether you tell your friend if you want to or not. It really depends on whether you wanting it to get out or not.
You should be friendly with him but not too much. Flirt a little and be/act different to him. Like don't act as if you would with your other guy friends. Let your actions toward him stand out differently from your actions toward your other guy friends . See how he reacts to it. He may ask you out or just still see you as one of the "guys"
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well just follow ur heart it knows best but start hangin out with him first
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ok i understand im just like u (imma tomboy but imma girl) you can start hangin out with him more often and start doin stuff outside of school and if you notice that he start doin stuff wit you or telling you stuff that he don't tell any1 else then mayb you can ask him out but don't rush into it or else you'll scare him away
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Hm, I wouldn't ask him out just yet. Since it seems like you two have only just started talking alot and you're still getting to know eachother and everything, it may be awkward for you to straightout ask him out.
I probably wouldn't go around telling all your friends that you like him, cause teenagers being teenagers, SOMEONE'S probably going to let that information slip and then rumors'll spread and if he DOESN'T have feelings for you at the moment, he might feel awkward, and he won't talk to you anymore. And you don't want that to happen, now do you?
I would let your best friend know about it possibly and only him so that he can get the "dish" for you and find out how his best friend feels about you and everything and what he thinks of you. He also can try and get you two to hang out together sometime. Maybe you, him, and your best friend ( maybe even some other people? ) can all hang out together sometime. If this happens, just have a good time and make conversation with him and show him how much fun you are to be around and talk with!
I hope I helped.
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Wow! It's kind of hard to decipher what guys think sometimes. He could very possibly like you, but it could be that he only likes you as a friend. You'll never know unless you tell him you like him and ask him if he likes you back. I wouldn't tell your friends until you're sure, because all friends do is complicate relationships sometimes. Good luck!
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truthfully i think holding in your feelings is stupid, but i really think if u really like him TELL HIM who knows mabie hell like you back whatever you do dont keep it a secreat, just be like "hey i really think you a awseome person and i really like you" and if your scared that if he doesnt like you back then just respect it and tell him that you would still like to be his freind. i know it might be oqward but just feel comfrotble with him and tell him how you feel!
best of luck ----ashley
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